ى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب / To the family of Bahi Nabil Qutub

* ى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب / To the family of Bahi Nabil Qutub
الى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب الذين يعيشون في مكه المركرمة
الى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب الذين يعيشون في المملكة العربية السعودية ( مكه المكرمه) ………….. اما بعد

هذه الرسالة اليكم لكي تتعرفو الى ماذا فعل ابنكم من افعال مسيئه الى سمعة عائلتكم عندما كان يدرس بالولايات المتحده الامريكيه في ولايه تكساس في جامعة هيوستن حيث كان على علاقه مع امراه الى مده عام و انتهت هذه العلاقه بانجاب طفل اسمه ريان باهي قطب. بعد محاولاتي الاتضال بباهي التي بائت بالفشل و الرفض من باهي الى مناقشه مساله ابننا ريان. ابننا ريان قد ولد قبل 3 اسابيع من تاريخ هذي الرساله و الى وقت هذه الرسالة باهي لم يبالي ماذا فعل. اود ان اعلمكم بأني لا اريد ارغامه على الزواج مني انما ما اريده هو ان باهي ان يتواجد في حياة ابنه ريان. ايضا هذه الرسالة بان انا اريد معلومات بالامراض الوراثيه الموجودة في العائله لكي يتم علاجه بالطريقه الصحيحه و هذي المعلومات جدا مهمه الى صحة ابننا ريان. انا اسائلكم الى الاتصال بي باقرب وقت الى مناقشه الموضوع على البريد الالكتروني cnicole77@live.com

محدث

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
بعد سنة اشهر من عدم الاتصال بصديقي القديم باهي نبيل قطب . والد ابني ريان باهي قطب, بدأنا بالاتصال مع بعض, بعد ان عرفت انه الكثير من السعوديين قرأو مدونتي و يريد مني حذفها.

و أنا كأم اردت من باهي ان يحسن علاقته بابننا, وصلنا بالنهاية الى اتفاق على انه اذا اهتم بالطفل و اصبح اب بكل معنى الكلمة له. فسوف افكر بحذف المدونة, اعلم انه محزن جداً ما وصلنا له, لانه يستطيع ان يكون ابأ حقيقيا. لا أنكر انه كان يحاول دائماً ان يكون اباً حنوناً لطفله, لكن في الحقيقة لم يستطع ان يبذل اي جهد حيال ذلك. دائماً كنت اقول له انني سوف اتكلم مع امك و اقول لها كل شي حصل بيننا و عن طفلنا, لكنه ادعى ان امه ستكون غاضبة جداً و انها ستبعده عن ابنه, و لكن كأم اريد ان يكون لطفلي جدة في المملكة السعودية انشالله. ولذلك قررت ان اصمت ولا اخبر امه عن الموضوع لانني لا اريد من باهي ان يرحل و يتركنا , لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله.
للاسف كل هذه السعادة بطفلي بوجود ابيه انتهت. ذلك لان امراة تعرف باهي وضعت صورة لطفلي على الـ ” فيس بوك” و اشهرت الحقيقة انه هذا الطفل هو ابن ” باهي ” , سالته ان كان يعرف هذا الشخص, لكنة نكر المعرفة و حذفني من مسنجر ” بلاك بيري ” و هو ما نستعمله عادةَ للتواصل. و عندما اراد ان يرى ابنه عن طريق ” السكايب ” حاولت الاتصال به عن طريق الهاتف عدة مرات من أجل الطفل, لكنه لم يتجاوب حتى.
منذ حوالي اسبوعين كانت لدي القوة الكافية لاتصل بامه ” داهلاوي ” و عمه ” دهلاوي ” و أخبرتهم ان ” ريان” هو ابن “باهي “. فوعدوني ان يجدو حلاً و دعوني للصبر, لكنه حتى هذه اللحظة انتضر منهم الرد, ولكنهن كذبو علي و لم يجدو حلاَ ” توكلنا على الله “
وأنا كأم تهتم بالطفل وحدها من دون مساعدة الاب تعبت! لذلك لن اصمت بعد اليوم عن اي شيء حدث بيني و بين باهي نبيل قطب, اشعر ان هذه العائلة لم يأخذو الموضوع بمحمل الجد, كيف لو علمو انه يوجد لديهم حفيد ؟
انا و باهي التقينا في أوائل عام 2011 بطريقه غريبة , و بسرعة اصبحت العلاقة جدية, تركت اهلي و منزلي من اجل ان اكون معه في هيوستن تاكسس, وعدني انه يحبني و انه يريد الزواج مني و العيش معي للابد, و على الرغم انه لم يكن صادقاً فاني احببته , كنت دائماً بجانبه عندما كان مريضاً او يريد ان يتكلم عن مشاكله العائلية.
صعبة جداً علي ان اقول ما حدث ذات مرة عندما اكتشف تورم صغير في المنطقه التناسلية من جسمه, أقلقتني لمعرفة المشكلة بالضبط, بصراحة في البداية اعتقدت انها جرح من الحلاقة, لكن هذه الحبوب بدأت بالتكاثر و الانتشار بشكل كبير, و الم به الالم من هذه الحبوب. ذهبنا للطبيب لفحصها . و عندما قال الطبيب انه مرض جنسي, اغضبني كثيراً لاني اعرف انه لم يأخذ المرض مني. و مع هذا بقيت بجانبه, لانني اعرف انه كان خائف من المرض و غاضب لما حدث له ” رحمه الله”.
بعد عدة اسابيع اكتشفت انني حامل, ومع كل ذلك التشويش في افكاري باتجاهه و باتجاه علاقتنا لم اعرف ماذا سأفعل, دائماً كنا نفكر ماذا سنفعل بالطفل. و بعد مشاجرة بيني و بينه قررت ان ابقي على الطفل, و باهي كان يؤيدني, و كانت الخطة انه سينتقل الى ساغيناو ميشيغن مع شقيقته, و انا بعد ما اولد الطفل سوف انتقل الى بيته و نعيش سوية, ومع ذلك يخفي الموضوع عن اهله.
اول طبيب رأيته اخبرني انه يجب علي ان اتم بعض الفحوصات و لمعرفتي بالمرض التناسلي ل باهي اخافني كثيراً ” لاحول ولا قوة الا بالله “
الطبيب اعطاني الاخبار الجيدة انني لم اصب بالمرض و انه لم ينتقل من والد طفلي . “الحمدلله” كنت سعيدة لكن لا يخلو الامر من الحزن و الغصب لانه كان الدليل على ان باهي قد خانني مع مرأة اخرى. و مع هذا كان شعوري لا يوصف بالسعادة بطفلي و عندما شعرت بدقات قلبه للمرة الاولى. ” الحمدلله”
ارسلت اول تسجيل صوتي لطفلنا لباهي لكنه لم يقل شيءً و بقي صامتاً في البداية, ولكن بعد مرور اسابيع و بعد معرفتنا ان الطفل هو ذكر, ما جعله سعيد و طلب مني ان نسمي الطفل “محمد”. بالوقت الذي كان يعيش فيه مع اخته في ساغناو و بعد اسبوع اخبر زوج اخته عن طفلنا,و بعدها ذهب الى السعودية و اختفى من دون اي بخبرني. تكلم معي من السعودية و لاسابيع كان كل يوم يقول لي كذبة جديدة. و كان دائماً يقول ان امه علمت بالموضوع و ان عمه يريد قتله, و لكن لم اصدقه او تلك الاكاذيب, لانني اعرفه جيداً و اعرف عندما يكذب, و حتى لو حلف على القرآن او على قبر ابيه فانني اعرف انه كان يكذب.
ريان باهي قطب ولد في الثالث و العشرين من شهر مارش 2012 يزن 7 ارطال و طوله 18 انش, كان علي ان اكون دائماً بجانبه من دون والده اللذي رحل. هذه المدونة جعلتني اشعر افضل, واقبل كيف كان و كيف هو الان . “أعوذ بالله”.
لا اعتقد انه يستطيع الزواج في المملكة العريبة السعودية بسبب مرضه الجنسي و لارتكابه الزنا ” استغفر الله”. انا اشكر الله كل يوم على صحتي, و ان الله رزقني بطفل جميل “ماشاء الله”, اللذي ساربيه ليكون مسلم صالح ” انشالله”
حاولت بكل جهدي ان يكون للطفلي أب و جدة في حياته وانا بالحقيقه كنت ابحث عن حل وسط مع باهي و عائلته , و هذا ما يزعجني انهم مسلمين و الاسلام لا يدعو اللى عدم العدل , انا أعرف ان الزنا محرم, و ان طفلي هو لي و ان القران لا يقول ان باهي لا يتحمل اي مسؤولية اتجاه طفله, القران يقول ايضاً ان الاطفال هم منحة من الله للاباء. و يجب ان يتحملو هذه المسؤولية ليوم القيامة. و يتحملون كل شي من تعاليم الدينية لاطفالهم.
وأنا كأم كنت ابحث عن اي طريقه ليكون ابني غير محتسب على ” الحرام ” لانه ليس مسؤول عما فعل ابوه و امه من معصية لله ” استغفر الله”

جزاكم الله خيراَ
في امان الله
و السلام

باهي نبيل – Bahi Nabil

باهي نبيل – Bahi Nabil


ريان – Rayan

ريان – Rayan

ريان – Rayan

To the Family of Bahi Nabil Qutub who live in the city of Makkah Saudi Arabia.

This letter is to inform you of the shameful actions of your son Bahi Nabil Qutub.
While attending college at the University Of Huston in Texas Bahi began an almost year long relationship with a woman resulting in the birth of a child. I have often tried to contact Bahi to discuss our child with the end result being his silence.

Rayan Bahi Qutub was born in March of 2012, and he has become my whole life. Bahi has not yet contacted me to find out how his son is doing.

I want to note that I do not wish to forcefully marry your son although I would like for Bahi to be involved in our sons life. Also it is important for us to have the family medial history for my child’s health. I ask you to please contact me at cnicole77@live.com To discuss the issue further.



UPDATE*

Assalamu‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim,

Finally after 6 long months not communicating with my ex boyfriend BAHI NABIL QUTUB, father of my son RAYAN BAHI QUTUB, we started communicating with each other, knowing he only communicated with me because a lot of people in Saudi Arabia saw the blog and he wanted me to erase it.

As a mother i deeply wanted Bahi to develop a relationship with our son. We had came to an agreement that if he started being a father to Rayan i would think about taking off the blog, yes i know very much sad it had to come to this so he can be a dad. I’m not gonna lie and say he wasn’t trying to be “good” to his son but in total honesty there wasn’t effort at all. I often told him i was gonna contact his mother and let her know about our son and all had happened between us. However, he would say is that she would be very angry and take him away from his son, but as a mother i want my son to have his grandma in Saudi Arabia InshaAllah, knowing that i didn’t want Bahi to run away from his son again, so i kept my mouth shut and decided to not tell his mother nor his family, La hawla wala quwata illah billah.

Sadly all this happiness of my son having his father came to an end because a female who knew Bahi added my sons Facebook and i said the truth to her about Bahi having a son, i had asked him if he knew this person and all he said was no and deleted me from blackberry messenger, which is how we mostly communicated when he wanted to see his son on Skype. i tried to contact him via phone several times regarding his son and he has not answered not once. 2 weeks ago i finally had the courage to call his mother Dahlawi and his uncle Dahlawi and tell them about Rayan being Bahi’s son, they had told me they would find a solution to this and for me not to worry, till this day they have kept me waiting and lied to me about finding a solution, Tawkkalna-’ala-Allah. I as a mother who has taken care of my son and no help from his father i am tired and frustrated, so i am not being silent anymore about everything that went out with Bahi Nabil qutub and myself. i feel like if this family is taking our baby a light situation then what will they do when they know everything about there son or nephew.

Bahi and i met at the beginning of 2011 in a very weird situation, right away we became serious with one another, i left my family to go be with him in Houston, TX. He promised and said he loved me and he wanted to marry me and be with me forever, even though he wasn’t quite honest with me i still loved him no matter what happened or what went on. I was always by his side when he got sick or needed someone to talk to about his family problems. This is very hard for me to say but one day he discovered this pimple like bump on his genital area suddenly I became very scared and worried to what it was, to be honest I thought it was a razor burn but then those pimple like things multiplied and he suddenly became in a lot of pain. We went to the doctor to go check it out, hearing the words GENITAL HERPES coming from the doctors mouth made me very angry and betrayed because I knew he did not get this from me, but no matter how angry I was I stock by his side because I knew he was scared and in anger as well, Rahimahullah. Weeks later I discovered I was pregnant and was in total shock with Bahi mixed feelings were going on in my head and I didn’t know what to think. We often thought about what we would do with the baby and how it was gonna work out. After a long talk and argument I decided to keep my loving son and Bahi was with me on that, the plan was for him to move to Saginaw Michigan with his sister and then when the baby was born I would go and we would live together in a home, still hiding the baby from his family though. My 1stdoctors appt frightened me so much because they do an amount of test for HIV, STDS ect, knowing Bahi had genital herpes scared me very much sooo, la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah ….

The doctor gave me news that made me sooo happy which was that I wasn’t infected from the father of my child, Alhamdulillah. I was in total happiness but still in anger cause that gave me proof he had cheated on me with another female. As much anger I was in I was very happy to hear my childs hear beat for the 1st time, Alhamdulillah. I had sent the 1st ultra sound to Bahi, he was very silent at 1stbut weeks passed and finding out I was having a boy made him happy, he wanted me to name his son Mahmoud. While he was living in Saginaw with his sister for only a week or so he told his brother in law “so he says” about the baby, then he disappeared to Saudi Arabia with not telling me a word. He still spoke with me while in KSA, several weeks passed and everyday for him was a different lie. He tried to tell me his mother knew and his dads brothers were gonna kill him, not for once did I believe him or his lies cause I was already used to Bahi’s compulsive lying, also though he swore on the quran and his fathers grave I knew he was lying.

RAYAN BAHI QUTUB was born on march 23, 2012 weighting 7lbs and 18 in long via c section which I had to go through alone without his father being there by my side. This blog has brought me much closure and acceptance to what his father is and what he has become, Na’uzhu-bi-Allah. He will never be able to marry in KSA due to his sex illness and because he has committed zina, Astaghfirullah. I thank Allah everyday for protecting my health and for giving me such a beautiful baby boy MashaAllah, whom I will raise as a good muslim, InshaAllah. I have tried my best to have his father and his grandma and family in my sons’ life and I was actually willing to compromise something with Bahi and his family. This really angers me because they are Muslims and Islam doesn’t accept injustice, yes I know zina is considered haram, and my son belong to me but the Qur’an is not saying that Bahi has not responsibilities to his son, also the Qur’an states that Children are a trust given to the parents. Parents will be held accountable for this trust on the Day of Judgment. Parents are essentially responsible for the moral, ethical and the basic and essential religious teachings of their children. As a mom I was willing to do whatever it took for my son not to be considered haram because he is not responsible of his parents sins, Astaghfirullah.

Jazakum Allahu Khair

fi aman Allah
w’salaam

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ريان – Rayan

ريان – Rayan

ريان – Rayan

* this is what bahi mom told me and when I kept telling her I was at the doctor with rayan already she use to say bahi is looking for a good doctor which is dumb any doctor can do dna , and this is the skype messages from his uncle who sent me a fake marriage contract and lied to me , when he was called he denied ever talking to me and saying that bahi said I gave him drugs to get pregnant which is a big lie … I swore to have respect to my elders but I have never seen such liars before in my life .I respect people very much and I believe in allah but when people lie and make false accusations about me that is not right…..

هذا ما قالتله لي إم باهي عندما تحدثت اليها عن طريق الهاتف وقد تحدثت اليها كثيرا. وأنا كنت عند الدكتور مع ريان بحيث تحدثت مع أم باهي كثيرا وكانت تقول باهي يبحث عن طبيب بارع. والمعروف ان اختبار إثبات الأبوة أي طبيب يستطيع فعله. وهذا المحادثات بيني وبين أهله. أنا احترم كافة الناس ولكن لا يحق لأي أحد ان يتعدى حدودو ويفتعل افتراضات كاذبة
وهيا تظل تخبر الناس بقصص خاطئة عني. وهذا خطاء وظلم بحقي كمثال بسيط أني أوقعت باهي بشبكي أو أنني افتعلت كل هذا. وكل التي تقولوه يدل علئ مدى كذبها


 

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SKYPE MESSAGES
[6/20/2012 2:31:58 PM] christina nicole: Hi vizio-sam! I’d like to add you on Skype. christina nicole
[6/20/2012 2:35:59 PM] *** Call to Sami Sami, duration 21:13. ***
[6/20/2012 3:04:52 PM] christina nicole: i just sent u the videos
[7/2/2012 4:20:51 AM] Sami Sami: Hi
[7/2/2012 4:21:26 AM] Sami Sami: I just send you an email, I hope your OK.Will check the videos
[7/2/2012 4:21:57 AM] christina nicole: yes im okay my face looks like beat up
[7/2/2012 4:22:11 AM] christina nicole: it was a very bad accident
[7/2/2012 4:22:46 AM] Sami Sami: Don’t worry it will get better I am sure
[7/2/2012 4:23:43 AM] christina nicole: on adding ur number i already printed the postal receipt and his has the number u gave me
[7/2/2012 4:24:54 AM] Sami Sami: I just thought if you put 2 numbers. I emailed you few minutes ago, I will need the Arabic to besigned too. It will be the official because of the language
[7/2/2012 4:25:15 AM] christina nicole: i will send it to u now from my phone
[7/2/2012 4:25:29 AM] Sami Sami: Good, how’s Rayan
[7/2/2012 4:25:43 AM] christina nicole: hes good thank god he wasnt with me in the crash
[7/2/2012 4:25:46 AM] Sami Sami: First how do you feel now
[7/2/2012 4:25:52 AM] christina nicole: pain
[7/2/2012 4:25:58 AM] christina nicole: alot of pain
[7/2/2012 4:26:35 AM] Sami Sami: (flex) your strong, you will be fine
[7/2/2012 4:26:46 AM] Sami Sami: Just cheer up
[7/2/2012 4:27:21 AM] Sami Sami: How did it happen ?
[7/2/2012 4:29:04 AM] christina nicole: me and a friend went out to dinner with alot of other friends i was coming back home n my friend was going really fast and crashed into a car and then head on into a post light pole
[7/2/2012 4:29:22 AM] christina nicole: my head hit the winshield it broke and then the airbag smashed into my face
[7/2/2012 4:29:34 AM] christina nicole: did u get the other picture
[7/2/2012 4:29:44 AM] christina nicole: i sent it from myphone to ur email’
[7/2/2012 4:30:35 AM] Sami Sami: Not yrt. It should be inbox soon
[7/2/2012 4:31:16 AM] Sami Sami: How’s your friends, I hope they are Ok
[7/2/2012 4:31:33 AM] christina nicole: not even a scratchon them
[7/2/2012 4:32:41 AM] Sami Sami: So you were just un lucky, don’t let it bother you. You will be oK
[7/2/2012 4:33:30 AM] christina nicole: yes very unlucky
[7/2/2012 4:33:47 AM] christina nicole: when i paid for the shipment online i added the number u gave me so its already set
[7/2/2012 4:34:05 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 4:34:22 AM] christina nicole: unless when i go to send it i can write in ur number
[7/2/2012 4:34:23 AM] christina nicole: ?
[7/2/2012 4:34:56 AM] Sami Sami: If you can’t add another number it’s fine.
[7/2/2012 4:35:20 AM] christina nicole: whos number is that badr?? is he gonna be there when they arrive to give it to him
[7/2/2012 4:35:38 AM] Sami Sami: Yes it’s Badr
[7/2/2012 4:35:52 AM] christina nicole: okay well either way they will give me a tracking number
[7/2/2012 4:35:57 AM] christina nicole: so i can tell u when it arrives in saudi arabia
[7/2/2012 4:36:21 AM] christina nicole: and i put some of rayans pics that we took at the mall so if u can ask badr to give them to u and huda
[7/2/2012 4:36:36 AM] Sami Sami: Cool
[7/2/2012 4:36:41 AM] christina nicole:
[7/2/2012 4:36:50 AM] christina nicole: im soo happy im alive
[7/2/2012 4:36:59 AM] Sami Sami: How many days it will take
[7/2/2012 4:37:04 AM] christina nicole: 3-5 days
[7/2/2012 4:37:48 AM] Sami Sami: Yes we are all happy to be alive, and you should be because there is a lot to enjoy in life
[7/2/2012 4:38:13 AM] christina nicole: have u talked to bahi
[7/2/2012 4:38:21 AM] Sami Sami: Yes
[7/2/2012 4:38:37 AM] christina nicole: how is he
[7/2/2012 4:38:38 AM] Sami Sami: He OK
[7/2/2012 4:38:49 AM] christina nicole: did u tell him about this marriage contract
[7/2/2012 4:38:58 AM] Sami Sami: Yes I did
[7/2/2012 4:39:02 AM] christina nicole: and what did he say ?
[7/2/2012 4:39:15 AM] Sami Sami: He is listening to me
[7/2/2012 4:39:29 AM] christina nicole: ok but why doesnt he talk with me
[7/2/2012 4:40:05 AM] Sami Sami: Just give him a little time
[7/2/2012 4:40:48 AM] Sami Sami: Let him visualize that he is a father
[7/2/2012 4:41:16 AM] christina nicole: did u recieve the mail ?
[7/2/2012 4:41:56 AM] Sami Sami: Not yet, the internet s a bit slow. I have been ahving problems with it lately
[7/2/2012 4:42:14 AM] christina nicole: how is huda
[7/2/2012 4:42:34 AM] christina nicole: did u tell her u saw the baby on skype
[7/2/2012 4:42:34 AM] Sami Sami: She fine too
[7/2/2012 4:42:44 AM] Sami Sami: Yes I did
[7/2/2012 4:42:58 AM] christina nicole: wat did she say
[7/2/2012 4:43:25 AM] Sami Sami: She is OK, Don’t worry
[7/2/2012 4:43:48 AM] Sami Sami: She will be ahppy to talk to you soon
[7/2/2012 4:44:04 AM] christina nicole: im glad
[7/2/2012 4:44:50 AM] Sami Sami: Can u get the Arabic done today or you already have it signed too
[7/2/2012 4:45:03 AM] christina nicole: i signed it
[7/2/2012 4:45:47 AM] Sami Sami: The email si probably Jammed, I still don’t have the message
[7/2/2012 4:46:11 AM] christina nicole: let me send it to myself n then foward it
[7/2/2012 4:46:23 AM] Sami Sami: Ok
[7/2/2012 4:47:44 AM] christina nicole: its sending
[7/2/2012 4:51:12 AM] christina nicole: did u get it
[7/2/2012 4:52:04 AM] Sami Sami: Not yet, I don’t know what’s wrong with the email. It’s jammed, can’t even refresh it
[7/2/2012 4:53:06 AM] christina nicole: wat is ur number so i can ask the lady if i can write it in
[7/2/2012 4:54:16 AM] Sami Sami: The email just came in. My number 011-9665-0550-2043
[7/2/2012 4:55:00 AM] christina nicole: do i write it like that or normal cuz if they call its gonna be from saudi
[7/2/2012 4:55:31 AM] Sami Sami: 05-0550-2043
[7/2/2012 4:56:50 AM] christina nicole: i have soo much trauma to my head and face i cant even think straight
[7/2/2012 4:57:46 AM] Sami Sami: I can immagin, but don’t let it bother u
[7/2/2012 4:58:13 AM] Sami Sami: Some times Zig zag thinking is fun
[7/2/2012 4:59:02 AM] christina nicole: i was saying slow down slow down and i got mad and said drop me off here in the street i will tell my family to pick me up .. i had a gut feeling something bad was gonna happen and sure enough 30 sec later crash
[7/2/2012 4:59:26 AM] christina nicole: and i was bleeding from my forehead i crawled out of the car and a couple stopped and helped me till the ambulance came
[7/2/2012 4:59:40 AM] Sami Sami: was she drunk ?
[7/2/2012 4:59:41 AM] christina nicole: and i called my grandma cause she is a police officer and she got there very angry with my friend
[7/2/2012 5:00:10 AM] christina nicole: noooo she had like wine when she was eating but thats it …
[7/2/2012 5:00:15 AM] christina nicole: but it got me very upset
[7/2/2012 5:01:19 AM] Sami Sami: I know how you feel, later on you will remember it with s smile
[7/2/2012 5:01:33 AM] christina nicole: nooo i will never ever ever ever ever go out to eat with my friends
[7/2/2012 5:01:46 AM] christina nicole: i am traumatized i cant even get in a car im sooo scared
[7/2/2012 5:03:03 AM] christina nicole: it was a small sports car but that makes it worse
[7/2/2012 5:03:07 AM] Sami Sami: It’s OK. Accidents like this don’t happen every day. Don’t let it bother you too much. I KNOW YOUR ARE PROBABLY VERY MADE. But try to get through it
[7/2/2012 5:03:37 AM] christina nicole: i hope my face doesnt scar up that would just really hurt me
[7/2/2012 5:04:33 AM] christina nicole: my brother omg he was veryyyy angry he was yelling at me saying im the only thing he has because my dad died i have never seen him like this
[7/2/2012 5:06:09 AM] Sami Sami: Common, you will be Ok, don’t let bother you. If you a little care or two plastic surgeries are hre to take care of it, but ckeck them first. The could be small and pretty like some birth amrks
[7/2/2012 5:06:30 AM] christina nicole: nooo the one of my head is long and curvy lol
[7/2/2012 5:06:34 AM] christina nicole: and my nose is very swollen
[7/2/2012 5:06:40 AM] Sami Sami: WOW
[7/2/2012 5:06:41 AM] christina nicole: its fractured in to places
[7/2/2012 5:07:11 AM] Sami Sami: Must have a made a little map on your head LOL
[7/2/2012 5:07:34 AM] christina nicole: it looks like it
[7/2/2012 5:07:45 AM] christina nicole: my family was teasing me and calling me scarface
[7/2/2012 5:07:47 AM] christina nicole: or scar
[7/2/2012 5:08:19 AM] Sami Sami: ONE little bit of advice ( It’s soo little, but it’s big in it’s effect) JUST KEEP SMILING
[7/2/2012 5:09:11 AM] Sami Sami: If it’s a scare, you can scare themwhen ever you like to LOL
[7/2/2012 5:09:38 AM] christina nicole: a big scare and a big no no no no more going out to eat after 8
[7/2/2012 5:10:01 AM] Sami Sami: Before 8 is Julli nice
[7/2/2012 5:11:19 AM] Sami Sami: Take pictuers of your self, you can use with your frirnd who was driving
[7/2/2012 5:11:34 AM] Sami Sami: Just to make her feel bad LOL
[7/2/2012 5:12:08 AM] christina nicole: she already does she called me 4325346536 times crying saying she was very sorry and when she can come over to apolagize and i said never my family will really give u a talking
[7/2/2012 5:12:25 AM] christina nicole: and i dont want things to get intense .. cause what if i died or i was in a coma
[7/2/2012 5:12:27 AM] christina nicole: my son needs me
[7/2/2012 5:12:33 AM] christina nicole: and she was playing with my life
[7/2/2012 5:13:20 AM] Sami Sami: My Dear Be Happy that your still alive
[7/2/2012 5:13:40 AM] christina nicole: yes im very happy very very very happy
[7/2/2012 5:14:12 AM] Sami Sami: also make sure that your friend never do this agian, play with people lives
[7/2/2012 5:14:29 AM] christina nicole: o i have a question what in the world does it say about 500 and why
[7/2/2012 5:15:16 AM] Sami Sami: It’s just a dowery amount that hase to be there.
[7/2/2012 5:15:26 AM] christina nicole: what is that ??
[7/2/2012 5:15:53 AM] Sami Sami: You don’t know what’s a dowery ?
[7/2/2012 5:16:20 AM] christina nicole: no
[7/2/2012 5:16:23 AM] christina nicole: but im looking it up
[7/2/2012 5:16:47 AM] Sami Sami: It’s the ammount that a man has to pay, it’s a relgioust symbol
[7/2/2012 5:17:23 AM] Sami Sami: And it’s a must in marriages
[7/2/2012 5:17:33 AM] christina nicole: wow ive never heard of those things
[7/2/2012 5:17:48 AM] christina nicole: :|
[7/2/2012 5:17:57 AM] Sami Sami: C you live and learn.
[7/2/2012 5:18:37 AM] Sami Sami: Aren’t luck that your still alive and that you’v just learned a new word
[7/2/2012 5:18:49 AM] christina nicole: lol yes i guess
[7/2/2012 5:18:51 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 5:19:03 AM] christina nicole: just not lucky that my face is messed up
[7/2/2012 5:19:13 AM] Sami Sami: I want you to promis me something
[7/2/2012 5:19:22 AM] christina nicole: yes?
[7/2/2012 5:20:09 AM] Sami Sami: Just keep smiling don’t let those scare thoughts make un happy
[7/2/2012 5:20:58 AM] Sami Sami: Somr times people get prettier with such changes
[7/2/2012 5:21:29 AM] Sami Sami: Some crazy one’s go to tatto’s to change the way they look
[7/2/2012 5:22:06 AM] christina nicole: im trying but still in alot of shock …
[7/2/2012 5:22:27 AM] christina nicole: im just hoping everything goes well
[7/2/2012 5:22:33 AM] christina nicole: with rayan bahi and i
[7/2/2012 5:22:47 AM] christina nicole: thats besides the pain in my face
[7/2/2012 5:22:59 AM] Sami Sami: Tht’s normal, the shock will be with you for some time, and it will just fade away
[7/2/2012 5:24:00 AM] Sami Sami: The pain too will go away. Isn’t this what the Doctor told you
[7/2/2012 5:24:24 AM] christina nicole: yes he gave me medications for that but there too strong for me and makes my heart race
[7/2/2012 5:25:38 AM] Sami Sami: Just be patient it will fade away, give it a little time
[7/2/2012 5:26:52 AM] Sami Sami: Every thing else is fine, this is something to be Happy for
[7/2/2012 5:28:33 AM] Sami Sami: If you say what would u be like if something really bad happned, and thank God that it’s what it is
[7/2/2012 5:28:58 AM] christina nicole: im looking foward for things to get fixed
[7/2/2012 5:29:14 AM] Sami Sami: Smile
[7/2/2012 5:29:30 AM] Sami Sami: What time do u ahve now
[7/2/2012 5:29:41 AM] christina nicole: 529 am
[7/2/2012 5:30:04 AM] Sami Sami: early bird
[7/2/2012 5:30:15 AM] christina nicole: i havent slept
[7/2/2012 5:30:19 AM] christina nicole: rayan is still awake
[7/2/2012 5:30:21 AM] christina nicole: hes on saudi time
[7/2/2012 5:30:26 AM] Sami Sami: then Night owel
[7/2/2012 5:30:29 AM] christina nicole: asleep all day awake all night
[7/2/2012 5:30:48 AM] Sami Sami: it’s 1:30 pm
[7/2/2012 5:31:30 AM] christina nicole: is it possible for him to sign the papers and still not talk with me at all
[7/2/2012 5:32:10 AM] Sami Sami: NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Don’t worry. He will talk to you.
[7/2/2012 5:32:56 AM] Sami Sami: Why are you girls are always over worrying.
[7/2/2012 5:33:04 AM] christina nicole: hahah thats just girls
[7/2/2012 5:33:33 AM] christina nicole: rayan just pooped on me
[7/2/2012 5:33:39 AM] Sami Sami: Is this how u make ltlle stories in the head line LOL
[7/2/2012 5:34:10 AM] Sami Sami: That’s good new’s means youll have a new dress
[7/2/2012 5:34:18 AM] christina nicole: hahah omg gross
[7/2/2012 5:34:23 AM] christina nicole: bahi needs to get pooped on
[7/2/2012 5:34:56 AM] Sami Sami: Some day he will, he should enjoy the Aroma too
[7/2/2012 5:35:12 AM] christina nicole: very smelly
[7/2/2012 5:35:35 AM] christina nicole: groossss
[7/2/2012 5:36:10 AM] Sami Sami: 21 years ago u did the same
[7/2/2012 5:36:33 AM] Sami Sami: Now u appreciate what mothers do
[7/2/2012 5:37:12 AM] Sami Sami: IT”S PAY BACK TIME
[7/2/2012 5:37:43 AM] christina nicole: thats what my mother tells me all the time
[7/2/2012 5:38:19 AM] Sami Sami: Porbably with a little smile too
[7/2/2012 5:38:44 AM] christina nicole: but its cause rayan has a constipation problem so when he does poop ohhh he does alootttttt of poop
[7/2/2012 5:39:12 AM] christina nicole: did u see the new pic i sent u of rayan he looks exactly like his dad
[7/2/2012 5:39:23 AM] Sami Sami: So he gives it like a bounty
[7/2/2012 5:39:42 AM] *** christina nicole sent 553921_10151857448575397_1952736044_n.jpg ***
[7/2/2012 5:41:12 AM] Sami Sami: Cute little Rascel
[7/2/2012 5:41:23 AM] christina nicole: he looks alot like bahi but he has my big cheeks
[7/2/2012 5:41:52 AM] Sami Sami: It’s always a little mix
[7/2/2012 5:42:27 AM] christina nicole: yes a very cute baby but he get his hairyness from his father not from me
[7/2/2012 5:42:27 AM] Sami Sami: Roundish nose wth chubby Cheecks LOL
[7/2/2012 5:42:40 AM] christina nicole: he looks like rotanas son
[7/2/2012 5:43:09 AM] Sami Sami: Some carbon copy foot frints are there
[7/2/2012 5:43:23 AM] christina nicole: whats that
[7/2/2012 5:43:53 AM] Sami Sami: I mean it’s from the genes, that kids come similar
[7/2/2012 5:44:50 AM] Sami Sami: Is he like a little Teddy Bear
[7/2/2012 5:44:59 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 5:45:36 AM] christina nicole: yes i really want bahi to hold his son i think it would change him
[7/2/2012 5:46:11 AM] Sami Sami: Yes for sure it will
[7/2/2012 5:46:38 AM] Sami Sami: When will send the mail
[7/2/2012 5:46:58 AM] christina nicole: today at 830 am
[7/2/2012 5:48:02 AM] Sami Sami: Can u add the birth ceritficate, I will need it later on anyway
[7/2/2012 5:48:21 AM] Sami Sami: a cop
[7/2/2012 5:48:26 AM] Sami Sami: copy
[7/2/2012 5:48:44 AM] christina nicole: i dont have it i havent gotten it from the court house cause i wanted bahi to sign it on an email so he never did
[7/2/2012 5:49:11 AM] christina nicole: the only thing i have is his social
[7/2/2012 5:49:13 AM] Sami Sami: OK. let me finish my work here first
[7/2/2012 5:49:17 AM] christina nicole: and thats it
[7/2/2012 5:50:02 AM] Sami Sami: So we can say, he is Social
[7/2/2012 5:50:20 AM] christina nicole: noohhahaha is social security number
[7/2/2012 5:50:33 AM] Sami Sami: I know I know
[7/2/2012 5:50:47 AM] christina nicole: how long will this process take more or less?
[7/2/2012 5:51:32 AM] Sami Sami: I am not sure exactly, never did something like this before
[7/2/2012 5:51:53 AM] christina nicole: oh okay
[7/2/2012 5:52:36 AM] Sami Sami: I will have to go, I have to finish many things
[7/2/2012 5:53:18 AM] Sami Sami: you take care of yourself, keep smiling, and give a kiss to Rayan
[7/2/2012 5:53:44 AM] christina nicole: ok
[7/2/2012 5:53:53 AM] Sami Sami: By

Fake marriage contract sent to christina
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405 Comments

405 thoughts on “ى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب / To the family of Bahi Nabil Qutub

  1. Saad Fahad

    lovely child , but to bring him to grow in Saudi Arabia might be something you have think twice about that .He might not be raised there in the way you will like it , hard to get a good education as, and hard to be like in the United States .If you decided to accompany to your child ” of course ” .,you might not perhaps like it in Saudi .Life in Saudi is much different than that in USA,.Women in Saudi are not treated in a free mode like in the USA .Women are not free in Saudi to do what they want , cannot drive , and cannot independent decisions , independent thinking ,,ets.ets..Your man might have projected this in advance and found that you and him cannot afford to withstand a change of culture , perhaps . at least this is my view for your situation .I wish you and your child all the happiness.

  2. Anonymous

    Saad, What you have said nothing but a punch of lies! Sorry about that. I’m raised in Saudi Arabia and I have 7 beautifull sisters, we’re so happy. We have been to Europe and US many times and we never thought about living out side of KSA.

    Take Care,

    Abdullah

  3. maha

    أنتم كذا ي الشباب السعودي طبعا مو الأغلب البعض
    تسافرون برا وتقولون حرية وبعيش حياتي وتنسون تماما أن الله رقيب وما فيه شئ في هالدنيا يمر بدون حساب ..باهي راح يلاقي جزاه بالدنيا قبل الأخرة وتذكر كما تدين تدان ‏
..ومرد ‏
اللي ‏
سويته ‏
يرجع ‏
لك
    كرستينا أنتي غبيه يوم وثقتي فيه أنا سعودية ومستحيل أثق في رجل سعودي عدا أبوي طبعا ‏
    حرام عليكم محد ضايع غير هالطفل وش ذنبه ..ذنبه انه أنتي أمه وهو أبوه ‏
    أتمني أنك تعلمين أمه خليه ينفضح ويعرف أن الله حق هو نسي أنه مسلم نسى ربه نسى دينه قبل كل شئ
    تأكدي أنه مافيه خير ولا راح تلاقين منه شئ ‏
    أعملي كل شئ بالقانون وأرفعي عليه قضية وخذي حقك وحق هالطفل المسكين اللي ضايع بينكم بدون أي ذنب أقترفه

    • Anonymous

      I completly agree about what Maha says.

      You should contact her mother ASAP and let her know about your situation !
      Unbelievable how people like this ignored their children !
      May ALLAH helps you Cristina

      Aziz

      • CHRISTINA NICOLE

        I HAVE CONTACTED HIS MOTHER AS WELL WE TALK CONSTANTLY BUT SHE IS BACKING UP HER SON

    • Saad Fahad

      بلاش الكراهية ..الكراهية تولد مزيد من الكراهية ..كريستينا لم تأت هنا لتستنع الى القرضاوي وكتاب الحلال والحرام .

    • moon

      ترفع عليه قضية ايش .. تقلك كانت صاحبته ما اتجوزها
      لمن بيسير نفس وضعها عندنا في السعوديه الطفل امو بترميه وبيتسمى ولد زنا
      بلا تفضح بلا تقول خليها تستر على نفسها
      والام بتسير محد يطالع في وجهها ولا اهلها يغطو عليها ولا تشرد من بيت اهلها
      لسا دي تحكي
      دام مافي رابطت جواز مالها وجه تتكلم اصلا
      خلي اللعب ع الحبلين ينفعها

      • يابنت الناس عند الغرب هلعلوم تسمى علاقه عاطفيه وجائزه وولدنا الخاسي الي سوى هلفعايل يدري بهلشيء ولكن شرعيا في ديننا الاسلامي ولي مطبق فلسعودية ان ولد الزنا اذا امه تعرف منهو ابوه يجب كتابة الابن باسم اباه وهذا جائز شرعيا

    • soso

      Dear Christina , I am really sad about what happened for you and your poor child. I highly recommend that you take your rights by force and in the curt, contact a Saudi lawyer and stay in the safe side. Do not publish his name, it would be “تشهير ” and you may receive something against you. the case will destroy his father life in the kingdom and if you come to live with him- you may face social and family rejection. therefore I suggest that you think of the future of your child when he discover that his father did so and so and the poor child may not be able to understand it will leave hard scars on his soul. Just work hardly in silence. Read Mahatma Ghandy bio and you will learn how to take your rights fully. you will get the best result from his father with the safest, yet most legal and logical hand.By make it like public, you are not only hurting a boy but his family too who will stand with him , it is about the right facts not about win /lose. everybody will lose if you make it public. you may get it but harder and you may receive familial rejection. I wish that you take your rights and all the best for you personally and your little cute child and sorry if my words sound hard .

      • iuytfds

        I agree w/soso %100.. this website might make u feel better that u took revenge but trust me it’s only gonna make things worse

    • fix

      الى مها وهل كل السعوديين غير ثقة
      اقول لك بالفم المليان ان الكثير من الشباب السعودي ايضا اصبح لا يثق بالبنات حاليا ولذلك يشترط عدم ابتعاثها الى الخارج ويبحث عن الزواج التقليدي
      وانت لا تثقيم فانت ضعيفة ولم تزرع فيك ان الدنيا فيها الخير الكثير والشر القليل

  4. Raed

    Very cute baby, I feel sorry for him to have such a careless dad!!

    Why don’t you contact Ministry of Higher Education or Saudi embassy in Washington?

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      I HAVE TRIED AND THE EMBASSY IN WASHINGTON IS AS WORTHLESS AS HIS FATHER

      • Meso Boga

        SORRY for that sham of him really AM so sad what he’ed done. I wana know how you met him really? AM FROM MAKKAH TOO AND I TRIED TO GET MARRED but it didnt work for three times at the same reason really i hate saudi’s boyz & girls cuz they r zombi haha of their thinking AND I swore that am not getting married of Arabian girls in my life. i saw ur pics you really pretty girl How he was able to lose you ? This generation of boys and girls r sickness -_- dont worry allah he will take your right .
        here the girls thought they r irresistible for nothin loool also guys

      • SOMEONE

        if u think the embassy worthless
        his dad and mom useless

        So, what the point by spreading this ,while u know his family covering his back

      • LUBINA

        PLEASE WOMEN GET A LIFE YOU AND THE OTHER LITTLE KIDS HERE ACCUSING MEN HAD YOU HAVE SEX AND HAD A ONE NIGHT STAND AND YOU WANT THEM TO BE YOUR BABY DADDY COME ON. GO GET A LIFE

      • Learn to read before you open your mouth and look stupid. No one on here had a one night stand. Who are you calling a little kid are you retarded or something? Chris this is the same person who always comments rude on everyone’s stories. I think it is them who needs to get a life and stop trolling on our page. This has to be one of our
        child s fathers talking crap or just a jealous woman mad that the Saudi men were in love with us Americans women first. Poor thing I feel bad that they have nothing better to do in their meaningless little lives but make trashy comments to a mom who is trying to get her rights for her child. May god help your black soul Lubina

  5. G

    christina, first of all u should not judge saudi guys because of what bahi did , what happened with him may also happen with american guys ! the second thing , in the us there is so many single mothers , i dont say that what bahi sis was right but if he acted this way in the beginning what do expect from him to do now ! i dont think that he will respond to any of your calls or blogs or whatever just handle the mistake u did with him and deal with it the right way and allah will be will not leave u alone , and i also forgot to mention that what happened wasnt only bahi’s mistake so u shouldn’t only blame him

    • Noor

      Easier said than done buddy. Maybe you should try walking a mile in these women’s shoes. They do have Allah, but sometimes it would also be nice to have the men who are 50% responsible for their child, also involved in their life too. This goes deeper than just “moving on”. Too bad Saudi loves to turn a blind eye to sin. And yes… Allah sees everything and will judge in the end.

  6. G

    يا مها لا تحكمي على شعب باكمله من فئه معينه ! فيه كثير شباب سعوديين راحوا امريكا و حاطين ربهم بين عيونهم و رفعوا رؤوسنا كسعوديين اولهم عبدالعزيز طارابزوني ما شاء الله انتي كذا ظلمتي شعب باكمله في كل بلد و كل شعب و كل مكان ناس كويسه و ناس العكس تماما و الغالبيه هي الناس اللي فيهم الخير ،، لكن الناس تشهر بالسيء و تنسى الطيب عشان كذا مو بعض الناس مو حاسين بوجودهم

    رب كلمة تهوي بصاحبها سبعين خريفا في النار

  7. G

    اعتذر يا مها ما انتبهت انك كاتبه ” مو الأغلب البعض” تسرعت بالرد

  8. Honest Saudi

    I read some stories , I didn’t like the un-responsible actions by students in foreign countries. All Muslims knows that any relation outside mirage is officialy forbidden , and as a result any baby born because of this relation will be rejected in Arab community. All Arab boy want to get laid with no babies!.

    However, any Male decide to make that relationship shall be accountable for the results in both home and foreign study country.He can’t run away that easy . So don’t stop , tell Him that you will sue him from now if he didnt commit to support his son and try to get that attested by Saudi embassy . Simply, push him to plan to support his son forever .

    My advise , in all cases raise your son in US . I know you will not like this , but believe me He will suffer a lot in Saudi if people know that he is born outside marriage boundaries and they will never accept him as a part at all.

    One day, your son will love to learn about his father country history, religion and values . At that time he will realize that his situation is not welcome in his origin community . Sorry to state the harsh words , but it is the truth and you need to know it sooner or later. So , plan and be ready for that .

  9. Saad Fahad

    To Anonymous:
    Being in USA and Europe doesn’t make you a better person..It is what you do in your country what matters the most.We simply deny women from her rights to be an independent happy human being, Women in Saudi walk in streets like black sacks . It is just hard for to admit the failure from our side to cope with the rest of the world.No wonder why you ago to Europe and America ..You go there to see the normal set up . You go there to see normal people living normal life . I bet you can’t disagree unless you lie to yourself .
    and For Maha :
    you are sitting in your Saudi comfortable luxury home and trying to send insults to someone in a middle of a crisis without knowing a thing about him ..How selfish from you ..You absolutely know nothing about his feeling and how complicated his life in Saudi is ..He is not allowed to marry non saudi by law at first place , 2ndly you are not God to judge who go to heaven and who go to hell,,If you are not in his boots , then , do not send judgments anywhere please ..

    • rude saad fahad :@

      s3d !! ana m9doma mn halklam ! mn al9dma en fe nas tfkr ketha ma gdrt ajm3 klami in english ! hatha mujtm3k esh elle black sacks ! esh eln’6ra hathy el3eesha mahy belm’6aher abdn anyway klamk ‘3l6 mra

    • Abdulaziz

      To Saad,

      First of all, you says that women in saudi arabia don’t get their rights? from which perspective you are hold and judge? Women in Saudi Arabia have the best level of sustenance among many other middle-eastern countries, Although, there still women in Saudi Arabia fighting a losing battle in the name of freedom. Many Saudi singles live and study in the states or other westren countries did not do what Bahi did. If someone agrees to have a relationship with a girl . So he should either accept it with the consequences. Otherwise,he should avoid it form the begining. However, what Bahi did to that poor Christina was totally wrong and unacceptable. Just Imagine that in the place of Christina were your sister, and someone had an an intimate relationship with her”boyfriend or husband”, with the promise of marriage, then that gay left her with a child suddenly without any motive or knowledge. Then your sister came to complain about the situation,,, so, what are you going to do ? So now, put your self in Christina boot and imagine the calamity !!!!

      Aziz

      • Saad Fahad

        How you say : Saudi women do not suffer !! OK ..Take out woman parent support.Take out the driver , then I can assure Saudi woman will not be able to survive.Can she !! .Christine might not be able to have both if she decided to come to Saudi Arabia.She will feel helpless and might decide to go back home surely…

  10. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    in the 1st place “g” yes im going to blame him because all this is because of him and second of all when he told me he cheated on me and thats how he caught herpes i stuck by his side to make sure he was okay why didnt he stick by mine through pregnancy .. though i thank allah everyday for protecting me from not getting disease from bahi .. so religous he is he should be right by his son . and yes i know there are many single struggling parents out there that still doesnt make things right ! bahi now is in dubai living with a girl and more than likely spreading his herpes . my son has the best of the best and everything he wants and he gets it from me ! I DONT NEED BAHI MONEY I NEED HIM TO BE A DAD TO HIS SON AND TO TEACH HIM HOW TO BE A MAN NOT A BOY .

  11. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    THANK YOU SOOO MUCH AZIZ =)

  12. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i had stuck by bahi through the thick and thin .. all this that he has pushed me to do is crazy but i have to do what i can so my son can know his mother tried the best to have his dad in his life … my son is my life my world . and i believe things happen for reasons and my son was brought into this world for a reason … yes my pregnancy happened by mistake but my son will never ever ever ever be known as A MISTAKE … he was a MIRACLE … FEEL FREE TO ADD HIM ON FACEBOOOK https://www.facebook.com/rayanbahiqutub

    • CHRISTINA You know that no matter what you will always have the support of all the other women in our situation including myself. Most will never know the pain we have suffered on behalf of these young men. I always hope that our boys will grow up loving each other as family. You are a strong woman and a wonderful mom :)

    • shahed

      saudi’s will never recognize kids out side of marriage the will go to the orphanage for kids born outside of marriage. you will never the see saudi passport not the embassy will do anything. you all girls keep dreaming. your kids are us not saudi

      • Your an idiot and you know nothing!!!! Yes our children are saudi!!! You are just angry that we are making things change in KSA and your men can not hide like a small coward anymore. I pray that you never have any children, you would make a horrible mom.

        Chris this is the same person who claimed to be with bahi and claimed to be raji’s wife. This person is a troll who has nothing better to do with their day. I think this might be one of our child’s fathers pretending to be someone else again. If these are the kinds of comments they make under different names like a coward troll I am going to stop publishing their comments.

      • Maxi

        I have been following this blog for awhile now. I keep hoping for some type of positive resolution. But I can’t see it happening. Part of what Shahed says is true, I doubt the nationality will be given to these children. As they were born in the US, they are lucky enough to get it by birth. It doesn’t work that way here. Even families who have lived here 200 years have not recieved the nationality, they can be asked to leave anytime and they may also loose their $$ and property. It is an unsafe environment. As these children are orn out of wedlock, if they accept these children it is an admission of sin. Then they would have to accept the fallout from that. They are a very cowardly race and do not like confrontation of any kind. The men are loud,manipulative, passive aggressive and lie by omission. (Not all but a lot :S) How do I know? because I am married to one and he has these traits in varying degrees. Why am I married because it took time for some of these behaviors to come to the forefront.They will always resort to the behavior of their upbringing regardless of how openminded he may seem. After they have had their fun in the West they will come home to criticize the Western society. Hypocrisy at its best.

      • Glitterysky

        Believe me your society is not perfect honey. You think Saudis live in a glass house? Please!! My baby’s father is from a strict village from Abha and even he told me that many times women (SAUDI WOMEN) get pregnant without marriage!! So her parents quickly get her married!! To hide everything!! So don’t give that bull that “oh Saudis are perfect they don’t accept children outside of wedlock”. We are all human !! And we all deserve a life and to know our families and our roots!!

  13. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i dont think some of these people commenting know what ive grown through dealing with bahi and having a child alone and my son looking exactly like his father some of these people maybe even know bahi but i know the truth about bahi …. i use to live with him … thanks beautiful

  14. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i meant dont know !

  15. Kholoud

    Honey, believe me your child is better off without his dad, his dad sounds like a dick and you don’t want your kid to turn out fucked up like him.

    Consider yourself lucky not to be in Saudi Arabia because the court will give the father the custody even if he’s a fuck up who can’t sort his shit together and allow you weekly visits only.

    I know Bahi’s type because there are a lot of guys like him in KSA who abandon their kids when they divorce their moms but Saudi women don’t take it to the court and try their best to provide for their kids without asking their fathers. because taking it to the court means losing your kids.

    Now think about this, Bahi was raised in a fucked up society where it’s Okay for the dad to ban his children from seeing their moms and it takes the mother years in the court to take her kids back or force the father to drive them to weekly visits to their mother .. If I was in your place I would be happy to get rid of that fucker ,, you don’t need him in your son’s life.

    and to the people pretending Saudi Arabia is a heaven for women SHUT THE FUCK UP! I’m a Saudi woman. Saad was right .. It sucks to be a woman in Saudi Arabia and this is coming from someone who lives in an open minded Saudi family but the laws and the way the society treats women is the worst.

    • Saad Fahad

      She will be lucky if she gets weekly visitations ,,That never happens ,,Visit are rare.This is rue from many true stories not from my head.

    • fix

      الى خلود
      هداك الله الى البصيرة
      المجتمع السعودي ليس كله سيء والمسلمون بعضهم سيء والبعض كله خير
      انظري الى النصف المملؤ من الكأس
      متعك الله بالحياة الطيبة
      ودائما اعطي صورة حسنىة لمجتمعك ووطنك لانه في الاخير مكون منك ومن عائلتك

  16. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    everyone is entitled to there own opinion but as fucked up as bahi is my son needs to know his father .. yes bahi is A ******* but besides the point no matter what my son needs to have his saudi family in his life

    • Saad Fahad

      I don’t (((think ))) your son is gonna be needing a lost dad ..He is gonna be needing love via you and whoever loves you.

  17. Kholoud

    I get it and good luck with that. I only have one advice for you take it or leave it NEVER bring your kid to Saudi Arabia because if his dad/ or his dad’s family decided to take him forever then that’s their chance and the law would be on their side.

    • So true Kholoud never ever bring your child to KSA under our circumstances. American courts favour the women while Saudi Arabia WILL give custody to the father.

    • advisor

      or they will make a lie about her and land her in big shit ie prison or deportation and that is not an exageration

  18. I agree with kholoud, the situation in Saudi is ****** up. Don’t ever bring him to this country. We have no rights which can protect you and your son. If you arranged something with his dad let it be in the US or in a third country like Dubai or something, that my advice.
    Honestly I’m really sorry that you were stuck with this reckless foolish coward. You don’t deserve it, and your son doesn’t deserve it. But I can see that you are strong and loving, and I know you will provide a good life for your son.
    Salute soldier!

  19. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    like i said everyone is entitled to there own opinion so if i decide to take rayan to saudi i think that is up to me

  20. Aziz

    Wait a minute guys!!!
    What the hell are you talking about ! Do not make her feels frightened !
    If the child has the US PASSPORT no one can take him from his mom even Saudi’s courts!
    You may ask a lawyer to make sure, this is what I know !!
    Christina, ask a layer about the situation do not believe what anyone says until younsee the legal side

  21. maha

    ردي علي سعد
    أنا الحمدالله عايشه مرتاحة من ناحية كل شئ عندي أم وأب
    متفهمين جدا ومع أن عائلتي ملتزمة بالدين ومحافظة..
    أنا ما قلت أن باقي راح يدخل الجنه أو النار
    افهم كلامي كويس بعدين رد علي أنا اقصد أنه أي شخص ‏
    يرتكب معصية راح يلاقي جزاء عمله في الدنيا قبل الأخرة بس أذا تاب لله هذا شئ ثاني
    أما ع باهي هو ارتكب جريمة الزنا وعقوبته في الدنيا في الاسلام الجلد والتغريب اللي هو السجن سنه ‏
    وتقولي ما تدرين وش مشاعره أنا وش علي من مشاعره
    هو ارتكب خطأ ولازم يتحمل المسئوليه حرام هذا ولد راح يحاسب ع تربيته
    وتلعب علي مين أن الزواج من غير سعودية غير مسموح به بالقانون
    واساسا مو لازم يتزوجها أنا أتكلم علي هالطفل اللي ضايع بالنص..وبعدين هي نصرانية لو الولد ظل معها راح يصير نصراني مو حرام كذا يضيع الولد

    • Saad Fahad

      Maha
      You know if you give dad your ” lashes” ,that only make matters worse for the kid..Please be compassionate with mother who seeks nothing more than love .Don’t give lashes ..This is last thing the mother wants to have for her son dad .Your lashes also get both parent by the way .So be calm and don’t wish poor things for the people ..The life is hard by itself for Saudi woman .Do not increase it with lashes .

  22. Dalila

    your son is so handsome masha’allah , i wish publishing this by you and the other mums serves the purpose … and i also wish if the American women out there to think a billion time before accepting a relationship with men from this part of the world , we Arabs are different and when guys like Sultan and the rest go to America they forgot it all and get overwhelmed with the way of life and want to try it all … and adventure brings victims like baby Joseph and other beautiful innocent children …. i hope by publishing this you get what you aim , and i hope any American or any girl in this world learn from your experience and think logically before making any step into relationship with men from outside her country , someone you can’t track or reach …. we shouldn’t be selfish and only live the moment .. if this moment will get bring up babies to this world for dads so careless like that …. May Allah help you all , and please publishing this is a great idea but let’s not generalize the situation here … we have many Arabic men in general and even Saudis who married foreigners and stayed with them and lived normally …. Sultan , Bahi and the rest guilty fathers are representing them self’s not the Saudi nation nor Arabs or Muslims please don’t make this sound like we Muslim Arabs are so ignorant like those men ……. I am an Arabic Muslim woman from the Arabian gulf … and your stories really touched my heart …. but I don’t want this to effect the reputation negatively on my religion Islam or origin (ARAB) …..
    و السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

  23. g

    christina are u moslim ?

  24. Nasser

    I am truly saddened by such negligence, cruelty and abandonment!

    As a Saudi man having lived and studied in the Sates many years ago, I can relate to the circumstances that led to such a situation, but cannot fathom how someone can live ‘normally’ knowing that a part of them has been deserted because of what they claim as obstacles towards acknowledging their own offspring!! I don’t feel sorry for you Christina, I feel sorry for the father of your son and I pity his immaturity and juvenile behavior. If it gives you any comfort, I am sure you got the better end of the deal, with a beautiful healthy baby and having dodged a ‘silent bullet’ by not contracting Herpes from that prick! He will never have a normal life again, but you can and you will!

    I will pray for you and your son, and may God bless the both of you.

  25. abood

    لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله نفسي اعرف كيف الواحد يهتني بعيش ومن صلبه طفل انجبه سفاحا وقتله

    • Saad Fahad

      سفاحا مره واحده !! وهذه الكلمة من اي قاموس طلعتها !!! بشويش عليها لو سمحت .تراها اللي في امريكا غير عندك في الربع الخالي

  26. saad

    الله لا يوفق باهي و امثاله اللي يلعب ببنات الناس

    • Mimo

      استغفر الله العظيم من كل ذنب عظيم

      saad :
      بدال ماتقول الله لا يوفقه ، قول الله يهديه ؛

      اهو واللي مثله محتاجينن للشفاء من هذا المرض المحرم -.-”

      الله يهديك ي باهي !
      ويفرج هممك ي ام ريان

  27. Anonymous

    First of all, you are hot! and he is stupid for leaving you. You are the best thing that could happen to a guy.

  28. Saudi Father

    1st, I feel really sorry for what happened to you and your son. But, you have a great family (your mom, grandmother, aunts) to take care of Ryan and give him love that he need. I saw you and Ryan with all your family (2 months ago) when the pictures were public (FB).

    2nd, You said it, his mom is supporting her son, and all his family are friends with you in Facebook. So, what do you want from Bahi’s family exactly? To know about Ryan? they already know. Money? They will ask you to bring him to Saudi, so they can take care of him if you can’t.

    3rd, I don’t know exactly what happened between you guys, but it looks that you broke up with him after he cheated on you. And, the thing about STD wasn’t nice to mention it in your letter, specially in front of all his family and friends. And it will give them a bad idea about you.

  29. بنت المملكه

    في الحقيقة رسائلكم كانت مؤلمة وابناائنا اضاعوا انفسهم بكم فهن لهم دين اسلامي حنيف يحرم الزنا والجنس لكن للأسف ماخافوا الله وما خافوا من عقابه حيث انه اي زواج كهذا لا يعتبر شرعي ولا تقر به الشريعه بل يعاقب فاعله بحد السيف لكن الان لن يعاقبوا شرعيا لانهم فعلو فعلتهم بغير ارضهم لكن انتم كنساء تخافون على مصير ابنائكم ماكان عليكم ان تفتحوا بابا لشبابنا المراهق انتهم الشهوة مشتعله لديكم ولا بأس بها ولكن ديننا يخص الشهوة فقط لزوجين بالحلال لما فتحتم لهم الباب من الان لا تعشقوا رجالنا ولا تتمتعوا معهم دعوهم يتعلمون ومن ثم يعودون الينا
    لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله زين كذا يا ابو سروال وفنيله الله يهديكم ويستر عليكم بس ياقلبيه

    • Saad Fahad

      سيف وسكاكين وما ني عارف ايه ..رفقا بنا ..حسنوا صورة الاسلام تكفون ..ترى الطلبه هناك كافيهم اللي فيهم تروحوا تزودا عليهم !!

      • Nada

        ليه نرفق فيهم ليه ما حافظوا على أنفسهم و صانوها هم ما يتعلمون لحد ما يطيح الفاس بالرأس رموا مصائبهم ورجعوا ألفالحين. !!
        أذنبوا و شوهوا صورة الإسلام
        الله يهديهم جميعاً

  30. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i can basically do whatever i please he left me with a child and makes a joke about me to his friend so i will tell everyone and warn girls out there what he has it is what it is ….. and “g” yes i am muslim …. anyways people can look bad at me cause i told people the truth about his stds i dont really care anymore .. and i am a family oriented person i want my son to have his family not there money lets get that straight people

    • Saudi Father

      Christina, since you are a family oriented person, you should already know that “revenge” not gonna help your case.
      It will makes Ryan further from his other family.

      • I don’t believe that Christina is out for “revenge”, she just wants Bahi to stand up and do the right thing.

      • Saudi Father

        I agree, But mentioning the STD part is not helpful for all of them.
        The only purpose of mentioned it, is to embarrass Bahi. In in another word “revenge”.

  31. hana

    هههه اجل هاذي اخرتها يالخرفان

    الدنيا دواااااره

    • Mash

      ههههههههههههههههههه
      اعجبتني خرفان
      والله انك صادقة
      واعجبوني الامريكيات بسواتهم وانشاء هاالمدونة
      وعقبال المغربيات والسوريات والمصريات والحبشيات
      واللبنانيات والرسيات
      اجل تلعبون ع هاالبنات احبوك واحوبك واتنفس هواك
      تحسبونهم سعوديات يخافون يشتكون عليكم ولا يخافون من اهلهم
      الحمد لله اللي طيحكم بشر اعمالكم
      وانا ادعو الحكومة الامريكيه برفع قضايا عليهم جميعا وتتولا ملفهم الحكومة الامريكية
      لاثبات النسب والصرف ع هولاء الابناء ومطالبتهم بالحضور الي الولايات المتحدة الامريكية ومن لايحضر تطالب به عن طريق الانتر بول
      لانهم جميعا كاذبون
      وبعد اثبات النسب وفرض المصروف ع ابنائهم الحكم بالاحتفاض بالابناء لامهاتهم بامريكا
      وخلو اعيش حياتي يالسعوديين تنفعكم

  32. أمل القحطاني

    حرااااممممممم حرأمممم والله شباب زي الوررررد ليش كذااا هدي آخر ثقة أهاليكم !! ﺂ̲ﻟ̲ﻟ̲ﮬ̲ المستعان وصلت للأمراض !! الله لاا يبتليناا

  33. christina nicole

    i am not a vindictive person at all i wish bahi would man up and atleast see his son from time to time … i have seen pictures of him partying and stuff if he has time for those things i think he has time for his son so there is no excuse .. he hangs around alot of women

    • Voice of truth

      Christina, if you know that Bahi is still in the US, then get ur rights from him by court order. Sweetie, u need money for ur baby, never let it go. Get this money from bahi while he is in your country. When he goes back to his country u will no longer be able to ask for ur babys righs!

  34. christina nicole

    all of this would get resolved if he came to see his son so that all of saudi arabia can know he is a man and he did the right thing and allah will be with him .. but him just moving to dubai and partying and drinking with more women dont you think he just simply doesnt care … so i want to warn the women wat he has before he gives it to them

  35. حتى لو الإبن جاء من غلطة أو بالأصح -ابن غير شرعي- هذا لا يعني انه يجحد وجوده يبقى ابنه وشرعاً يصدق بهذا ويتزوج بها رغما عنه حتى لو كانت علاقتهما غير شرعية لكن ما نقول إلا الله يهدي الحيران ويهديك يا باهي هذا ولدك ومن صلبك لا تظلمه وتظلم أمه معه

  36. 9aLe7

    ياهي صاروخ بعد .. هذي المفروض تسحب على ال قطب الشمالي والجنوبي كلهم وتقعد معها يالزلابه

    يا نعله

  37. christina nicole

    i have not done all this to hurt bahi or anything but i need him to be in his sons life . i know what it feels grow up with a father and without a father and it is not a good feeling and in the long run it has effects . i want my son to know that his mommy tried all she could for his daddy to know that he needs to be in his sons life

    • saleh

      Wallah we all understand this and it is really shame on bahi face and his family also I wish we can do anything to help u guy’s ):

      Bahi use ur mind f**ker don’t leave ur soon grow up without his father >:O

  38. lama

    معروف ان الامريكان ياخذون أحتيطاتهم بشتى الطريق واذا حصل حمل تجهض وباهي عمره 21 سنه وكلهم صغار .. وباهي كان عنده مرض جنسي بس هي كانت تحبه وتعلقت فيه
    السالفه صراحه بالنسبة ليا ابدا مو مفهومة .. وماني قادره استوعب الضبط ايش حكايتها

    حسبي الله على كل من سوا زي كذا
    اقل شي بما انو انتشر الخبر وانفضح المفروض يتم تطبيق الحد الشرعي
    لان صراحة هذا كله بداء يشوه سمعة الاسلام
    وخصوصا اني شايفتو يستغل في هذا الموقع بشكل كبير والاسلام معروف انو بريء من كذا افعال

    I think it’s the stupidest things that American woman can do is
    To be pregnant of a Saudi man child and keep it

    I know Bahi from facebook and blamed on both .. Why do you decide to be pregnancy from a teenage

    So please be careful the next time you decide dating a Saudi man

    • christina nicole

      you can ask a billon times with this why that why this well look it happened and now we have a son and now its time to fix things as parents and do the right thing is he doing that NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • christina nicole

      listen lama or whatever ur name is i wasnt planning on getting pregnant it just happened . so you can say whatever u want but im just putting it out there… anyways i could really care less if you know bahi from facebook or not …

    • Saad Fahad

      Why she did that!!
      because for your knowledge people in USA are different from your people ..They can do whatever they want in the frame of law..You in the Saudi are afraid not only from the law , but from being yourself.

      • mohammad

        Saad

        You sound like a jerk ….some one who has a problem with his own country … our some with mental disorder.

        Saudi Arabia is a nice and peaceful country. But as for any other place in the world we have our issues , but you try to make us understand that our country is the worst place in earth.

        I feel sorry for your sick mind.

    • mmmm

      ؤآنا ملاحظة نفس الشيء رغم انهم. بعضهم ضحايا الخرفان الجياكر بس. زيما قالت الأخت. إيمان. بعضهم مو مسلمات وشائفة صور تسد النفس. وكلامهم متناقض. واغلبو عن أريد ابني أن يتربئ تربية إسلامية ومن ذا الهرج ومن ناحية أخرى انهم. ندمانين على الزنا وانهم مخدوعات قد ماانا متعاطفة معاهم بس الكلام المرتب والمنمق بطريقة. تحس إلي تتكلم سعودية مو أمريكية :/ ،،ومن ناحية ،الكلاب دول إلي. عملو عملتهم ماكانو حيقدرو يقربو خطوة منهم لو ماسمحو لهم. والكلام لو ركزتو ؤلاحظتو كلو نفس الشيء يستشهدو بآيات قرآنية واحاديث ،، بعد ماقرأت الحكايات. تبع كل وحدا. نفس الطريقة والكلام متشابه نوعا ما مع اختلاف الحكاية وفيه ريبة في المسألة ،، والنصابين ،،،،واضح انهم مجرمين بدليل الصور والوثائق والبلاوي المتلتلة حقتهم ملاعين الخير بس برضو الذنب عليهم الاثنين والاجانب أذكى من خرفأننا ترا. رغم انهم سحبو عليهم بعضهم أبرياء وبعضهم ممكن يكون السبب زي ماقال البعض طمع في. ثروة بعضهمم. لو شفنا المواضيع السابقة فيه ناس من عيلات غنية. أظن خروفنا السعودي جاني وضحية فنفس االوقت. ومجرم بحق. الأطفال دول. والمرأة الأمريكية قوية ومهي غبية مرا زي ماهم مبينين. والولايات المتحدة. يأمما مرت عليهم قضايا زي كذا ويعرفو يتصرفو لأن الولد مولود عالأراضي الأمريكية. ووالدته أمريكية وبالتالي إصبح له صلاحيات المواطنين حتى لو ناقصتو أوراق أو أشياء تأنية ، وألا كيف القضايا اللي كنا نسمع عنها أنؤ أجنبية تهرب بأولاد السعودي للخارج !! الموضوع متشقلب فوق تحت

  39. ميمي

    الحمدلله الذي عافانا
    همج

  40. christina nicole

    thank you so much saleh … wallah i appreciate all of everyones comments gives me hope that maybe one day he will grow up

  41. سهيل

    والخيبة في الزناة عديمي التربية منحطي الأخلاق.

  42. Mody

    فشلتنا يا باهي كان خليتها بكاندوم وﻻ ماعندهم صيدلية جعفر

    الله يستر ﻻ الاقي بكره بهالمدونه مغربيه حاطه صوري

    ههههههههههههه

    • العنود السبيعي

      ههههههههههههه اببگ ي داافع البلا

      • Saad Fahad

        ههه….حلوه “” ابك “” هذه ..تهقى وش ترجمتها بالانجليزي

  43. Me

    Oh my god This is so animal Saudi will stay Saudi

  44. Anonymous

    I am sorry but you are just a stubied to trust the father who is clearly a kid with no responsibility. You weren’t thinking about the consequences when you were in a realtionship with this kid! ( How old is he?)

    However, you have a lovely child I hope that he get the best live ever. I really loved him just by looking to his pics.

    If you really want your children to grow up in a saudi family, you might think about saudis culturs. I beleive its going to be better to read about it then try to act like a member.

    Bahi’s mom and family are going to do something. They wont waste another child.

    This is what I think
    Have a great life =)

  45. Haufa

    I am sorry but you are just a stubied to trust the father who is clearly a kid with no responsibility. You weren’t thinking about the consequences when you were in a realtionship with this kid! ( How old is he?)

    However, you have a lovely child I hope that he get the best live ever. I really loved him just by looking to his pics.

    If you really want your children to grow up in a saudi family, you might think about saudis culturs. I beleive its going to be better to read about it then try to act like a member.

    Bahi’s mom and family are going to do something. They wont waste another child.

    This is what I think
    Have a great life =)

  46. Haifa

    I am sorry but you are just a stubied to trust the father who is clearly a kid with no responsibility. You weren’t thinking about the consequences when you were in a realtionship with this kid! ( How old is he?)

    However, you have a lovely child I hope that he get the best live ever. I really loved him just by looking to his pics.

    If you really want your children to grow up in a saudi family, you might think about saudis culturs. I beleive its going to be better to read about it then try to act like a member.

    Bahi’s mom and family are going to do something. They wont waste another child.

    This is what I think
    Have a great life =)

  47. bana

    لا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله اسمحولي من شكله بأين أنه بزر و أبدا مو شكل يتحمل مسئوليه زوجه و طفل !!! يعني لمتى هدي النداله ؟ مجتمعنا السعودي للأسف ربانا على إن الولد له هيبته و غلطه مسموح و يتهرب من أفعاله عادي ما يعيبه شيء و لا يدفع ثمنها يعني عائلة قطب عائله معروفه عندنا في الحجاز و عائله بصراحه اللي أعرفه عنهم انهم طيبين في خلقهم و سمعتهم أتمنى أي أحد يعرف يتواصل مع عائلة باهي أنه يتدخل و يكون طرف خير في الموضوع على القليل يعترفوا بابنهم. و بعدين أحنا بنات البلد علاقاتنا بأولاد البلد الله العالم بحالتها رجال هاليومين مو مثل قبل روحوا شوفوا المحاكم كم قضيه مليانه طلاق و لا إثبات طلاق ؤلا إثبات نسب و أوراق و لا نفقه ؤلا سوء تعامل و لا حضانه !!!!! زاد الوضع عندنا وش راح تتوقعي يا كريستينا !! سواء كنتي مسلمه ؤلا لا في النهائه إنتي إنسانه و أم و معاكي كل الحق في طلبك. حتى لو الطفل هذا جا عن طريق الخطأ و لكن الله ستار على العبيد و إنتي نيتك إن هذا الطفل يكبر عالقليل و عارف أهله و جذوره. و أتمنى من الله ان تحل الأمور في أسرع وقت ممكن

  48. وااااااااااو جعل من فكر في هذا الموقع ونفذ مأتمس يدينه النار ؤالله انه رجال من ظهر رجال نعنبوكم كيف لك قلب تنام وتاكل وتشرب وانت ولدك هايت بأمريكا ضناك هذا جزء منك دمك ولحمك يخرب بيتكم عالم ماتخاف من الله

  49. Anonymous

    يستاهل المرض وعساه سؤء الخاتمة محد قاله يعصي الله ويبهدل الحرمة ما اقول الا حياك الله في جهنم والمرض والتعب في الدنيا ههههههههه

    • nano

      مو كدا تقول قول الله لايبلاناماتدري بكرا وش يصيرر معااك
      يارب لاتبلانا

  50. سويدان

    يساهل محد قاله يعصي الله ويبهدل الحرمه عساه الموت وسؤء الخاتمة بعد وما اقول الا حياك الله في جهنم واتعب في الدنيا بها المرض عساك ماتتعالج منه ….

    • fahad al riyadh

      الله يبلاك انشالله راح تلاقيها قريب
      الولد صغير سن ومتغرب ويشوف انواع البنات لو انت في مكانه راح تمسك نفسك؟
      وبعدين حكمت علية بجهنم من تكون ؟
      باب التوبة مفتوح والامراض كلها لها علاج مافيه شي ماله علاج

      • Lola2000

        انا بصراحة القي اللوم على الاهل اللي ترسل اولادها بسن مبكر دون توعية منهمرلابنائهم او رقابة خاصتا سن باهي جدا صغير واعتقد في هالمرحلة يغلب عليه الطيش وعدم الوعي .. للأسف الاهالي بيرسلوا اولادهم دون هدف محدد غير ياخد لغة او ياخد شهادة والبعض للتفاخر وللاسف البعض وقع في الزنا والبعض الاخر في المخدرات والمشروبات المحرمة …. اتمنى من كل أم وأب ان يخافوا الله في تربيتهم لابنائهم فالتربية امانة ومسؤلية

      • سامر حربي

        انا لي ٣ سنين في الاغتراب وفي بريطانيا ولا فكرة انجر في ذا الخطاء لان الثمن راح يكون فادح وغيري ديني وتربيتي تمنعني اقرب مكان الشبهات ، لا تحاول تبرور الخطاء ، لا بد يكون في وعي للانسان الا بيروح انو جائ يدرس ويحصل شهاده وليس اقامة علاقات جنسية وشرب ، للاسف انا شفت هنا اكتر من كذا من شباب وبنات سعودين ، مع انهم قلة ولكن شي يحز بالصدر

  51. Anonymous

    يا حسافه بس
    هذا بدال ما يكونون قد المسؤوليه ويكونون قدوه حسنه لدينهم وبلدهم ، يشوهون سمعتها
    كل هذا اللي يسوونه اسائه لدينهم اللي هو اهم من كل شي
    ما اقول الا الله يهديهم

    A

  52. NeenHB

    7sbi allah wan3ma alwakeel </3

  53. Anonymous

    I hope to God that be be with you Ante and wonderful son …I do not know how to look forward and leave behind a family you need ..But we are the sons of Saudi Arabia stand with you and with me your son To Anrdy such reckless behavior such as these young people do not represent Saudi Youth ..I wish you success Ante and your son …Actually sent was very painful ĘŢČáí apologetic

  54. والله يسسسسسسسسسسسسسسسستاهل هذا الغبي الي يسسسسسسسوي هيدي مابقت لا حلال ولا حرام ولكم والله عيب عليكم فضحتوووووووووووووووونه الله يحرررررررررررقكم

  55. bashayerbh

    Al salam alikom ..dear christina .. I’m so sorry for all ur story . It is a shame that these young people belong to Muslims
    And They do not have any morality belong to this religion !! I liked it very much forgiven you with Islamic and your understanding that such quality being unreasonable by any Islamic Ethics and your decision to raise your son to become Muslim, not only in words but also morality
    Dear I regret about what I am gonna to say but you also you are wrong when u give yourself to this man won’t blame you now this from the past now . Finally note that the Lord of heavens just punishes everyone misses on this earth you call God and raising your son to be a good son and makes your life happier belive me the god will be with u .
    I’m here to help you with anything need dear
    @__ibsh

  56. Anonymous

    صراحة هذي الاشياء تنسب الينا لانه الخير يخص والشر يعم وغير كذا كيف هذا راح يعيش صدقوني ما راح يرتاح طول عمره لانه عارف انه له طفل ماله ذنب صبرك يا ارض ع هذي المشاكل

  57. random as in really random

    “ill be died” these people are a waste of moneh xD they study for many yearz and learn nothing

    • Saad Fahad

      That might be true in a sense,,Students go states but hardly catch the good things in American culture..but that is irrelevant to Christina subject.

  58. MarT

    Great, this is working and ppl here in Saudi Arabia started talking. Want my suggestin? Dont leave this trash ppl. Chase them everywhere, in social media, internet, try to let every one around him knows about his actions. These hypocrite ppl always claim that they have a white & clean reputation.

  59. لا اله الا الله
    اش من قلب عنده الي مايخاف ربه راح يلاقي جزاتة ف الدنيا قبل الاخره بعدين الواحد الي شايف نفسه مو حق مسؤؤليه لا يسو علاقات وخرابيط لانه ف نهايه راح يتحمل كل شي عملو ف عالم مايصدقو يطلعو برا يعني ماحد داري عننا نسوي الي نسوي الله يهديهم
    بس

    • Anonymous

      Will ur Hot girl and nice mum so 4get about him and live ur life cuz he is an ass and u well find a greet dad 4 ur sun if his famliy want ur sun they well tok hem away from u and that will hurt more

  60. خالد

    حسبي الله عليكم ﻻ ردعكم خوف من الله وﻻ سمعة اهل وعائلة ، شاطرين بس على خواتكم تدققون عليهم بالرايحة والجاية وانتم يالكلاب تهيتون مع الاجنبيات وتزنون بعد ؟؟ ليتها وقفت على كذا الا كملت وجحدت الحرمة وبزرها وكملت الناقص ؟ ﻻ ابوكم ﻻ ابو من طلعكم لبعثة يا زﻻيب انتم كفو من يمحطكم بالعقال لين تعصون الارض وتصيرون رجال ، حسبي الله فيكم والله يعين عوايكم على الصدمة والعار اللي سببتوه لهم

  61. salem

    Shame on you .. i am Saudi and i am not proud of such a dirty people … if you are not responsible enough to have a baby … stay at your mother’s home and don’t behave as an adult … it’s horrible to imagine how people can leave their children behind ! ti’s under human imagination ,,, if the idea of leaving children behind is normal for you … do an urgent check for your mind!

    • Saad Fahad

      ooh common saying ” dirty “..that is too much ..he is young and having a good time like everyone else.Please give me a break..It just so happens that Bahi got entangled in a unique relationship ..Please moderate your language of hate ,otherwise , everyone will think you are violent.

      • salem

        You don’t know the meaning of lost children ,,, you cannot feel the difficulty of a child was left by a father … so don’t talk about ethically speaking!

  62. 3z

    هذي مشكلة الصوف !!!!!!

    يروح هناك ويتخرفن واذا توهق فقع
    عالاقل اذا سويت حاجه خلك قدها واثبت زواجك وخذ الجنسيه ، ولا لاتسوي علاقات علي انك
    بتتزوج ينطمع فيك وتوهقك ببزر
    مع ان اكثر المبتعثين مبزره وصوف يطلع هناك يسمع بالقيرل فرند
    وعلي باله بيفلها بدون مايدرون عنه اهله ويستانس هناك علاقات جديه تصير اذا قلتلها زواج نشبت فيك وجابت لك بزر عشان تضبطك صح

    اهم شي مايدرون الفرنسيات عن ذا الموقع بس بعدين ناكل هوا :/

  63. Hind Alqahtani

    السلام عليكم كرستيانا
    نخجل من افعالهم جداً
    لاكن انسي انهم يعترفون بالطفل
    (حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل)
    هذا مجتمعي يخجل من الفضيحه ويتستر عليها ويخفيها

    طالبي بحقك وطالبي بمحاكمته واخذ حقك الشرعي
    (من ستر على مسلم ستر الله عليه لاكن الاسلام بريء من افعالهم ويتستاهلون الفضيحه الي صارت لهم

  64. Mohammed

    هالعينات من الشباب ماراحت تدرس راحت تسود وجيهنا وترجع .. المشكلة انهم اذا راحوا هناك خلاص يتجردون من كل شي! من دينهم وعاداتهم يحسبون ان الغلطة بتمر كذا ! لاو الله … ماتمر وربي فوقة يشوف عمايلة .. والله ماتمر والي ماياخذة بالدنيا مايضيع بالآخره

  65. Anonymous

    يا خزيآه من الله !!

    يآ خزيآه من الله !!

  66. Anonymous

    shame on him !

  67. Ahmad Mubarak

    الحل الأمثل إلغاء البعثات للبكالوريس وإقتصارها على الماجستير والدكتوراه فقط هؤلاء العينات بداخلهم كبت ومن ثم يسافر ويأتي بالفضائح في جو يحوي الحرية المطلقة أسميهم الأطفال الكبار

    • اصابع يدك مو سوى

    • Saad Fahad

      ooh common ..This guy is asking to stop sending Saudi to study abroad,,Thank God you are not in charge otherwise you will stop the whole nation from going abroad for any reason ,and turn Saudi Arabia into another Afghanistan.

      • advisor

        haha true….

      • mohammad

        سعد
        شوي شوي لا يطق لك عرق

        اشكالك ليس لهم الحق بتقييم المجتمع السعودي لانك لست كفؤ لذلك

        انت جالس تقنع العالم ان السعودية ليس فيها الا الاشياء السيئة

        تذكر انك واحد من السعودية

  68. the only thing i can say you got my support

  69. Nora

    I am sorry for you and for your poor cut baby. let me tell you that my tears came out once I saw the video of your son because what has happened wasn’t his fault :(
    obviously, Bahi is a kid and he has no responsibility and of course he doesn’t represent us -Saudi Arabian and Muslims – he is one of millions. I am actually disagree with people who say that you shouldn’t talk about Bahi’s sexual disease and I see that you did the right thing because he needs a punishment and he led himself to this situation, he made a mistake and obviously he keeps doing this disgusting behavior without caring about his son,what he has done is a crime against his baby. Actually, guys like Bahi don’t deserve a scholarship cause there are many people who deserve it more than them.

  70. هوا دا الشباب السعودي انحطاط وفساد وقلة دين ومروءة . .والله شباب عار علي علينا في كل مكان بالعالم تجد السعودي سمعته طين ،،،،، عقول طين

    • Saad Fahad

      Stop the language of hate ,,

    • abdullah

      1-اللي سمعته طين يصرف عليك
      2-يامصري هل تعلم ان الخمر والمراقص والبارات مرخص لها في مصر
      3-هل تعلم ان فيه 5 مليون مصري في السعوديه ولولا السعوديين كان اكلوا تراب
      4-هل تعلم ان زنا المحارم في مصر وصل ذروته وبدوا يعملون افلام عنه
      5-الواحد يشوف نفسه قبل لا يشوف الناس

  71. I usually don’t leave comments on websites, but I really felt the need to show my support and encouragement for what you’re doing here. I hope that other women victims (for I’m sure there are many others) will come out and make their stories public. Saudi men need to learn that they can no longer get away with this!! They think that what happens abroad stays abroad? Well not in the age of social media!!! If they cannot be motivated by their Islamic values to do what is right by those children and their mothers (or at least to abstain from such relations) then the fear of scandal is motivation enough! And trust me, scandals, for us Saudis, are our worst nightmare! I think that this is the only thing that would put an end to this!

    Having said that, I really do hope that the men involved here would grow up and try to fix the damage they’ve done… I’m sure that society and the mothers would eventually be willing to forgive and forget.

    One more thing to the mothers involved: please keep in mind that Saudies have many times kidnapped their children and taken them back to Saudi, so you need to protect your children from that. They would pretend to want to take them to Saudi for a visit, when they’re in fact planning never to return them, and your government would not be able to do much about it. There are many cases of these that you can find online. Please read them.

  72. Park Hyo Jin

    قطع الله وجهك يالهيس الاربد يا باهي
    دامك منتب قدها يا رخمه من البدايه وراك تخربها
    خايف من امك يالهيس
    كريستينا يا بعد حيي :””
    أنتي وين عيونتس فيه يومتس تشوفين ذا الآدمي؟
    الله يهديتس بس .. ارفعي قضيه وشهرّي به على ما قالوا ولا يردس شي يا عميرتي بردّي حرتس وخذي حقتس

  73. albanderi M

    Dear christina , let me explain somthing very important to know , I saw from your story that her mother & uncle not a nice people to live with or to deal with them , & Bahi is a Kid he’s not a real man in U.S or in KSA so thank God for Being a single Mother , Because like this mind & Like this family if they’ll solove the problem gonna do one of two , first take your Son from now and rase hem in saudi which not good for hem as an Education or Health or even a baby care like what did u see in your country and you can’t visit your baby without viza which is not somthing easy to get anytime you want !! The second thing that is bring you with your son to live in ksa , bahi wasn’t good enough whith in your home , he cheated you if he loved you as a man he would take you as a WIFE to protect you from everything & to make sure of your relationship is going to the right side with no side effect to anyone of your SO , a life with this guy in a place not your place in a life not your life with no support from him Believe me its not the life you want at all for you or for your lil angle ,, I’m support you wallah I wish I can do anything for you . I’m a mother lust like you and ofcorse all what we need is our babies rights , may the good give you what you’re looking for christina ,,,, salam

  74. Rai

    Sigh..
    After this post, he’ll see it and he has to come up with truth wether he likes it or not, and if this about his dad and bros are going to kill him, he fucking deserves it, first for dishonoring the Islamic religion and disobeying Allah, second for leaving his Son grow up without a Father.
    Bahi if you’re reading this, Fuck you you jackass face your problems don’t runaways from them, Nashbaa feek wldk mn L7mk o dmk bt5leeh ytrba 3la yd Mse7eeen ana 3arfah enh 3aar 3leek o 3la ahlik alm’6loomeen, bs 7raam 3leek wsh thnb al6fl albree2 hatha? Ma agool ela 7sby allah o n3m alwkeel feek. Atmna enk Tsaar3 biltooba o tfkr o Ta5th alraay al97ee7.
    Good luck christina and pardon my slang language.

  75. really man

    والله هو الخسرآآن

    شووف ام الطفل والله انهاا صآآآروووخ

    اطلق من اي سعوديه …. وماراح تحصل مثلهاا يااويلي ويلااااه ابك ابك ابك

    • Anonymous

      اطلق من اي سعوديه …. وماراح تحصل مثلهاا يااويلي ويلااااه ابك ابك ابكهههههههههههههههههههههههه

      • SOMEONE

        والله انك من اشباه الرجال
        قال ريل مان قال

    • جابر

      والله منت شايف خير انت كويس منت مبتعث ولا كان شفنا صورتك معاهم بس قريبا ان شاءالله قال اطلق من السعوديات قصدك اطلق من اهلك يالشيفه

  76. .

    Mut3ah Fe Aldenya, bs 3thaab fe al25raah.. Est’3frallah bss.

  77. nana

    انا اايد ان تنلغي منح البكاليوريس وصحيح هم الاطفال الكبار وتحاشيا للامور هذي الللي منها الزنا والفشل فالدراسة والشرب هذول سعوديين لانهرب من واقعنا المرصحيح اصابعنا مو سوا بس الاغلب قاعد يفشل من هالمنح او يرجع بكارثة يتعقد منها طول عمره الحل تنلغي منح البكالوريوس منهم كليا او اللي بيدرس بكالوريوس يكون شرط متزوج وزوجته معاااه تحاشيا لهذي الامور وان الطفل الكبير الزواج رااااح يكبر عقله ويحسسه بالمسوولية وبالاخير يفرغ شخناته وطاقته الجنسية هدا بالنسبة للشباب

    اما البنات الاجنبيات خلهم يتدقدقون عشان يعرفون ان الله حق وان الزنا من اكبر الفواحش وهذي نهايته بزر تظلمه وتظلم نفسها معاه وسلااااااااااااامتكم

  78. Mohammed A. Alzaher

    The true is that maarige to International steudents is a risky bussiness, most ot teenage US girls don’t know it, they all fell in the mistake of adventure and trying a new thing or culture, the problem is, most of the Saudi boys who come to study in the states are not ready for commetement, and are mostly sexually deprived, so they try to hook up with the girls through parties and clubs and through the university’s community clubs; a smart girl would think of marrige of an american national not a Saudi, Saudis have a very harsh family structure, and it the Saudi is less that 21 years of age , he cannot trae overseas without an approval certificate from his father!!, So to US girls and other countries of study for Saudies, look out, these boys represent themselves only when they start a sexual relationship with anyone, they are not supported or able to support themselves, a minute number may be able to stand for themselves and stand by the dicisions they take, but the vast majority will not stay there in the states, they will leave. I speak for myslef as Saudi and ex-scholar, no one from Saudi arabia with morals and solid integrity will have sex without marrige.
    Hones Saudi will say:
    I need to pray 5 tomes a day
    He will not shake your hand “lady”its against the teachings of islam to touch a strange woman.
    He will not go to parties or night clubs.
    He will ask to know you ” lady” for bussiness, freidship or for marrige ( nothing called moving in together in Saudi world).
    If he’s honest you will be able to contact his family straight, and his mother will want to see you and talk to you. His father MUST agree for his marrige to you, they are not Americans.
    Be sure that not all Saudies are rich, some are very poor, and coming on full governemnt Scholarship, like I was.
    Make sure that there is. no such things as democracy in saudi Marrige; espicially amongst Beduin origin families.
    Most of Saudies seem to be fun, drinking and so, make sure they are preditors Looking to jump you any time given.

    God bless the honest people, and his curses on those who betrayl him.

  79. أولاً :
    كل أسفي لك كريستينا ، و لطفلك الجميل :)
    أتمنى أن يكبر و يبقى قوياً و يكون رجلاً حقيقياً يحترم النساء =)

    ثانياً :
    الخطأ مشترك بينك أنتي و باهي ..
    لكن بما أنك إعترفتي و ندمتي ..
    و تحملتي كل هذه المشقة و العناء
    أضن أن الخطأ أصبح على باهي بشكل أكبر
    كيف يستطيع ترك إبنه بهذه السهولة ؟
    لا أستطيع سوى وصفه بالطفل الكبير !
    لا يعلم ماهي المسؤولية و لا يعلم أن الله يراهه في كل مكان !
    و بدون أن يصلح خطأه ، يرتكب خطأ آخر !
    يخرج من السعودية محروماً من رؤية النساء ليفعل شيئاً مريعاً كهذا !
    هذا ليس عذراً أبداً .. فالزواج أمر مقدس
    و الزنا أمر محرم يقام الحد على فاعله بالقتل !

    ثالثاً :
    أنا مستاءة لأن هذه الأفعال سنتسب للإسلام
    و أنه دين يصرّح بهذه الأفعال
    و إن كنتي تعلمين أن هذه المعلمومات عن الإسلام خاطئة
    فالآخرين من غير المسلمين لا يعلمون ..
    و هذا تشويه لللإسلام من أشخاص ينتسبون إليه إسماً لا فعلاً !
    حسبنا الله و كفى ..

    و أخيراً :
    أتمنى منك عدم الوقوف بدون المحاولة ..
    حاولي الوصول إلى إثبات بأن هذا إبنه بأي شكل من الاشكال

    تحياتي

  80. Anonymous

    totally agree with Saad Fahad i am from Saudi arabia. that’s exactly what is it like here and maybe worse especially for women. you may have sister or wife or whatever and you can be good enough to let her live her life,it is depends on what kind of person you are, or no one can stop you from making her life miserable.

  81. Noor A

    شباب زباله و اكثر بلد يحمل شبابه الايدز و الامراض التناسلية هم السعوديين هذا السبب اللي يخلي الناس تقرف منهم ولا ترضى تزوجهم بناتها

    • 3z

      الامراض والله بعقلك المريض اللي كله حقد وكراهيه
      وكل إناءبمافيه ينضح

  82. christina nicole

    i just want to make a FACT that i have never asked bahi for money ever or no i will ever cause i have more pride in myself and everything that my son has its because of me and my family and make a note his clothes are not cheap and his toys arent cheap either…. what i want is for rayan to know his father and for bahi to be in his sons life

  83. SOMEONE

    there is some confusing information?

    u mentioned that u met Bahi 2011 but on ur facebook its written that u were in a relationship in 2010 so i’m not sure :)

    • christina nicole

      yes i was in a relationship with someone unfortunately he died his name was mark amir and then in the beginning of 2011 ii met bahi at a tiesto concert

    • christina nicole

      it was a long distance relationship we saw each other on the computer .. 2days i was gonna go see him he passaway from enlarged heart may he rest in peace

      • christina nicole

        no amir was american persian

      • h@hotmail.com

        Listen Chris im not against u or Bahi….

        But i’m trying to understand ((since you put this topic to the public )) I want to ask you some question!!!

        1)The single mom issue in USA exist? for sure without considering the dad nationality

        2)Also, you said you have done this for your son ,but what is really wonder me is that you did not consider your son future by spread his story in all over the world, especially if your son get and rise in Saudi Arabia ,people here don’t forgive and don’t forget .

        3) In addition, u mentioned that Bahi has STD :S
        how come u and ur baby didn’t get it???????

        4) last question were u his girlfriend or wife?
        because, in our community these two words totally has a different definitions (I don’t want to go through it)

        In conclusion, I’m really sorry for what ever u have gone through!! and I’m totally not agree with Bahi action if its really true!!! but at the same time u the one who accept to be a mom while u were his girlfriend not a wife ,and in a saudi community this is not acceptable.So, seeking a help from this community to get ur man back ummmm i’m not sure .

      • G

        and is your name Muary? The kid looks like Bahi there’s no questions about it. Poor kid for having young irresponible parents, you for not using a condom and i don’t know what you see in this guy, and him for walking away with it, making babies just for the hell fun of it then what?

  84. s_m

    ا̄ﻟسلام عليكم
    انا مدري ليه همَ يبتعثوا
    عشان شهادة ولا لعب على بنات الناس
    اللي مهما سووا فيهم ماراح يضرون اﻻ انفسهم
    والله مافي امر واحد ايجابي من هالحرام
    امراض و ذنوب و ظلم و ززنا اللي اعوذ بالله من كل جالب له
    عقابه دنيا وآخره حسبنا ﷲ ونعم الوكيل
    واللي يقول البنت صاروخ سلامات ترى عمرك ماراح تحس بالراحه النفسيه مع انسانه تشجعك على الحرام
    ﷲ ﻻيبلانا ولا يفجعنا بقريب والله يههدي الجميع
    هو يعالج نفسه الآن ولا يعترف بأبنه !!

  85. haloo4000

    الله يعينهم الصغار والله اقرا قصصهم وانا ابكي ع حالهم
    ياربي تبعد عننا الاشكال دي من الرجال وتهدي شبابنا

  86. 😭

    Wondering !!who wrote these suplications
    For you although you are not relegious,,,,According to the illegal life you had with the guy and if you want him back why do you scandalizing his disease
    why now!!! Sorry but alot of questions in all readers

  87. Fofa

    ياتسبدي تسبداه الحين حنا من نآخذ ؟؟ ونعرس على انفسنا مثلاً

  88. Mohammed A

    يرسلوا شباب بعقول أطفال وهوس الجنس عاميهم
    الله يلعنهم هم وأمريكا
    أبلشونا وصارت فضايح ديرتنا ماتترقع
    لاداخل البلد ولا برا
    فشلة لادين ولا ذمه شباب هالجيل
    لا والأدهى القرني اللي مسوي فيها مطوع وأخرتها فاقع بوحده من ٢٥ سنه
    طلعت له زي الجني في هالموقع
    يمهل ولا يهمل

  89. christina nicole

    who ever said i wanted to be with him i said my son he needs his father ….the last thing i know was that im in american and have the rights the put the truth on the internet

  90. والله اني راحمه المبتعثين الحين اكثر من سالفة باهي هذه بكبره :(

  91. nada

    ايووواا : ) لو سعوديه سوت زيها وكتبت بموقع كان قلتوا لها يأقليلة الشرف
    ماتستحي هي الغلطانه محد قالها تنجرف وراء شهوتها
    سلامي عليكم يا منصفين يا حقانيين : )

  92. Abdullatif

    كل واحد يمسك خيط و يقعد يخيط في زاوية أفكاره
    الأفعال هذي شخصية ولا تمثل الشباب أبدا
    وكل واحد ذنبه على جنبه .. و وين بيروح من يوم الحساب ؟؟
    الله يعينهم الزوجات و الأطفال

  93. Ahmad

    I swear that i’ve just cried so bad becuase of this lovely child, may god help you

  94. A mom

    السلام عليكم
    الساالفه مؤ سالفة سعودي نص الأمريكان يولدون و يرمون عيال هم و هي شايفه الولد و مشاكله و فضلت تبق معاه ليش
    السؤال الثاني ليش حملتي
    السؤال الأهم ليش جالسه تشهرين فيه و في مرضه الجنسي
    عيالنا فضحو فينا في كل العالم بس ترى الي في السعوديه موجود في كل العالم و يمكن عندهم مشاكل ما عندنا
    لذلك نتكلم حنا عن اب هرب بس الاسلام يعاقب الاثنين الي شاركو في الخطيئه مؤ بس الاب والابتعاث مؤ للمشكله ما فيه أمهات تتكلم علي سنة 80
    و الله يسر على الجميع

    • انا فكرت في نفس الكلام ماله داعي التشهير بالمرض مادري غرضها انه يعترف بولده ولا التشهير وانتقام ..
      الله اعلم

      • rawan

        بالعكس له داعي التشهيربالمرض عشان ادا بيتزوج ماتتورط البنت هذا مرض خطير

  95. maha

    ياليت الناس ما تفتي من كيفها
    حد الزنا يختلف علي حسب حالة الزاني والزانية
    اذا كان عازب غير متزوج فيجلد ويسجن سنه
    أما اذا متزوج فيرجم الي الموت
    وله احكام واداب لازم تكون متوفرة عشان يطبق الحكم
    مو أي احد يجي يقول يقتل ومش عارفه ايش
    ويحكم من كيفه

  96. Anonymous

    لاتفض الخاتم الا بحقه …تزوجو وش اللي حادكم على الحرام

  97. Mohammed A

    أبو حميد خف علينا شوي
    لاتقطع نفسك بكا
    ترا مانستغني ياقلبي
    هههه

  98. Nura

    Sooo cute child :( I’m so sorry about him
    And that who called bahi is absloutly bad man and we are not aproud of him to be saudi man

  99. Saly

    Do an issue in the court with proof by DNA

  100. R

    I think somebody should call Muary lol, The kid looks like Bahi there’s no questions about it. Poor kid for having young irresponible parents, you for not using a condom and i don’t know what you see in this guy, and him for walking away with it, making babies just for the hell fun of it then what?

  101. Razan

    هذي اخرة الثقة يا عيالنا للاسف هالتصرفات يطلع من شباب دولة اعزها الله بالاسلام وقبلة المسلمين شوهتو الاسلام حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل
    بس الدنيا دوارة يستاهل المرض الجنسي اللي جاه ان شالله تكون سبب في توبته

  102. Yazeed

    They both made a huge mistake ! Especially When they’re Muslims!

    If christina was asking for money I would be on her side, but she’s not !!
    What Christina is asking for (being in his son’s life) is unreasonable,, because after what he did , I don’t think a women wants to see his face again even if it’s for her son’s sake ,which i don’t think it is wise to let his son be raised by such a pearson.

    Obviously Christina is hiding some facts ,or her true intentions of this whole “Scandal” thing !

    A message to anyone read my replay and especially Saudis , GET MARRIED ASAP IF U CAN !!!

    • christina nicole

      i am not hiding anything !!!! i am an american and take more pride in myself and my family than to be asking my sons father for money !!! i am a very blunt person but obviously u do not know me or never will u know me … i am very family oriented .. i want my son to meet his father and develope a relationship with him … i had a father and he was taken a away from me 8 yrs ago he was murdered .. n it effected my life very much him not being here so i dont want my son to grow up with out a father !!! i shouldnt even be explining to u ….

    • christina nicole

      and i put my feelings aside for bahi because him and my son have nothing to do with what me and bahi had and the anger towards each other … u are probably like 17 to say things like that but when u are older and have kid u will know that YOU NEVER EVER PUT THE KID IN THE DRAMA YOU AND THE FATHER HAVE …. MY SON NEEDS TO SEE HIS FATHER AND HIS FATHER NEEDS TO SEE HIS SON

  103. Abdulaziz

    I am so sorry for you Cristina and I can feel the same thing that you does. From your letter shows that you are so optimistic that your careless husband will do some thing good for you or your child which I think it would be unbelievable from him. He is telling you the lies that he will be killed if he announced this issue to his family. As they said earlier, you have to prepare yourself with all documents that you may need and go sue and take all the rights for you and your child. Good luck

  104. KHALID

    والله يا هي حلوه حبيبته ليش يفرط بها قليل الاصل لو انا مكانه كان اضيفها في دفتر العائله زوجه الى الموت

    بعدين يا حبيبتي يا مها ترى ابوك يمكن يكون مهوب شي بالنسبه لواحد مثل محاكيس الله يطول عمره مثلا ولا نزكي على الله احدا
    بس حبيت اقول تراني انا واعوذبالله من كلمة انا يعني تراني عيوني وقلبي وروحي حنونه جدا بس لا يغرك ابوك

    • maha

      ههههههههههههههههه
      بالنسبة للرجال اللي مروا بحياتي
      لا والله مافيه احد زي أبوي

  105. المسلمة

    اول شي الله يهدي الجميع
    للاسف الاغلب اصبح يتهاون بحدود الله مو بس الزنا
    الشراب
    والقمار
    والبنات اصبحوا سافرات بدون حجاب

    كانها تقاليد وعادات نتركها خلفنا لاركبنا الطياره وهذي النتيجه

    المشكله بالعلاقات المحرمه مو بتصحيحها
    المشكله بالمترتبات الي عليها

    يعني لو تزوج الي زنا معها عشان يحط الولد باسمه هل هو حل
    لا
    لانه بيظل ابن زنا الى سابع نسل
    ولايرث منه شيء
    ولا يكشف على محارم ابوه مثل جدته وعماته واخواته الي من ابوه نفس الشيء
    لانه ينسب لامه مو لابوه

    يعني المشكله جريمه بحق الانسانيه عشان كذا الاسلام حرم الزنا
    ولو كان يطبق الحد الشرعي للزاني كان اصبح رادع لهم

    الله يهديني ويهديكم

  106. Da Butcher

    As matter of fact, Christina i know how you feel and how you want to express your feeling toward us. Some ….i mean Some people here blame you because you committing fornication !!! they don’t obviously argue about what do you want exactly from sharing this blog. I know many members of Qutob Family ( i may ask one of them why did he care about his feeling especially those people who give him all they have to see a smile in his face ) since you want to raise your child in a good shape its our duty to help you whatsoever your religion is ! Am glad you are a Muslim ( May Allah Accept your deeds and Forgive your sins ) i know bunch of people here try to boil you blood !!! this is really ridiculous … try to inform them that you want this Player to be a man just for his baby not for yourself … you have a lot of pain from him. May Allah erase this sorrow and agony from your heart and grans you joy and peace instead.

    What i really want you to do is to contact his family one last time .. ( if ) they refuse to answer you ! threaten them that you would share this blog in the media in this case i think they will response to your demands ..

    May Allah be with sister …

  107. christina nicole

    I CHRISTINA KNOW THAT BAHI DID ME WRONG AND I UNDERSTAND THAT BUT IF EVER PERSON PUT THE CHILDREN IN THE MIDDLE OF THERE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS THE WORLD WOULD BE FULL OF DRAMA , i was also told that u never ever ever put ur kids in the middle of the drama !!!!! I HAVE TRIED TO RESOLVE PROBLEMS WITH BAHI AND HIS MOM BUT UNFORTUNATELY SOME HEADS ARE THICKER THAN OTHER …. I WILL SUFFER AND WORK MY ASS OFF AND GO TO SCHOOL SO MY SON CAN GET WHAT HE DESERVES !!! EVERYTHING MY SON RAYAN HAS ITS BECAUSE OF ME AND MY FAMILY…. MY SON DESERVES NOTHING BUT THE BEST AND I AM THERE TO PROVIDE FOR HIM NO MATTER WHAT … I THE STRONG INDEPENDANT GIRL I AM WILL NEVER EVER RELY ON A GUY FOR MONEY EVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS BROUGHT UP WITH MORALS NOT BULLSHIT

  108. christina nicole

    @ DA BUTCHER CAN YOU EMAIL ME CNICOLE77@LIVE.COM

  109. abeer

    وما خفي كان أعظم

  110. القحطاني

    هذي ياجماعة الخير وحده حاقده والله لو انها مو حاقده ماراحت تشهر بالمرض اللي فيه
    ابي اعرف تشهيرها بالمرض وش راح يخدم قضيتها؟؟؟
    اذا هو مريض فعلا أكيد راح تكون نفسيته منهارة جدا جدا

    • Meccan Lady

      خلى النس تعرف بمرضه لا يروح يتزوج و يبتلى انسانه عفيفة

  111. لا حول ولا قوه الا بالله هذا اللي صاير الحين اللي مو قد المسؤوليه لا توصلها للمواصيل هاذي خلاص انت الحين رجعت لدولتك ولدك يبقى ولدك وانت ابووه لاكن ما اقول الحمدلله على ننعمه العقل

  112. Rahaf bnt Mohammed

    العمل رائع بس ما اعجبتني فكرة نعالج السوء بالسوء
    ، بلاصح التشهير ماهو علاج للقضيه ، ياللي فيه خير صحيح يروح للسفاره السعودية ويطلعون اسم المبتعث ويتواصلون مع اهله ،
    ، وفيه حديث عن الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم
    : ( من ستر على مسلم ستر الله عليه )
    يعني لكل شخص حط نفسك في مكان هالمبتعث الي هو عايش في ابتلاء الحين ، لابد.انه يغلط وابن ادم ماهو معصوم عن الغلط ،
    اللي سوا الموقع لو فيه فعلاً خير ويبي يجمع شمل الطفل مع الاب
    ماكان سوا هالتشهير بلاسماء والعوائل
    كان راح للسفاره وطلع اسم المبتعث وتواصلوا معاه
    أنا ما ادافع عن المبتعثين ابداً ، بس المسأله تعدت حدود الاصلاح

    • Sara \ Saudi Arabia

      ياحبيبي اللي سوا الموقع ماهو مسلم فما فيه داعي تورد احاديث (من ستر على مسلم ستر الله عليه) اللي سوا الموقع النساء المتورطات انفسهن وأنا معك ان ماله داعي الفضائح بس يمكن يكون عبرة للمبتعثين انهم يحذرون قبل لا يسوون اي خطوة لانهم مو في السعودية اذا لعب ببنت يبي يفلت

    • التشهير هو الحل لهؤلاء الوسخين الجزم قليلين الحيى اجل تسوي علاقه محرمه ولا تخلف بعد وترمي ولدك لعنهم الله ياجعلهم الشلشل

    • Meccan Lady

      عالم ما تمشى غير بالعين الحمرا

  113. R

    حتى الامريكيات ماسلمو من شركم

  114. Kyu

    معقول هو داري انه انفضح بالاسم والصور
    ولسا مو ناوي يصلح غلطه ويداري عليه

  115. Mohammed

    Oh shit he’s my Friend :P

  116. christina nicole

    yea mohammed well your friend did wrong and now i have to do what i have to do …

    • "........"

      We all agree. He did a bad thing , but in the end you too had this baby And didn’t Maind that you are still singles . However this is a big shame for a Saudi guy , and you should delete this post from the whole internet because this means you are ending this guys life . Delete it first then try to re-contact him he might be able to come bace to us !

  117. loiz

    Don’t worry he will go to the hell

  118. الله يهديه وبس

  119. scar

    احب اقلكم ايلي قاعد يقول عنها حاقدة وشي الولد من جد عندو مرض جنسي وعايش يسربت في دبي وما يبغا يتحمل مسوولية ولدو تانية حاقدة على الايش الحرمة الله واكبر بس هيا كل ايلي تبغاه تبغاه يتمرجل ويسير رجال مو خول زي حضرتو وكلمت الحرمة الاهل اكتر من مرة ما ردو عليها وكدبوها وقالولها لا تدقي فلا تجي تحكم من راسك الحرمة ما سوت كدا الا ادا طفح الكيل من حركاتو واسلوبو فلا تلومو الحرمة احسن يتفضح

    • fahad al riyadh

      ونت شغال محامي عنها ؟؟
      اذا انت فعلا محامي ومسوي قاضي قولنا الطرف الثاني وش اقوالة ؟وش اقوال الطرفين مو تسمع من طرف وتخلي طرف
      دايماا انتم يالسعوديين تكرهون بعض وتوقفون ضد بعض ,مع الغريب اسمعو من باهي بعدين احكمو على طول صدقتو
      الدين امرنا بالتبين والصبر على طول حكمتو علية

      • ConstructiveDialogue

        صدقت والله وعلى الجميع ان لايحكم ويدعي على شخص قبل ان يسمع منه والا تحمل الذنب على مايقوله والله الهادي

  120. ملعون

    وش الدولة ذي امريكا خراب في خراب

    والله نحن في السعودية بنعمه وخير
    يراب لك الحمد

  121. sas

    هكذ أرادوك يا وطني :(

  122. OsOs

    وش ذا المزه .. شررررخ

    بآهي تحمس على الفراش وجاب العيد

  123. Sara \ Saudi Arabia

    You must know that this kind of relationships always end up like this even in Saudi Arabia if a girl get involved in such a relationship without marriage the guy would left her eventually even her family would do the same or worse they might kill her. We live in a very reserved society and a scandal like this won’t pass in peace. I’m telling you, women, I’m afraid you may get in terrible by doing this posting their photos to everyone. It’s a big scandal for Saudi society.

  124. Dodo

    Dear Christina
    I wanted to tell you that don’t ask people
    Just ask Allah the only will help you
    Also i wanted to ask
    How come you are Muslim and your
    name and your father name is Christian name
    And you looks morrocan

  125. yasser

    Christina
    Greetings
    Our hearts with you
    I hope to do any good solution for this beautiful child after visiting these sites.

    http://www.awasser.org.sa/en/index.php?page=home

    http://nshr.org.sa/

  126. Abdulaziz

    Hello Christina,

    Yes, I agree with what Yasser suggested to you, these links may be helpful.

  127. Sara

    تفوووو عليكم من شباب وتفوووو على الي ارسلكم بره

  128. Hello everyone. I would like to thank you all for taking the time to view the blog and make comments. Those who posted in Arabic I am working on getting them translated to I can reply properly so if you don’t see your comment listed it will be approved as soon as I can get it translated.

    First off I want to thank all those who have been supportive and sent messages offering help. Words can not express how grateful I am for all of your kind words. You have shown the world that there are wonderful people in Saudi Arabia. and you all are proof that not all Saudi’s hateful.

    Now for all that have chose to be cruel and leave comments saying that we are whores and are blackmailing the men for money…..Well in what world do you live in where when a woman tries to find the father of her child it is blackmail? I do understand why some in your culture consider us whores, but thankfully I live in a free society where we don’t treat others in that manner.
    Any woman who is currently in a relationship with a Saudi man please know what you are up against. You will find wonderful people who will be supportive but on the flip side many will not approve and if you find yourself pregnant with a baby by a Saudi you might find yourself on the receiving end of these malicious comments.

    I created the blog so other women would never feel alone or have to stand up alone. Your cruel comments only make me stronger and show me and the world why it is so important for us to stand up together against all those that would curse us.

    Ladies be strong and don’t let the distastefull comments bother you use them as the fuel that keeps you going. Remember we are doing this for our children and in the end it will be worth all the pain we have endured.

  129. حتى الحضران سويدين الوجه المتجنسين فضحونا لابوكم لابو اصلكم وانا اقول وش بلا الابتعاث ماوراه تطور اثاري رجع لنا ديايثه وعيال كلب مثل ذولي يلعب واحد طش ويهرب الخاسي

  130. Do.it.today

    imediately

    Dear mothers left behind. 

    Please go and submit your information & documents to the Saudi consulate in the embassy. 

    Because the same happened before in other countries from limited guys who dont represent their country’s values. The saudi embassies announced a while ago a proccess for such fathers who left their wives & children behind. These fathers will be officially informed & obligated to take responsibility.

    Do it no later than now.

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      WE HAVE TRIED TO CONTACT THE EMBASSY MANY TIMES AND THEY ARE COMPLETLY WORTHLESS SAYING THAT IT IS PERSONAL PROBLEM AND NOT THERES

      • We all have contacted the embassy and they are no help. When I called I just got lied to.

      • NAS

        Because you didn’t bring any approve for them. you have to bring any official documents shows that your Son is belong to Bahi. but your self in the Embassy position they can’t believe everyone just saying my Son is belong to Saudi man

  131. عبدالرحمن

    كل الشباب السعودي كذا يخبص ويلعب وتجون تقولون استروا وش تستر وش تخلي إذ صار هو نفسه يعربد ويلعب ويهتك ستر ربه عليه كذا مره هالموقع ماهو الا ربي يمهل ولايهمل ليش مايتزوجون بالحلال كيف تجيك نفس تجامع وحده بالحرام ولا تدري من هي نايمه معاه بعد كيف تأمن عقاب ربك لاتقنعوني هذا ماله من الاسما الا زنا والله المستعان ياخي تزوج مامعك فلوس كذبه والا وش موديك برا ياربي والله ان هالدنيا خلاص ماعاد فيها أمان ياربي تتوفاني طاهر وانت راضي عني والحمدلله الذي عافانا

  132. Abdulamajeed Abdullah

    Like these young people are from tarnish the reputation of our Islamic religion based on justice and mercy
    God help my sister and our Lord does not forget His servants and His mercy encompasses all things …

  133. saudi

    Ask God Almighty be be with you
    The God that we do not accept what is happening
    And that such persons may distort the reputation of Islam and Muslims
    This is not our ethics and our values ​​and this is not what he wants religion
    The God punished wrong
    Ask God to compensate you with a pair better than him and have you help in the education of your son
    And I advise you to file a lawsuit all you have from official documents and evidence
    In order to take the right its course
    And God will take your right on the Day of Resurrection and punished shameful deed
    This letter to you and all over this suffering of semiconductor Muslims and Oukahthm Dilmanm
    And ask God to take the minimum your right and the end
    Accept traffic
    Saudi mission

  134. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    THANK YOU SO MUCH PEOPLE FOR THE KIND WORDS YOU HAVE WRITTEN MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU BROTHERS AND SISTERS … THIS IS NOT REVENGE ON THE FATHER BUT TRYING TO TELL HIM THAT I DID NOT WANT HIS MONEY ALL I WANTED WAS FOR HIM TO BE THERE FOR HIS SON THATS ALL ..

  135. Mustafa Alghazal

    Bahi Go back to your wife and Son

    الاخ باهي .. و الله حرام عليك تترك زوجتك و ابنك الجميل .. لازم تتخذ قرار شجاع يرضي ضميرك و ربك و تشكر رب العالمين اللي اعطاك هذا الولد الجميل و الزوجة الصابرة

    • hana

      هههه ليتها عاد زوجته حسبي الله عليك ياباهي المسيكينه مكسوره بسببك

  136. salm

    طيب.. ياملعن فيه حاجة أسمها كندوم .. ولوني أشك ان المراهقة والفسقة حقت المبزره ذولي ماينفع معاها كندوم لانه بينفجر من وساختهم المكبوته اما طريقة العزل ماظن بتنفع لان الفرامل يبغالها رجال تتحكم بها
    فضحتونا والمشكله راح ينتشر الموقع بسرعه ويجونك ربع المغرب ونيوزلندا
    ياخواني اللي قاهرني انه فيه شباب صغار وجلوف بدوان وحضر مبتعثين وهم صغار ويتمسحون بالخوجات وحنا علي ايامنا نطرد فافلام الفديوا من عزبه لعزبه
    بس كنا رجال ونتحمل ونعرف عواقب الامور
    اقترح حمله للحكومه بخصي كل من تشاهد صورتة في هذا الموقع حتي يكون عبره لم لم يخصى

    • صدقت‏ ‏ياخوي‏ ‏مبزره‏ ‏ورخاوي‏ ‏ونربيه‏ ‏زفت‏ ‏لاشكل‏ ‏ولاسلوب‏ ‏ولالغه‏ ‏هماج‏ ‏نسأ‏ ‏ل‏ ‏الله‏ ‏العفو‏ ‏والعافيه‏ ‏والله‏ ‏اننا‏ ‏جلسنا‏ ‏عام‏ ‏كامل‏ ‏في‏ ‏امريكا‏ ‏ونحن‏ ‏شباب‏ ‏عزاب‏ ‏ولم‏ ‏نفكريوم‏ ‏ما‏ ‏انسوي‏ ‏علاقات‏ ‏مع‏ ‏هلارجاس‏ ‏الانجاس‏ ‏ولله‏ ‏الحمدوالله‏ ‏اذكر‏ ‏اننا‏ ‏وقت‏ ‏الاجازات‏ ‏نروح‏ ‏تمشيات‏ ‏ومغمرات‏ ‏يعني‏ ‏زي‏ ‏طلعات‏ ‏البر‏ ‏فلةحجاج‏ ‏الله‏ ‏يذكر‏ ‏هالايام‏ ‏بلخير

  137. hana

    Hey Christina, Im a Saudi girl and I totally support you 100%.DON’T LET BAHI GET AWAY WITH IT!
    Most saudis believe you Christina. Don’t ever be sad everything happens for a reason . I believe you two made a big mistake but you learned your lesson and it changed you to the better .You were ment to be Rayan’s parents , is it enough for Bahi that he got STD look what happened to him because he is a bad person and from what happened to you , now you became a muslim ..
    All Saudis are not like Bahi we hate him for what he did to you and Rayan ..

  138. Anonymous

    أتمنى ان لا يكون هذا مكان للهواش و النزاع على الثقافة السعودية, الي في البنت كافيها

    CHRISTINA, I know you are trying to let Bahi to come back and be a father for his son and that’s why it is not an option to go to court and fight (On behalf of other people, sorry about the stupid comments asking you to go to the court).

    Sorry about what am I going to say but, SHIT HAPPENS! It is really hard getting Bahi to be a father. Especially at his age. I would really love seeing Bahi come back and taking full responsibility of being a father.

    But for now, you have to realize that Bahi is not coming back, he already turned his back on his son and you should move on with your life. Rayan could have the step father who would give him all the love a normal father would give.

  139. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    sorry hun that is not acceptable with me and yes bahi and i will be going to court soon inshallah the paper work has been submitted and the immigration has been contacted and the paper work stating he has herpes will be sent already and UAE will be notified as well as the embassy with all the documents .. who ever u are are very weak minded i will do anything in my mind and heart is possible to get bahi to his son ….

  140. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i am a very strong minded very stubborn iindividual and if i cannot get bahi back i will do what is right for my son =)

  141. Anonymous

    Sorry, I didnt mean to show weakness or giving up. I just meant you should already have another plan because time is ticking and you cannot keep running after a man who turned his back to you and to his own son. A parent is not linked with blood. Otherwise adoptions wouldn’t have worked at all. It is true that you should always hope for the best, but you should also expect the worst.

    I am really glad to know you really want Rayan to be raised with his biological father, Bahi. I really hope he would do the right decision and come back for his son and you.

  142. The Newspaper author

    I have wrote a newspaper down here, good luck reading it and I’m not telling you what to do just giving you a chance for a clear head. Sorry for the length but I promise its the best comment in the whole world if not the universe :P.

    If I, felt my heart getting stabbed badly for what you have gone through. I cannot imagine how you feel nor any one will know how it feels unless they go through it. no man will ever know how it feel unless they get pregnant “I’m talking about the feeling not the action of getting pregnant ;P however you can pray for the action to be implemented on the Mr.R ” just throwing a smile at you. Anyways..

    Whats really killing me also is that Prophet Mohammed p.b.u.h. when he was so ill and gave a sermon a part of the speech was this “O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights OVER you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah’s trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers”..another, once a friend of him “Sahabi” saw him really crying and asked him whats going on?…. “I’m crying worrying about my brothers” Prohpet said… ” Well your brother are all well and here we are” the Sahabi said, ” Your not the brothers your my friends, my brothers who are coming after my death and they believe of my message” Mohammed replied. Also The Last sermon he said ” Please pass my peace and salam to all whom will come after me”.

    So he says Salam to you :). Who goes to heaven those who are patient.

    A mother, will sacrifices her own life for the sake of her children and thats why moms are the most important thing in Prophets sayings, he requested men to to look after them no matter what, but unfortunately, islam is misunderstood and most women but not all are treated the opposite .

    Am I right? and thats what your doing ?

    Your brave and consistent. However your personal feeling is taking control of you rather than taking control of the situation “For your son” as you mentioned earlier. its an advice from the house”country” I’m living in, don’t take any of those advices at all :) just only think of it for a sec. Let me go through couple of points

    1-You will do anything for the father to see his son. Then patience is the first weapon for that. So be patient and trust me aslong you have a strong faith in Allah you and your son will always be fed and looked after, also with every child comes to life blessings form allah comes with. Be strong keep going some time we hate things and it turns out its the best for us [ Surat Al-Baqarah [2:216] Allah said in quraan “Fighting has been enjoined upon you while it is hateful to you. But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not”

    2- The Prophet peace be upon him, he said: (conceals a Muslim’s secrect and God on the Day of Resurrection will conceal your secrets) secrets meaning things some don’t want others to know. I suggest some stuff we don’t need to know about your story maybe the embassy in UAE should to aware people but it will only drag more troubles for normal people and family and will affect the life of the person in which might be push so far away rather than closer. I personally don’t really care what you go for however a scandal in Saudi spreads faster than the new sonic airplane that the USA trying to build another it will not only affect one person but all the family in which you might wipe the forgiveness and mercifulness that a human might one day feel coz we all have hearts, soften it is better than stiffen it, will achieve an un believable results “patient is the 1st weapon”.

    3- the Almighty says, “Make allowances for people, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant.” (7:199)…being a mom will make you more stronger much smarter. However, a man those days or most men specially teenagers which some continue to be a teen till the age of 24 or 26 will continue do the opposite when they are pushed and confronted in a corner. he will end up in deep deep deep trouble and will end up alone that will beg for it eventually without doing any further steps.

    4- ‘A’isha reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “Whenever kindness is in a thing it adorns it, and whenever it is removed from anything, it disfigures it.” Use it with patience.

    5- Do you want your sun to have a father that is famous of his inhumanly actions ? again some information the world wont have to know and see aslong you going trough legal actions then they have to know, you may protecting the world from him but are you protecting who carries his name as well? .

    I wish you all the best I hope you find something soothing in what I wrote and may allah resolve all the things to the way you want it and remember it may be a test from god to see if your strong enough to stand near to him or it may be a sign that allah loves you and want to to remember him through the bad times n see how your faith in him will end up to.

    you will be more than finee, without sadness and any feelings life will no longer be joyful nor livable everything is balanced.

    Salam sister.

  143. Aseel

    السلام عليكم
    اولا الله يسترنا دنيا واخره ولايفضحنا ولايبتليناا ي كريم
    ثانيا الموقع هذا للتشهير هذا موب حل
    فيه مليون طريقه وطريقه للتواصل مع الاب
    الحين وش ذنب اهله تتشوه صورتهم بين جماعتهم بسبب فعل ارعن من بزر (وبزره)وش ذنب امه المسكينه وابوه تحتر قلوبهم ع افعال ولدهم الطايشه

    ابدا ابدا موب حل ف نظري

    والشيء الثالث الرجل ربي ابتلاه بمرض وجاه جزاه ف الدنيا قبل الاخره
    وان شاءالله الكل يتعظ منه ويحط ربي قدام عيونه ف كل عمل يسويه
    لاتدعون عليه ولاتتحسبون الدنياا دواره
    ادعوا له بالهدايه وانه يعالج اموره بطريقه سليمه

    واخر شيء لاتحكمون ع الموضوع وهو من طرف واحد
    البلوق هذا كل القصقص فيه من طرف واحد
    صعب نحكم او ندين

    وارجع واقول اللهم استرنا فوق الارض وتحت الارض ويوم العرض
    ربي عافهم ولاتبتلينا
    ولاحول ولاقوة الا بالله العلي العظيم

    • ConstructiveDialogue

      جزاك الله خيرعلى هذه النصيجه القيمه وعلى كل من يشارك ان يحمد الله على الستر وانه لم يبتلى في قريب له بمثل هذه المشكله ويسال نفسه كيف سيكون كلامه لو كان احد الطرفين قريبا له

  144. لا إله إلا الله

    ماودي أقول كذب وأحد يدعي علي وماودي أصدق !
    بس لو تعيدون الكلام وتقرونه أكثر بتميلون إن السالفة كذب عذراً يعني
    يعني جد لو تفكرون : أتصلت على أمه وأبوه بيقولون فوعدوني ان يجدو حلاً و دعوني للصبر
    معليش بتكون ردة الفعل كذا ؟ + الله يهدي الجميع

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      THIS STORY IS NOT A LIE… HIS UNCLE ACTUALLY TRIED TO SEND ME A FAKE MARRIAGE CONTRACT … I STILL HAVE IT AND THE PROOF AND THE MOMS MESSAGES!!!! EMAIL ME AND I WILL SHOW U

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      WE WOMEN ARE PARENTS ARE BUSY 24/7 AND DONT HAVE TIME TO BE MAKING UP STORIES

  145. Qusai

    Hello dear, I am sorry for all what I heard about you and your son. I guess if you already approached him and his family about your son and they doesn’t show any respect towards you. So, what next you want them to do for you? If you want him as your husband then I am not sure if he will ever agree to do so, even if he do, THAN he will get another wife from Saudi Arabia as well. Today or tomorrow you will leave him, as end of the day he doesn’t want you. Because if he wants you than he will never do all of this what he did. Anyhow, I cant understand what exactly you want from them now? GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SON, I AM SURE GOD IS FAIR AND YOU WILL GET WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU…..! TAKE CARE

  146. Justice Seeker

    In the name of Allah the most merciful the most kind.
    Alsalam alaikum wa rahmet allah wa barakatu,

    I am so sorry about the situation you got caught up in which was totally not your fault. Kids coming from another atmosphere not used to dealing with relationships and find themselves able to get with women. They will play around and deceive, not knowing that a woman is a holy being.

    I would keep this post here until some type of arrangement will be done. Their only concern is to be nice with you and keep talking with you in order for you to take the post down, be of their son’s SHAMELESS act .. they want you to fall for their plots.

    Now, no one will want to marry him and he would be luck if one family will accept giving him their daughter’s hand. GOOD! because Allah will bring justice her and in the after life.

    The mother is agreeing with her child and playing the “my son would never do that” card in her head, cognitive dissonance. Don’t accept anything but a legal agreement backed up by the United States government, that will keep you safe. As far as the father is concerned, don’t fall for his games of going to Saudi or meeting him somewhere outside the US. They will try and plot anything to keep the act away from their family.

    This blog is becoming popular and I just heard about it today, and I’m happy it is .. if you want to do something before marriage .. then do Misyar or Mut’a marriage. This will ensure that your son is rightfully yours and you won’t be a shame for your family.

    Bottom line, don’t give in to anything they do.. unless they come here to the States and sign legal documents. Don’t attempt to go there and don’t trust any official document from their embassy. It’s easily disregarded. Hope this helps and please read more about temporary marriages in Islam because they do exist.

    Wish you the best of luck. Remember, Allah is on your side, you are the oppressed.

    Fi Aman Allah

  147. Kyu

    انا مو مستوعبه كيف الامريكيات اعطوهم وجه
    كنت افكر محد يتحمل عيالنا الا احنا
    بس طلع في امريكيات مقرودات وحظهم النحس طيحهم فيهم

  148. raz

    christina have u triend to reach the saudi embassdor him self , or to contact him some how ?

  149. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    how would i do that raz

  150. Omar

    Hi Christina

    I have to admit that your child is really so cute :) and he really deserve the best life, right?

    I read your blog and some of your replies and you always mention that the reason why you do all of that is to make your child lives with his dad … this is maybe true!! because there are so many single parents around the world never done this. I know it is hard but they do not do something like this.

    But the REAL reason why you are doing all of that is you are still really in love with Bahi and you can not believe he is not in your life anymore. This is called a wild love where a revenge comes part of this love and this is exactly what you are doing.

    Bahi is really a coward guy and he does not deserve you. You are really so beautiful, cute, and young, and you have a wonderful life ahead of you so please do not waste your time waiting for someone like him.

    Spend your precious time with someone who is brave and who is going to care and support you and your child and there are so many people around you who will give you the support you need. You know deep inside your heart that Bahi is not brave and will never do that for you. Be strong enough and get over him because you do not deserve this pain.

    Keep smiling Christina and do not make him the reason why you smile.

    Regards,
    Omar
    ksaomar@hotmail.com

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      no i do not want my child living with his dad but to develope a son and father relationship and see each other thats all .. and no im not in love with bahi , bahis lies and bullshit killed the love i had for him no more

  151. lulu

    سبحان الله كاسرة خاطر كتيييير هنا والله لو سعودية كان سبيتو فيها وفي أهلها يالطيف يارب الله لايبلانا ولا يفتنا في ديننا بس الي يشوف صورتها وصورتو يحس بفارق عمر كبير بينهم شكلها أكبر منو وهو شكلو بزر من طلاب البكالوريوس من بين كل القصص الي في المدونة هذه القصة فيها شيء غريب وكثير حس بكدا ولاوحدة شهرت قد ما هي مشهرة بكلام الله أعلم بصحتو ونرجع نقول يامقلب القلوب والأبصار ثبتنا والله يهديهم يارب وشيء تاني لازم تعرفيه كريستينا حتى لو ثبت أنه ابنه من خلال قصتك ذكرتي ان ابنك لم يولد من خلال زواج فابنك في الإسلام يسمى ولد فراش وله أحكام تترتب عليه والله الطفل هو المظلوم الله لا يفتنا يارب قصص مفزعة

  152. TARIQ

    لاحول ولاقوة الا بالله ..هذي بلاوي الابتعاث..واحد ماعمره شاف انثى الا امه وبعدين يشوف كرستين وش تتوقعون بيسوي ..والمفروض من باهي يكون رجل بمعنى الكلمه.. ارجع ياباهي وخذ زوجتك الجميله وابنك ي

  153. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i wish bahi not to return to me but to return to his son who doesnt deserve what he is doing to us … if bahi has time to party in dubai and meet women and do haram things i think he has time to see his son and call him or come and see him … he says he is muslim but not acting like one ..

  154. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    AND I HAVE CONTACTED BAHI UNCLE AND HIS MOTHER AND THEY PLAYED WITH MY HEAD SENDING ME A FAKE MARRIAGE CONTRACT AND I HAVE THE MESSAGES SAY THAT BAHI MOM WILL ONLY TRY TO HELP ME GET RAYAN SAUDI PASSPORT ONLY IF I WRITE A PAPER SAYING THAT ” BAHI WILL NEVER GIVE HIS SON MONEY OR I WILL NEVER ASK” ON THE OTHER HAND WE HAVE CALLED BAHI UNCLE BACK AND HE DENIES EVER TALKING TO ME BUT LITTLE DOES HE KNOWS I HAVE EVERYTHING DOCUMENTED … STUPID PEOPLE NEED TO COME TO TERMS THAT THERE SON DOES HAVE A CHILD AND THEY NEED TO STOP LYING BECAUSE THERE NAME IS ALREADY RUINED !

  155. walid

    I think if the father still immature… partying in dubai and continuing reproducing the same mistakes…. I m sure as a muslim he will wake up one day and realize the mistake he has done….my advice is to pray ALLAH alot that father be responsible and take care of his son….You Christina i think revealing this story of herpes was a big mistake if i were you i would not talk about it …may Allah help the mather and the father to raise their son…

  156. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    the truth had to be told because he has sent women to tell me stuff and what if he is sleeping with other women he will infect them ….

  157. bill

    YOU ARE DAM LUCKY,,,that he left you while u still young,,thats normal to their culture,,and tradition,,,just continue ur life,look ahead,,you still young and sure can do much,,

  158. bill

    hmmmm,hmm, why u r still following him,,i really dont know,,someone who dumped u,,usually woman got attracted to handsome or well responsible honest man,,this man has nothing of mentioned, why u still following him,,just easy ,,,dump him,and let him go to hell,,,its soo easy to find one good man,,and i mean THE MAN, not same shit man u still follow,,

  159. samoo

    السعودين قدمو الارهاب للعالم بأسم اسامه بن لادين
    السعودين قدمو الوهابيه للعالم بأسم أبن تيميه
    السعودين قدمو الخليج لامريكا
    السعوديين خدمو اسرائيل من خلف الكواليس
    واخيرا السعودين يتركون ابنائهم ابناء الزنه
    وفوق كل هذا يتكلمون عن الدول العربيه ويصفونها بأسوء الدول

    عاش العراق العظيم ارجل الرجال والقاده ومرعب الكفره

    • AZIZ

      Samoo,

      أولا ردك بخصوص هذا الموضوع ليس له علاقة بأي حال من الأحوال بهذة الصفحة
      و هناك مواقع كثيرة تفرغ فيها مابك من شحنات و أحقاد. فذكرك علاقة السعودية و الارهاب و الوهابية و ابن تيمية و السعوديين و أمريكا و اسرائيل في هذا السياق كمن ينعق في غرفة موصدة الأبواب….
      من أسلوبك في الكتابة علمت أنك حاقد و نذل و لن أنسبك لمذهب شيعي أو سني لكي لا أجعل من الحبة قبة !!

      و لكن القارئ سيحدد بنفسه ماهيتك!

      أبحث عن مكان أفضل لكتاباتك الدنيئة
      “لايضر السحاب نباح الكلاب”

  160. فيديو محزن للغايه اي قلبً تملك ياباهي الايوجد لديك احساس

  161. naji

    I could not believe that is there father leave his son and go to another world…. i am from Libya and i am surprised from that

  162. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    I GUESS TO YOU ALL OLDER OR WHATEVER YOUR AGE IS YOU ALL ARE SO QUICK TO SAY DUMP HIM OR LEAVE HIM OR FORGET ABOUT HIM BUT YOU ALL CANNOT JUDGE UNTIL YOU WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES . MY SON NEEDS TO KNOW HIS FATHER REGARDLESS WHAT THE CIRMUNSTANCES ARE . I AM A VERY STRONG WOMEN THAT WANTS MY SON TO BE HAPPY AND TO SEE HIS FATHER AND GET TO KNOW HIM VERY WELL .. AND ANOTHER THING PEOPLE KEEP SAYING ABOUT SINGLE MOTHERS IN AMERICA YES THERE IS SINGLE MOTHERS BUT THE FATHER PAYS CHILD SUPPORT AND SEES THEM PRACTICALLY EVERY WEEKEND .. MY MOTHER WAS A SINGLE MOTHER AND SHE DID EVERYTHING IN HER WILL FOR MY FATHER AND HIS KIDS TO HAVE A GOOD QUALITY REALTIONSHIP BETWEEN KIDS AND FATHER . SO PLEASE PEOPLE HAVE SOME DAMN SENSE IN YOUR HEAD .. IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE TILL BAHI SEES HIS SON AND FORMS A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON .

  163. Honest

    just wana ask if its possiable to adabt the child by someone, or if we can pay him all his expanses, what the best way to make sure he is getting the best from the society, to hell with his father, if his father is like that, he dont needs him, he will need a man to take care of him…

    please advice

  164. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    I WILL NEVER EVER EVER GIVE MY SON AWAY .

  165. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    MY SON HAS THE BEST OF SOCIETY AND THE BEST OF ANYTHING HE COULD EVER HAVE WITH OUT HIS FATHER PROVIDING FOR HIM … I AM A STRONG WOMAN I GET MY SON WHATEVER HE WANTS !!! IM NOT DUMB I WILL NEVER EVER GIVE MY SON AWAY HE IS MY PRIDE AND JOY MY LIFE MY EVERYTHING

  166. ahmad1970

    انا ايام البعثات فترة الثمنينات ميلادية كان لي علاقة مع صديقة امريكية وانجبت منها بنت وولد بالحرام ولما حبيت اتزوجها ودروا اهلي ماوافقوا عشان كذا سحبت عليها وعلى اولادي يكفي ان الله لهم الي احسن مني لاتلومون الشباب انا حاس فيهم

    • Meccan Lady

      حسبي الله عليك انت واشكالك . لكن ما اقول غير الحساب يوم الحساب. يوم لا ينفع مال و لا بنون

    • AZIZ

      To Ahmed1970,

      و الله تابعت الردود من أولها لاخرها و لكن و بكل صراحة ردك كان من أقبح و أقذر الردود لعدة أسباب:

      أولا: المجاهرة بالمعصية و ايضا التفاخر بها .
      ثانيا: بأي حال من الأحوال وقع الفأس في الرأس و أنجبت صديقتك منك أطفالا , فكيف تتركهم و ترجع لبلدك و كأن شيا لم يحصل ؟؟
      ثالثا: حتى ان رفضوا أهلك زواجك منها ، ألست رجلا حتى تتولى تربيتهم بنفسك ! فمهما طال عتاب الأم و الأب عليك , فيوما سيفهمون لماذا تزوجت تلك المرأة و ذلك لكي تربي أولادك و تصلح خطأك!
      رابعا: هل تعتقد أن ابنك أو بنتك يريدوا الان أن يستعيدوا العلاقة معك؟ و ان حصل , فهل تعتقد أن علاقتك بهم ستكون قوية و متينة ؟
      خامسا: بالله أسألك مادين ابنك و بنتك الان ؟؟ اذا كانوا مسلمين , فهل هم مسلمون حقا ؟ أو فقط بالاسم ؟
      سادسا: هل حاليا تفكر بأن تلقي على ابناءك نظرة لتعرف أحوالهم ؟؟؟

      • ahmad1970

        يا AZIZ

        ياعزيزي اولا انا لم اجاهر بالمعصية الا من ورى الشاشة ولو كنت في مجلس امام الناس كان ماتكلمت في هذا الموضوع اصلا اما بخصوص التفاخر بها فما اعلم اين التفاخر وجدته بسطوري انا ذكرت المعصية صحيح ولكن دون تفاخر ولكن ذكرتها من باب ان هالشباب الي في الموقع غيرهم في زمن سابق عمل نفس اعمالهم وتورط مع اهلة عشان كذا حبيت اشارك واقول تجربتي ان الشباب صح غلطانين طبعا لكن ظغط العائلة والمجتمع وكلام الناس سيكون اكبر منهم ومن الي خلفوهم بمليون مرة عشان كذا حاس بالشباب وشاركت بالموضوع كوني وقعت بنفس مشكلتهم اما بخصوص تربية الابناء فلهم ام ترعاهم اما انا فغير معترف فيني اب لا شرعا ولا حتى عرفا فلا نعلم اباء في مجتمعاتنا العربية يرعون ويربون ابنائهم من الحرام ويجاهرون بهذا امام الناس وجها لوجه اما ابنائي بتأكيد لا استطيع ان ازورهم لاني لا استبعد ان تقوم امهم واهلها بقتلي في حال رأتني هي واهلها لاني فريت من امريكا هاربا واصبح موقفي امامها زي الزفت وكاني طلعت في نظرها غدار وممثل وانا فعلا مظلوم لانها تتوقع مني الزواج كونها تحبني جدا وانا كنت فعلا صادق بالزواج حيث كان بيننا حب حقيقي ولكن كانت الظروف من الاهل لارحمة فيها ولا تفاهم لذلك تركتهم ورائي بسبب ظغط عائلتي القاهر وخصوصا اني كنت مراهق صغير لا يملك من امره شئ ولا اعلم اي شي عنهم الان ولا عن ديانتهم لاني غادرت من امريكا فاراً والولد والبنت لم يتجاوزا العامين والان هم يفترض انهم بسن طلبة الجامعة على كل حال الله يغفر لنا مامضى ويهدي ابنائي للاسلام ان لم يكونوا مسلمين وان كانوا ميتين الله يرحمهم فلا اعلم عنهم اي شي والصلة مقطوعه عنهم من عشرين عام

    • samar

      بصراحة انت ماتستحي فوق شينك قواة عينك
      قاعد تحط لك اعذار وتتعذر والطفل لاينسب لأبيه وارتحت ومادري ايش
      ترضاها لعيالك؟ترضى بنتك تاخذ بالحرام وتنجب ويهرب زوجها؟
      ما اقول غير حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل فيك وفي اشكالك جعلكم ماتذوقون طعم الراحة ابد
      وعسى كلماتك هذي حسرات عليك يارب وياليت يقتلونك ويفكونا منك

  167. كيف يعني الدعوه فوضه الله لهم ؟؟؟ اجل انا بروح واجيب درازن عيال من حريم وارميهم بالشارع واقول الله لهم ,, الله لهم بحاجات بالرزق التوفيق الصبر اشياء مثل هذا مو تجيب اطفال وترميهم بالشارع

    • ahmad1970

      ياخ wael

      اولا عيالي مانرموا في الشارع فين مفكر نفسك في العالم العربي الي يخلفوا بالسفاح ويرموا في الشوارع والزبايل العيال عند امهم واهل امهم وبعدين انا ضميري ارتاح الحمد لله لما عرفت ان في الاسلام ابن الزنا ينسب لامه ولاينسب لابيه وبامكانك مراجعة هذا الامر في المواقع الشرعية فاانت نفسك لو رحت زنيت وخلفت عيال لايحق للام ان تطلب بنسبك للعيال لان عيال الزنا يلحقون بامهم واهل امهم هناك قلة من العلماء قالوا ان ابن الزنا يلحق بابيه اذا اعترف به ولكن يظل رأي ضعيف عند العلماء الحمد لله

      • jflsdf

        ahmad1970 الى
        عمرك ماحترتاح ودوق الراحة ولاتنسى الدنيا دوارة الا مايجي يومك. واتنمى انك تصلح غلطك قبل مايفوت الاوان. مااقول الا حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل.

      • RA

        {ادْعُوهُمْ لِآبَائِهِمْ هُوَ أَقْسَطُ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ لَمْ تَعْلَمُوا آبَاءَهُمْ فَإِخْوَانُكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ وَمَوَالِيكُمْ وَلَيْسَ عَلَيْكُمْ جُنَاحٌ فِيمَا أَخْطَأْتُمْ بِهِ وَلَكِنْ مَا تَعَمَّدَتْ قُلُوبُكُمْ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَحِيمًا} [الأحزاب : 5]
        29‏/1‏/2010 تم النشر بواسطة haizof.

        أبي ذر رضي الله عنه أنه سمع النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول : ” ليس من رجل ادعى لغير أبيه وهو يعلمه إلا كفر ومن ادَّعى قوما ليس له فيهم نسب فليتبوأ مقعده من النار “. رواه البخاري ( 3317 ) ومسلم ( 61 ) .

      • rasha saud

        حسبي الله عليك !!! في شي اسمه دي ان ايه .. لاتنسى ان عقوبة الزنا تلحقك اذا ماخذتها في الدنيا راح تاخذها في الاخره وذنب الولد والام في رقبتك ليوم البعث ربي يحرقك

  168. nasser

    shame on him

  169. mesharri

    حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل وكفى

  170. Abdullah

    shame on him
    we are so sorry Mrs.NICOLE

  171. Omar

    Salam,
    It is a great step what are you doing here, i like your honesty and you girls are doing the right thing.
    it is time for those “boys” to step up and take responsibility.
    God bless you and good luck.

  172. :/

    ahmed that’s not excuse, all those guys has no excuses at all..

    they go study and they get attracted to those pretty women, go out with them, party with them, kiss them, live with them, have sexual relationship with them, maybe kids too! then they search for girl number 2, and 3 and 4.. sometimes only one but rare.. they think they’ll have fun and go back to KSA as if nothing happen which is smart move by them, but really how can YOU or them live like that? it’s disgusting i’d rather kill myself than knowing i did something wrong and there r people suffering because of me, let alone the women, what about the kids.. they’d be a piece of me how could I live without them? guys like you and them are really horrible, thank god bahi and you left.

    iam a girl c.nicole and i understand your situation.. but honestly he’s such a jerk who already got his punishment with his disease.. he can party as long as he wants because that’s all whats left for him.. he cant even DREAM of having a real family or real relationship because of his disease..

    but really.. if I were you I’d be so happy that he’s out of my son’s life.. think about it, why would you want a father’s relationship.. u want his father to teach ur son to be a man not a boy? excuse me but how can u teach someone something u dont have, his son isnt a man at the first place, how he’ll teach him to do anything right in this world? he’d probably teach him how to mess his life up, how to cheat, lie and abandon his kids making the mother running behind him for the sake of the son.. even if you got through the court and made “father relationship” it’d just be so fake and sucks, because he doesnt want to, it’d effect ur kid badly.. he doesnt deserve this, doesnt deserve a father like him.. he doesnt NEED him and he’s really better off without him.

    just think about it.. you got the right to do whatever u want no one is saying anything about it, but think about it.. you might can find that father’s relationship for ur kid and its really important.. but bahi might not be that father.. it doesnt have to be his real father really, you’d probably find a better father for this kid.. just forget about bahi i’m already disgusted and I feel like throwing up he’s such a kiddo who’s paying the price for sure, those parties are nothing but pain that’ll kill him slowly..

    i read your conversations, your replies.. you sound like a sweet girl like my american girlfriends.. im glad you are ok and i hope u no longer scared to get in cars!! just really try to think about your son.. he doesnt need this shitty father.. even your brother would be a better father than this jerk..

    one thing you tell your son about his father.. that you tried your best, and that you aint gonna ruin his image because he is still his father but he’s way better off without him..

    • christina nicole

      when you have a kid then u know there is no such thing as other father … his father is bahi and not another father ….

  173. Rasha

    Hi Christina
    I wanted to ask if you are Moroccan?
    because you really looks Moroccan ..

  174. Deirdre Cleroux

    I am sorry but I find it hard to sympathize with you, Why the hell would anyone want to date a Saudi guy!!!!!!!!!, are you outta your mind!!!!!! I mean come onnnnnnnnn probably the only female he ever seen in his life is his mother he not even allowed to see his sister (religious issues). I don’t think that someone one who used to have sex with camels will have any Idea about how to treat a lady. but as usual girls always end up with the worst guy they could find and when shit hit the fan they start crying.

    • jflsdf

      To Deirdre,

      Basically and honestly You Are An Idiot you know nothing about our culture, next time educate yourself before you stick your nose in something you don’t understand and know nothing about, Seriously !!!

      • christina nicole

        to whatever your name it .. obviously you do not know the facts either and basically talking out of your butt , keep your nose where it belongs

  175. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    rasha no im not and whether im black white spanish italian purple pink whatever that does not justify these men leaving there sons behind …deirdre were not stalkers when we meet a guy we trust there words actions ect ..we do not google these boys when we meet them

    • jflsdf

      I can’t believe you, all you want is to revenge from your ex. It’s very clear from your comments.

      You didn’t have to say anything about his STD, and don’t say you want to protect other girls from him Because if you really want that Then good luck protecting 49342084023840 girls in this world. Say something make sense.

      You could just went to court and get your rights. All this drama will make him do his best to disappear and never find him.

      All what you are doing is for yourself not for son, very obvious, you can’t fool all people.

      • CHRISTINA NICOLE

        HAHAHAH KEEP TALKING …. THIS IS ACTUALLY PROBABLY BAHI BECAUSE FROM WHAT HIS FRIENDS TELL ME HE GETS ON THE BLOG AND WRITES BULLSHIT SO ANYWAYS NO I DO NOT WANT REVENGE HE DOES IN FACT HAVE HERPES AND HE HAS ADMITTED IT TO SOME PEOPLE … IT IS NOT RIGHT FOR HIM TO HAVE SEX WITH GIRLS AND GET THEM stdS WHICH IS GROSS BY THE WAY… AND YES IM DOING THIS FOR MY SON I HAVE CALLED HIM NUMEROUS TIMES AND FRIENDS HAVE TALKED TO HIM AND NEVER DID I SAY OR TELL PEOPLE TO ASK HIM ANYTHING ABOUT ME IT HAS BEEN ALL ABOUT OUR SON RAYAN … HE HAS EMAILED ME FROM A FAKE EMAIL WHICH I ONLY STATED FOR HIM TO SEE RAYAN AND DO THE RIGHT THING … HE AS ONLY BEING 19 YRS OLD WANTS TO PARTY OBVIOUSLY … AND THAT IS NOT GOOD HE HAS A SON

  176. sara

    يناااس هدووو حسبي الله ما اعطيتو الولد فرصه يفكر كلكم هجووم علييه والله مسكييين مصييره رح يفهم ويرجع لولده تراا لسا صغيير وبني ادم ضعييف والله يسامحه ويستر عليه

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      listen sara bahi is far from innocent .. obviously your one of the many girls he puts to come and tell me things or this is actually him .. i tell u that boy puts soo much energy to tell me things and to get me angry that to make things right with his son

  177. sam6

    استغفر الله العظيم..الحمدلله والشكر لله
    بعد فيك امراض وراثية وتبلى بنت الناس بعاهاتك
    ع قولة الشاعر زودن على هم الليالي زغاغيل
    لوووول

  178. twtw-1@hotmail.com

    ما أقول غير سود الله وجيهكم شباب فاشل ديوث سافل منحط حاكرين بناتكم بالبلد وجايبين لهم نفسيات بالدين اللي ماطبقتوه ع أنفسكم و برى أفعالكم تشابهه البهايم يابهايم , الدوله تخسر والأهل يتألمون ع فراقكم وبالأخير زنا وحرام وانحطاط أقول لعنك الله أنت وياه اللي ضيعتوا مستقبل أولادكم جب عارك أنت وياه من هناك الله يفضحك لا يبتلون بديانه غير دينك , وقسم بالله أنك عار على السعوديه وأنا اللي كنت أقول شباب ديرتي غير طلعتوا ماتسوون زق ,
    حسبي ربي ونعم الوكيل ,, صار الشعب منحط والسبه مديثة الرجال من بار لبار ومن مرقص لمرقص , خربتوا صورة الشعب السعودي وخربتوا سمعة الاسلام ,, حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل ,,

    بنت الجنوب الحزينه ,,

  179. Meccan Lady

    To All American Mothers Of Saudi Children,

    I am Saudi woman and it really saddened me what those deadbeat dads did to you. I am very so sorry for what you have been thought. I am very sorry for what your children have been through. I want you know that you have my support and there are many Saudis men and women who are very supportive of you. Thank you for being strong and standing up for your rights and your child rights. It takes alot of courage & bravery to confront those men and go public with your struggle.I hope the fathers finally will bring enough shame to their families that they are forced to pay child support. It is not that child fault that his father is irresponsible and it is not your fault that you trusted someone who betrayed your trust. We can not choose who we fall in love with so I can only imagine how you feel. I really don’t know how do you do it, how to be strong and move on and be able to raise your child without the dad but I respect you for it because I am a mom and I can not imagine how I would have been able to raise my child without my husband continues love and support, Thanks for posting this story. It works like magic and people now are talking and something good will come out of this at least families realize that their kids are not angels and it is time to teach them to respect women and be men. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers and send all my positive energy your way.

    God Bless!

  180. Bnt almamlakah

    I’m a Saudi girl and I think most Saudi men are menwhores .we Saudi girls never believe Saudi men unless their families come to propse ,so we can marry their sons ..

  181. Bnt almamlakah

    We believe you Christina and those people who herrass you on YouTube I bet it’s Bahi and his friends he is an ASSHOLE and he’s too scared to face you that’s why he’s hiding behind fake names .. You’re so brave and I admire that you’re doing this for your son

  182. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    YES IT IS BAHI HAHAH HE MADE A FAKE EMAIL AND STARTED TELLING ME STUFF LOL OMG HE THREATENED ME SAYING IF I SHOW PEOPLE HIS VIDEO FOR ME TO BE CAREFUL HAHAHAH HE IS PATHETIC

  183. لا اله الا الله حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل

  184. والله ليت عندك ذوق زي اختيارك وترجع لي عيالك
    موووزه

  185. Shame on you Bahi ,, You tarnished the reputation of your country and the reputation of Islam

  186. حسبي الله عليك ي باهي نبيل قطب حسبي الله عليك ونعم الوكيل فيك وبعايلتك ..وش ذنب الطفل ي خسيس وش ذنبه بعد م اكلت الحرمه لقمه سامه وطمنتها وتركتها ي ملعون الجدف ي جعلك الخساره يارب في كل شي

  187. بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

    أتأسف فعلا مما اراه من تكبر وعناد في محاولات الاباء لطمس خطئهم الجسيم, وان اقبح من الذنب لهو العذر القوانين السعودية واضحة وصريحة ويمكن لكي الحصول على حقوقك كاملة مع الاستفادة من بعض الدعم الاعلامي لتسريع عملية التقاضي, فنظام التقاضي السعودي يعترف بالتحليل لاثبات النسب وان تلاعب الاب وعائلته بالام واستغلالهم لظروفها لاجل الضغط عليها للتنازل عن حقوقها وحقوق ابنها الشرعيه لهي لعبة سخيفة ترتقي لمصاف الجريمة والتي يجب مواجهتها بكل حزم, لا انسى ان اشير لكون ان الطفل يحمل الجنسية الامريكية فهي قوة لا يستهان بها اطلاقا لصد اي محاولات من الاب وعائلته للتلاعب بحقوق الام وطفلها, انصح الام بالتمسك بكامل حقوقها وعدم التفريط بها تحت اي ظرف من الظروف, وهناك عدة طرق للحصول على تلك الحقوق, ويجب ان تحصل الام على بعض النصائح بخصوص القوانين المرعية في كلا الدولتين لكي تعرف كيفية البدء في مقاضاة الاب.

  188. so sad this situation. I think you are right, your son does have a father and is entitled by Islam and has rights ,, work hard for them,, I think he is probably just scared and yes, get Rayan in the arms of his father any way you can and it will change,, he will fall in love with him, and be a great dad,, he is just running scared, best of luck and you can connect your family and be a whole strong family unit again soon,, keep fighting for your family.

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      i have tried i have tried for bahi to come see his son and to hold him and laugh with him and play with him but he does not want too… i have put my time and energy to make things better for my son but to be honest i think his mom and her brother are enabling him and making him scared and not be here for his son … his uncle have lied and made false statements of me many times and so has his mother … 2 liars telling bahi bad things becomes just worse

  189. *&^%$#@!

    حتى لو كان ما عمره شاف إلا امه واخواته حرام يزني وحرام يترك ولده , إذا ما قدر يمسك نفسه كان ما جا الحين هو ما فشل نفشل نفسه فشل السعوديين كلهكم واحد منهم طلع كيذا والامريكان بيتكلمون علينا وعلى ديننا

  190. befair

    غدا سينعرف  الموقع جيدا وينتشر ..في السعودية
     وسيتراكض المبتعثون السعوديون..
    السابقون واللاحقون..
    من سبعينات القرن الماضي..او ربما يمكن عشريناته!!!! 
    يبحثون عن ابنائهم وبناتهم..اللذين انكروهم
    وزوجاتهم او عشيقاتهم..الذين نبذوهن وهجروهن..لمراضاتهم..
    سيحاولون..غلق الموضوع
    وسيدفعون الغالي والنفيس.. مجبرين لا مخيريين لايقاف الفضيحة..
    ولكن هيهات..
    باب جهنم قد فتح…
    و…..
    جاك الموت يا تارك الصلاة

  191. NAS

    This comments not for you Christina.So don’t waste your time translate these words
    ——————————–
    يا شباب مثل ما قرأت بعض الردود ترفع الراس الا انه للاسف نسبه كبيره تفشل. أتمنى ان ننقل صوره جميله عن ديننا وعن انفسنا قبل وطننا مو في أماكن مثل هذي يطلع عليها الملايين من الاشخاص نكتب كلام بذيء او تشويه لسمعه الدين

    أضعف الايمان قل خيراً أو أصمت ولا تنسى مختلف الجنسيات والديانات والاعمار قد يقرأون ردك هنا
    ——————————-

  192. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    شكرا على ردودكم الجميلة وعلى وقوفكم بجانب الحق كل ما اريده ان احصل على حقوق ريان الشرعية واتمنى ان تساعدوني بدلك

    • Bnt almamlakah

      You will Inshallah..

    • سلام عليكم

      الخطوات القانونية معروفة وواضحة, ولكنها تحتاج الى شئ من الترتيب والتجهيز في حال رغبتك التوجه الى القضاء السعودي للحصول على حقوق طفلك الشرعية, لاتظني ان الامر صعب, ولكنه قد يحتاج بعض الوقت في ردهات المحاكم, واهم خطوة في هذا الاتجاه, ان تملكي قرار لا رجعة فيه, فالانسحاب بعد البدء قد يعني خسارة كل شئ.

      مع التحية والتقدير

  193. حظك اقشر ياباهي :D
    حتروح فين من ربنا :)

    ارجع وتزوجها وعين خير
    احسن لك واحسن لولدك وخل الحرمه تدخل الاسلام
    والي انكسر يتصلح
    اتمنى الكل باهي وغيره يرجعون ياخذون عيالهم وزوجاتهم
    وترى الشرع حلل اربع ياشباب :)
    يعني اذا كنت متزوج مايخالف هاذي الثانيه بس يويلك لو درو الملحقيه بيقطعون عنك البعثه
    هههههههههههههههههههههه

    I’m really sad for these actions

  194. Bnt almamlakah

    الاوقح من باهي امه تقول للبنت تنازلي عن مصروف ريال المشكله انها عارفه ان ريان حفيده ياقو وجهها شين وقواة عين مايقهرني غير الام اللي تدافع عن ولدها دفاع أعمى جعل الله يعمي عيونها ..
    اولا من حق ريان انه يكون ابن شرعي اقلها لو التسلب باهي مايحب كرسيتنا يتزوجها فتره ويطلقها عشان ريان
    حسبي الله عليك ياباهي ياجبان يارخمه

  195. J

    i think it is good she mentioned the std, because he will never tell his futur wife of it and trick her. so now any girl will know and beware. and you can not have children with this std without the risks involved. blindness and or death.

    • Bnt almamlakah

      No man get married in KSA before he takes HIV and STD test .So Bahi will never get married and if he wanted to marry anygirl in KSA he will have to go through those test or else the government will never allows it

  196. HHH

    lets put it this way .. if his mother is defending him after what he did .. then stay away from this family because simply they are trash .. a person that abandons his son this way doesn’t deserve to know any child .. your son is better off without him .. my advice.. STAY AWAY FROM THIS FAMILY because nothing good will come out from them and you should know that by now.. no values and no morals .. what a fucked up family .. teach your son how to be responsible and how to be a man which is basically how to be the opposite of his father .. teach him manners and how to be a good Muslim .. i’m shocked to see that some people are defending this fuck up called Bahi after he abandoned his son.. I feel sorry for you and i hope you and Ryan the best of luck .. going to Saudi can put you in harms way .. Wallah they can fuck you over and you will be deported because when you enter the kingdom you will have no rights as an american because Saudi never signed that rights treaty .. ask a lawyer about that and they will know what that treaty is called .. some people say that being a US citizen gives you immunity in the kingdom.. i say BULLSHIT his family is not some small family in Saudi and they probably have tons of connections .. and in Saudi its all about connections and who you know .. if you know the right people then you can get away with a lot of things .. i don’t mean to disappoint you but the truth can be harsh sometimes .. some people in Saudi as usual think that foreigners are only interested in their money which psychologically means (((I’m nothing and all i have is some money, other than that there’s nothing interesting in this department of self uselessness))).. and my message to this kind of people (((GET OVER YOUR SELF Loooosssseeeeeerrrrrrrrrr))) .. by the way i’m Saudi so save the words .. Allah yewafgek and hopefully Ryan will have a better life here in the US where education and healthcare are way better than Saudi .. if he works hard enough he can become anything he wants and i’m sure he’ll turn out to be better than that looser Bahi who can’t get his shit together .. come on the guy cant even take care of himself without mama stepping in .. they left him in the states and he returned to mama with STD and probably no degree .. he’s a loser and a big one .. say NO NO to someone like that in your sons life .. take the positive and leave the negative .. your lucky to have Ryan and luckier to get rid of a looser like Bahi ..ask your self this, do you want your child to be like his father???.. wish you the best allah ye7mi waladek wa allah yesa5erlo al3eshra al9al7a inshallah

    • christina nicole

      you can be saudi i could care less what your ethnic roots are so get over yourself no one can ever hide from having herpes so case closed

  197. J

    i would also like to know how do you want bahi to have a relationship with his son, but not you? first off, he is a young adult with no education or job experience. he still has braces..sheesh. even if he wanted to live in america, he would have to finacially support himself and his son. this is impossible for him to do at the moment, unless he takes money from his parents. that would be wrong considering the situation. so that is why bahi’s parents would gladdly take the child to care for him. it will be cheaper, and bahi will be at his home finding a job if he can. there is no jobs for him in america. the economy is bad. please answer how you think bahi is going to come have a relationship with rayan on your terms. impossible unless he works at burgerking. come on now,
    you two need to get it together, because i think you two deserve each other. J

  198. rez

    وين بيروحون من عذاب الله .. حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل على من تسول له نفسه العبث ونسي أنه محااسب الله عافهم ولا تبلانا ..

  199. Yasser Al

    Good luck Cristina .. the right is on your side, keep fighting .. I am happy that you are still on Islam and you have big faith that you will get your and your son rights.

  200. Yasser Al

    so it is ok to take a son from his Mom!!! what a twisted logic

  201. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    WHO IN THE WORLD SAID ABOUT TAKING RAYAN AWAY FROM ME YASSER … ALL I WANT IS FOR BAHI TO SEE HIS SON .. NO WHERE DID I ALSO STATE THAT I WANT MY SON TO BE LIKE HIS FATHER …. I DOUBT SOME OF YOU ARE PARENTS AND DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO MAKE YOUR CHILD HAPPY WHATEVER THE CONSEQUENCES ARE .. BUT AGAIN LET ME STATE NO WHERE IN THIS BLOG DID I STATE I WANT MY SON TAKEN FROM ME OR TO BE LIKE HIS FATHER .. LEARN THE FACTS PEOPLE THEN TALK .. YES I KNOW YOU ALL ARE SUPPORTING ME BUT I WANT WHAT IS RIGHT FOR RAYAN AND THATS TO KNOW HIS FATHER .. THATS ALL

  202. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    AND NEVER EVER DID I ASK FOR BAHI TO CARE FOR HIS SON .. HIS MOM GIVES HIM MONEY TO PARTY IN DUBAI RENT NICE CARS WHICH HE THINKS HE WILL GET GIRLS LIKE THAT … … I DO NOT NEED HIS MONEY I JUST NEED HIM TO MAN UP AND SEE HIS SON THATS ALL

  203. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    AND FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE READING MY COMMENTS AND SAYING THAT IM ONLY TRYING TO TAKE REVENGE ON THE FATHER OF MY CHILD BAHI .. NO I AM NOT I JUST WANT HIM TO COME BACK TO HIS SON IS THAT TO MUCH TO ASK FOR FROM A SAUDI BOY. YES I HAVE POSTED THAT HE DOES HAVE STDS BECAUSE IT IS THE TRUTH AND I FEEL IF WOMEN KNOWS THESE THINGS THEY WONT BE SOO GULABLE WITH MEN IN GENERAL NO I AM NOT TRYING TO EMBERASS HIM BUT IT IS THE WAY PEOPLE TAKE IT .. BUT IT IS THE WAY IT IS .. I HAVE ASKED HIM MANY TIMES TO SEE HIS SON I HAVE NEVER ASKED HM TO BE WITH ME OR ANYTHING ABOUT ME I HAVE STATED FOR HIM TO SKYPE WITH HIS SON AND ONLY HIS SON NOT ME SO THANK YOU FOR YOUR RUDE AND KIND OPINIONS .. GOD BLESS

    • Bnt almamlakah

      Why the hell is Bahi in Dubai ?
      Does his mother knows about his STD and she’s giving him the freedom to spread herpes ??????
      Is she insane ??? If she’s a true Muslim she wouldn’t let Bahi out of her sight .Is it enough what Bahi did , he really should be punished

      • CHRISTINA NICOLE

        well unfortunately bahi is telling his mother lies lies and lies i did tell her about his herpes but she probably thought i was joking … huda is her name is also making up lies that i gave bahi drugs and raped him which is omg a huge lie and it makes me laugh because we lived together for a while … bahi is feeding her lies

  204. Yasser Al

    No dear Christina I did not say you wanted to give Rayan away, some people here suggested that you should give him to his dads family so I am protesting that twisted opinion, I know you will never do that, no mother will give out her son especially someone who is fighting the word for her son right.. I am with you al the way!

    • CHRISTINA NICOLE

      o ok thank you yasser obviously those people who are saying that are not parents having a child is not like a pet where you can just give the baby away .. it amazes me how people think .. i wouldnt trust bahi or his mother alone with rayan even if we were on good terms… sorry for saying the truth .. bahi cant even take care of himself much less his mother who believes everything she hears .. my son will always be with me stay with me he is my life my heart everything to me ..

      • Bnt almamlakah

        Poor Bahi couldn’t defend himself ..Is Bahi’s mother joking ??

  205. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i have no idea some of the lies i hear from her and her brother are amazing and obnoxious …

  206. Khan

    There is a problem in ministry of higher education about an American guy who married a Saudi girl and they have two children.
    هناك مشكلة في وزارة التعليم العالي بسبب أن أمريكي تزوج من سعودية وأنجب مها طفلان.

  207. christina nicole

    what does this have to do with me having a baby from a saudi khan?

  208. هذه تصرفات حمقاء تدل على عدم وعي الكثير من المبتعثين ، ويجب اعادة النظر في هذا الابتعاثات الغير مدروسة ، كما ينبغي ارغام هؤلاء الآباء على تصحيح اوضاعهم واقامة الحد .. نسأل الله العافية الشرعي على الذين انجبوا منهم خارج اطار الزواج الشرعي جزاء لهم وردعا لأمثالهم

  209. ALI BN ABDULLH

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم. وبعد سأتحدث من منطلق شرعي بحت الآتي: الحمد لله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله وعلى آله وصحبه أما بعد:

    فنشكر لك ثقتك وتواصلك مع مركز الفتوى، وفيما يخص السؤال رقم: 43661 فقد أحلناك على جوابين سابقين لاشتمالهما على مضمون ما سألت عنه.
    وقد تضمن الجوابان ذكر اختلاف العلماء في نكاح الحامل من الزنى، وذكرنا ما نرجحه من أن حمل الزنى لا ينسب إلى هذا الزاني ولو تزوج من الزانية.
    وهذا هو مذهب الجمهور، وقد بينا في فتوى أخرى تفصيل هذا الخلاف، انظر الفتوى رقم:6045 وحاصله أن الجمهور على أن ولد الزنا لا ينسب إلى الزاني بحال، وخالف في ذلك عروة وإسحاق بن راهويه وسليمان بن يسار وأبو حنيفة فأجازوا إلحاق الولد بالزاني في حال زواجه بالزانية. قال أبو حنيفة رحمه الله: لا أرى بأساً إذا زنى الرجل بالمرأة فحملت منه أن يتزوجها ويستر عليها، والولد ولد له.
    وإنما رجحنا مذهب الجمهور واكتفينا بذكره في بعض الفتاوى، لما رواه أحمد وأبو داود وابن ماجه والدارمي أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قضى أنه لا يلحق الولد “إذا كان أبوه الذي يُدْعى له أنكره، وإن كان من أمة لم يملكها أو من حرة عاهر بها فإنه لا يلحق به ولا يرث؛ وإن كان الذي يدعى له هو ادعاه، فهو ولد زنية من حرة كان أو أمة.” والحديث حسنه الألباني، وهو صريح في أن ولد الحرة المزني بها لا ينسب إلى الزاني ولا يرثه وإن ادعاه الزاني.
    ولا شك أن إثبات أبوة الزاني لهذا الحمل يترتب عليه أحكام عظيمة كإرثه منه، وكون الولد محرماً لأم الزاني وأخته وبناته من غير المزني بها.
    وأما حديث أبي داود: لا توطأ حامل حتى تضع. فقد صححه الألباني في صحيح أبي داود.
    ونحن لا نلتزم ذكر من نص على صحة الحديث اكتفاء بوقوفنا على صحته.
    والحاصل أن الولد من الزنى لا ينسب إلى الزاني في جميع الأحوال، سواء ولد قبل زواج الزاني بأمه، أو كان حملاً حين حصل هذا الزواج.
    والله أعلم. اسأل الله العلي القدير ان يحفظ أبنائنا المبتعثين ويعودو لأرض الوطن سالمين مكللين بالنجاح والرفعة لدينهم وبلدهم

    • @

      يا بابا هذه فتاوي لما كان مافي دي أن أي ، لما كانت الزانيه تنام مع ستمية ألف واحد. الآن فيه شئ اسمو دي أن أي يثبت من الأب

    • أبو صالح

      أنا ما أُقول إن لم يعترف به أباه فلا ينسب له حتى إذا أثبت الطب ذلك عليه لكن لإن الله هداه وأصبح المسلم التقي النقي فليرجع لطفله فيربيه تربيه صالحه هذا ما أقول والله أعلم

  210. christina nicole

    listen you heartless piece of fucking shit …… you are no one to judge and another thing bahi doesnt have fucking money … if you only knew how that boy lived okay so shut the fuck up .. and second who the fuck are you to be talking seriously … how about u sell your mothers body and go sell it so maybe you can buy your self a life lol

  211. christina nicole

    and another thing my son have expensive nice clothes and they come from my money meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee not from his cheap ass loser father and his mother family

  212. christina nicole

    to JUDGE things happen i was on birth control when i got pregnant with bahi so who are you to say shit seriously my son has more expensive clothes than his own father and i buy everything for him not his father not my family but me … another thing is that you probably are bahi or know bahi is thats why your talking smack when u dont know me .. point me SHUT THE FUCK UP OR ILL SHUT U UP

  213. dazler from ksa

    christina if u want me to marry u and adopt your son just say it then we Discuss this later

    • christina nicole

      i do not want to marry anyone i do not want to be with anyone …. i am happy with just me and my son … and no my son has a father which is bahi so no one is gonna adopt him

  214. J

    no need for the F word..we hear you. J
    and i dont think bahi is in dubai. and if he is, he is not going to clubs, he is with family shopping at the mall

    • christina nicole

      yes he is in dubai and he is having sex with women i know trust me

      • christina nicole

        i just dont like people calling me a liar or blackmailer because that is wrong i do not want his money i just want him to be in contact with his son … cmon my son dresses better than him .. do you think i want his dads money he is spending lol no

  215. J

    @christina
    do you mind revealing your nationality, and do you speak arabic? and does bahi know your nationality, and do you think he will talk about you here on this site. or keep you private. when saudis talk of someone they love, they dont to the public or expose them in good or bad. just wondering. J

    • christina nicole

      i am american i was born in america i am AMERICAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  216. J

    one thing people need to know about the american girls here, or american girls in general. most dont care about money. so really stop mentioning that she or these girls are looking for money from the fathers.it’s common for american girls to only like a man for who he is, not money. that is the last thing on their mind, and having a father figure is the first. these fathers really need to come out of the closet and just own up to their responsibilities. it really is going to damage the child in the future. being saudi and living in america is going to be an identity crisis for these children. not to mentioned after 9-11, it really is not the same as before. i know. and dont compare it to a situation of two native americans. this is not the same. at all. we are talking identity crisis for the child that will come and may go positive or negative for his future. and also for all the criticizers out there, what is the first thing you want to do to someone you love..buy them something..or maybe the second thing after hugs and kisses.

    • christina nicole

      thank you “j” thank you sooo much yes everything u have said it is true , i havent once asked bahi or his family for money all i want is for bahi to see his son thats all …

  217. christina nicole

    its just sooo sad that saudi girls and emirate girls open there legs to bahi without knowing his health issue just because he drives a rented range rover …. omg if they came to america they would be worse every other american drives a ranger rover lol but a owned one not a rented one lol

  218. abu

    i think that you should just keep your head up high and not over stress yourself over this. you are obviously beautiful and since you are stating that you don’t need his money you will be able to keep moving forward with your adorable son.
    now, i think that if you don’t want to marry him or want him back “just be in rayan’s life” then why would you agree to the marriage contract? or did you hurt your head in the crash that bad? i am pretty sure you weren’t out to dinner. but if you say so.
    last, just make sure you are clear about what you want and what exactly you are asking for. if you say he has no money then how is he going to travel to texas to see rayan?
    i am sorry but your comments are not straight. i am not taking any side. his nor yours. i just think that you are not exactly looking for what you keep saying.you are. i’m pretty sure you do want him to come back to you not just your son. it’s alright to admit it. just don’t keep blabbering lies. be straight. from what you want.

    • christina nicole

      i do not blabber lies hunny or whoever you are and yes i was out to dinner unlike some other families my family does not condone me going out to drink while i have a son at home my grandmother is a sheriff and i am living with her and she helps me take care of rayan not financially but pyshically … anyways i signed those papers cause they told me it would be better for rayan and his reputation in saudi arabia and so the family wouldnt look down on him as zena … if bahi can be renting range rovers to go see women or girls i think he can buy himself a ticket to see his son ..another thing is that i doubt your a parent because the way you are speaking you have no remorse on how to be a parent .. i do not love bahi what so ever anymore but if anything will benefit my son then i am gonna do it … and get a life please you dont know me to say im blabbering lies hunny.. and my head is high but when bahi sends little girls to come write to me or he writes to me from a fake email that is just BS …

      • abu

        actually i am a parent. two boys. their dad lives in saudi. haven’t seen him since the doctor’s appointment that informed us we were having twin boys two years ago. he has only contacted me when i gave birth. he hasn’t been there for the boys financially nor physically. i have done everything for them. they are being raised without their dad. all he is to them is a sperm downer. so, don’t speak to me that i have no remorse on being a parent. i live alone with my boys and work hard for what we have. we have way plenty. now, i wish you the best of luck trying to get what you wish, whatever it is. thank your grandmother for being there for your son and yourself. you are lucky to have her. and bahi sounds like he has a lot of growing up, and he still looks like a child. but anyways, good luck with that.

  219. never give up

    listen to me christina i know bahis family ! if you need any thing just gimme your email… and i will help you i promise

  220. christina nicole

    @never give up: its cnicole77@live.com

  221. lolo

    والله مابغالكم الا كدا
    قله حيا

  222. abu abdullah

    I really was sad and upset about your sad story, and I am sure you are not alone , there are many such cases , so first of all this is part of your fault , since you trust like this type of stray guys ,
    however this not the right time to blame you.
    Just as the previous comments said , take care of your handsome child, and I hope you enjoy him Instead of his coward father, and I am sure he will enjoy you while he grows up .
    My best. Abu Abdullah

  223. Sat

    Christina, I would recommend you to send a message to this boy telling him that he has had enough time to put things right if he wanted to. Therefore, stop contacting him any take the whole thing further.

    How??

    You and other girls in the same situation should move to the TV now. Contact Opera Winfrey, or any ‘Famous’ show producer, and ask her to shed a light on the issue. After that, make appeal to Saudi society to financially support you. We normally response to such appeal very positively. More importantly, there are some ‘generous’ people who only help people on the live shows!!!

    Cheer up, he’s just a smelly one. You should be positive and grateful that at least you did not get stuck with this …………..

    We always will be here to help.

    Good luck

  224. Sat

    Clam down Christina, I do not blame to say this to me. If you think that my piece of advice is offensive, then I do apologize.

    It is a challenging situation and few people can really understand who painful it is to be in a such a case. However, do not respond when you are in a bad mood. You can notice that hundreds of thousands do sympathize with you but they are not happy with what you wrote above.

    You could have ignored my post. So, just ignore any offensive post.

    That is all.

    Regards.
    Sat

  225. Ryk

    Keep us with updates Christina plz hope things r well now with u and ur son

  226. christina nicole

    yes i am well and fine so is my son just here getting ready for christmas and thanksgiving … spoiling my son soooo getting xmas gifts out of the way .. life is good to me and my son

  227. ahmed

    the thing that Bahi can not understand is .. she is still in love with him and his son is waiting for him .. i would fight for both of them to be just right next to them…. i have no idea what kind of environment did his family raised him in … unbelievable .. i am shocked i did not imagine as saudis we would be like this or we can do such a thing … what happened to us as muslims .. Bahi if you think you could get away with this , then think gain ,, there is Allah up there will judge and trust me it is not gonna be easy I feel sorry for his little brain … i am sorry everyone for what we have done

  228. christina nicole

    ahmed your words are very kind but i am not in love with bahi nabil qutub yes i love him as rayans father but not for myself the actions he has been taking has killed the love and sympathy i have for him .. when we were together he was soooo different but bahi has turned into this cold heartless person .. i agree he needs to come back to his son yes that is a no brainer but i have done everything in my power to try to get him back to his son .. this block was not out of anger but to tell the world about whats happening to there students .. do not blame yourself or other saudis because this is bahi not all of saudi .. i do not judge the rest of saudi arabia for what 1 muslim did .. but again i thank you for your kind words …. xxoo

  229. christina nicole

    bahi has brought alot of positive and negative to my life positive meaning he gave me my son which changed my life in soooo many ways negative meaning im a single mother and its very hard but positive because this is only making me a stronger woman emotionally …. and i am happy with my son … he is happy … we are happy .. some people who have been following this blog have become good friends to me and my son … thank u all from my heart rayan and i love you all and the support u have given us

  230. Aziz.s.a

    all i could say is wt goes around comes around and bahi will suffer sometimes soon from this and he will realize that he made a mistake and come back from a saudi student studying in america to nichole i would like to say to you i’m sorry for you on the behalf of all saudi’s and we aren’t like this. anyways i would like to tell you that allah may be with you with this kid and your son will have his childish father soon :)

  231. christina nicole

    bahi will never try to take away my son i am from america not british whatever … bahi is scared of me and my family which is pretty funny … he will never ever try to take my son away from me lol

  232. christina nicole

    @lubina … honey cmon your calling me someone who has one night stands lol really … who is the one with herpes … oh thats right its bahi .. i respect myself .. and obviously my son is a copy paste of bahi his father get over it

  233. saleh

    his mother wants to take the baby?? very strange answer

  234. saleh

    I meant Bahi’s mother

  235. saleh

    even you give them your son , they can easily consider him as an orphan and then leave him in any charitable organization.

  236. christina nicole

    i never said im gonna give my son away way the hell up thats the last thing i will ever doooo . come on be smart not dumb

  237. Rebekah

    You should have been aware of the culture. You have now ruined your son’s opportunity to gain a Saudi passport. The child will not be approved and you have publicly admitted you have a child of haram.
    In many cultures, past and present, children without marriage are not accepted.
    Now your revenge will only be hurting Rayan.
    First, he cannot carry his father’s name according to Islamic law. Second, if you just had contacted his family before you made these posts, you may have received support.
    Your son will never be accepted in Saudi because of your action. You made a scene you put all of your business out there.
    The father cannot be apart of his life because of the shame you have brought upon him and his family name.
    Saudi Arabia is a culture that has not changed and never will. They care about the name, they keep their bloodline. If you had been married that would have changed your situation dramatically. However that was not the case. You were stubborn, unwilling to hear what the strict rules of the culture were/adhere to them when you got pregnant and then came to posting these things to satisfy your thirst for revenge.

    With that said, maybe look into deleting all of your life which you have posted on the internet. This has only pushed your child’s father away, possibly forever.
    You have declared a war and that is no way to resolve a conflict. This situation happens with all foreign exchange students, not just Saudi exchange students and men here in America too. Father’s walk away. I am not saying it is right but you have made it nearly impossible for the father to walk back into Rayan’s life with these posts.
    Delete everything and maybe time will heal the wounds you have inflicted.
    Make a clean slate for yourself, focus on being the woman God wants you to be, seek solace in Him, not the internet.

    Prayers for you and your beautiful son.

  238. christina nicole

    @rebekah i do not know who you are but i am not gonna erase this at all yes i tried contacting the family and we talked but got false actions and just lies … you act like if your allah to know everything .. so please do not come at me with negativity .. and i have a clean slate bahi left when i was pregnant without even thinking of coming back ….. so thanks for the advice but no thanks good bye …. PS yes it would be great to get a saudi passport for rayan but cmon its not something im gonna die for … u act like a saudi passport is like a piece of gold lol but its not ….

  239. j

    at rebekah
    all saudis would love to have american passports.only for the ease of traveling. they often have their children here for that reason. saudi is not the land of the free and opportunity for americans, we dont need a passport for that, just a degree, and a little work experience and chaching, it’s called expats…but maybe indians bengalis philipno indos, would love the saudi passport..right.

  240. christina nicole

    @shahed go bother someone else no one cares about your opinion or what you think seriously get over it … people like you are a waste of oxygen in this world …. i feel bad for your parents lol

  241. christina nicole

    @
    hhaa99@live.com
    sweetie we have your IP address all over this blog
    get over it we know you know none of these men
    i really think you have a disorder mental disorder to be exact
    you lie alot … get over yourself and go find a hobby go stalk someone else seriously …

  242. Hamad

    To: Mrs. Christina Nicole
    All of us (humans) are not angels, rather sinners,
    I, am a Saudi who studied and lived in US for six years back in the eighties, I really felt very very angry when I read your case, Oh my lord, is it possible for any human being to abandon his biological child ?
    I suppose that Mr. Bahi Nabil Qutub is a muslim, if so then what he is doing right now contradicts all bases of Islam, weather financially able or not, weather healthy or sick, He should fear God rules and systems in this existence. ” Those who fear God will be out of any narrow escape and be richen ”
    Christina, be strong, patient and always take care of your child as much you can, I really pray to almighty God that you overcome these difficulties and prevail over those who look like humans but as a matter of fact they are wild and very far away from humanity, thank God we don’t have much of them in KSA.

  243. christina nicole

    thank you hamad you a very kind …

  244. Commentary

    christina, why do you even bother with this bunch of liars! Him and his family have insulted you and your son!
    I would not even have the heart to contact them after all this. I would not want even to hear their voice!
    I would shut them off completely and it would take a long time and effort from this guy Bahi in order to allow him anywhere near me and my child. As for this uncle and grandmother- I would probably never forgive them and never allow them near my child whose actions insulted so greatly.
    I would turn a page and re-build my life through my work and a new marriage.
    They are disgusting! Just because Bahi gave his ‘ sperm’ ( as it seems this is all he is capable of) you should not put him in a position of high importance. He sounds similar to a bottle from a sperm bank and that does not make parenthood.
    He betrayed you and his own blood and turned his back in the worst manner. He is so not worth it!

  245. joker

    وصلنا لدرجة تفاهة عالية ان نتابع اخبار ليس لنا علاقة بها

  246. king Abdullah

    ريان باهي قطب يا ابن الزنا هههههههههههههه

  247. مع الأسف كذب علينا الشيخ في المدرسة لما كان يقول ان إحنا مجتمعنا السعودي عشان مافي اختلاط ، مجتمع فاظل ، في الواقع كبرنا الآن و اتخرجنا وشفنا كيف المجتمع السعودي مخو موجود تحت السرة ، الله لا يسامح كل من دروسنا ( البنت مالها الى زوج يعاشرها وبيت يسترها و قبر تندفن فيه ) دول النساء و أطفالها اشرف من كل حقير يدعي ( الدين ) وهوا اتفظح دحين في أحداث سوريا ( زواج السوريات ) والمتاجرة في عرض الناس ، ولا القاضي الى قبل فترة يقول على البنات الكشافات هم سلعة بباش !!
    قاضي يقول كدا !!!
    يالله الى الآن ما اعرف طيف كوكب الأرض متحمل وجود السعودية !!

  248. um adam

    sorry about what happened, this is unbelievable. Allah gives his favorite servants the most hardships.

    do you wear hijab now? and do you live in the KSA?

  249. Antithat

    شوهتوا صورة الاسلام الله ياخذكم ترسلون للعلم وترجعون بالعار
    تف عليكم وعلى تربيتكم الوسخه يا عيال الكلب

  250. Sarah

    OMG I just read your story it broke my heart how could someone do such thing. I am a girl from Saudi Arabia and I am really embarrassed with what he has done to you. I think I can reach his family. Please give me your contact information preferably phone number and I’ll tell you what I can do.

    Take care of yourself and son!

    Sarah

  251. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    YOU CAN EMAIL ME AT CNICOLE77@LIVE.COM
    BUT I HAVE CONTACTED HIS FAMILY .. HIS FAMILY IS NOT WELL

  252. CHRISTINA NICOLE

    i have very much moved on with my life .. i know that my son one day will look for his father and his father has to answer to him and not me .. the people who have left negative comments are obviously distraught inside .. and the other who were supportive … may allah bless your white hearts…. another thing for the people who think we beg to have our sons be saudi nationals lol i rather have my son get a US passport than a saudi one ..

  253. Abdulghafur khan

    I saw this creature trolling around in dubai with a bunch of girls and he looks happy. Such a heartless kid with a dead soul. However, its your bad that u trusted a kid with a future. And may god be on you side.

  254. good for him im pretty sure spreading herpes to these poor girls is amusing to him =) i am happy with my son and my hubby =) and he treats rayan like his own .. so alhamdulillah we are happy =)

  255. mashaal565

    what a lovely child you have chris, he is really cute. I would never defend Bahi for all the things he has done to you or to your SAUDI child. Those kind of bastards do not represent Islam nor do they represent saudies. However, as you might know by now, this bastard will never acknowledge his child by you writing about it in here. If i were you , this what i would do;
    1) try to find out where he works at. If he works to ARAMCO or SABIC, those two companies have offices in the Houston area and they can be more helpful than the embassy to resolve this matter.since he was studying at university of Houston there is a great chance he works for one the two companies.
    2) try to get in touch with someone in his family who is more religious, they tend to be more understandable regrading these kind of issues and have fair solutions, because Allah and Islam do not tell us to give up our children even though we have them without a legal marriage.
    Good luck.

  256. Nura

    Be a best mom for Rayan, life it sill far.
    You still have long way to go. His father and his family they don’t have a good heart. Inshallah, you and your son will have a better future without him.

  257. rasha saud

    شوهتوا سمعتنا وديننا !! حسبي الله عليكم خاف ربك يا باهي واعترف بإبنك .. راح يلاحقك هذا الذنب انت واهلك للأبد والعقوبه من الله شديدة !!

  258. Adnan

    my only advice for you ma’am is to expose him as much as you can. sorry for the harsh words but its like your looking for a needle in a haystack. the don’t talk to him try to directly to talk to someone who s related to him, if you talk to him he will try to cover it up. my dear, he probably told his parents that you are lieing about the kid being his child and even if he didn’t lie and told the truth the parents may not approve they will be trying very hard to sweep this under the rug. keep it exposed to everyone that you think he may know.

    at this point i am assuming that his parents told him to never contact you agine even if he wanted to be with his son, the family may not allow it to not damage their reputation.

    may allah be with you.

    • Adnan

      and by the way from the messages he seems like a big time lier.
      you were right about him being a lier

      and be sure that u really talked to his parents some guys would just give you his friends fake number to act as one of his parents.(seen it happen before)

  259. Zahia

    تتكلمين بكلمات اسلامية في محاولة منك للتاثير على الناس يا اختاه استري نفسك و لا يحق لكي المطالبة لانك بنت زانية

  260. My reply to Zahia

    اوكي صح عليك اهي زانيه .. طيب والشباب اللي في هالموقع المشكله عيااااااال حمايل وناس معروفه .. زي سليمان عبدالعزيز الراجحي وش تقول عنهم .. ليش ما قلت حسبي الله عليهم هم .. بعد زنوووووو وانتهكو كبيره من كبائر الدين الاسلامي .. السوال هل اقيم عليهم حد الزناااااا ولا لا .. لا طبعا .. لان المعتقدات وليس الدين الغبيه اللي في السعوديه تقول “ان الرجال ما يعيبه شي” وهذا يسمي تخلف.. .. والجهل الاكبر يجي من اهلهم .. ليش؟ لانهم يدعمونهم .. والخافي امر واعظم .. تلقاهم خلاص جربو والله لا يبلانا يمكن الان ما غير سفرات وزنا وشرب..
    وللاسف هذا واقع بعض الشباب السعودي.. اللي اهله ربهم علي مبداء “الرجال ما يعيبه شي” ونسو ان يربوهم علي ان الرجال نعم يعيبه شي خاصه ان كان هذا الشي في دينه.. وللاسف اذا راح الدين .. خلاص وش بقي

  261. mood A

    I can help you and take care of that poor kid he doesn’t deserve that from his dad . I wasn’t his mistake his father must deal with it . Ifthe father is a Muslim and scared from god, God will not forgive him that he left a child behind .
    Poor kid, If you want to have fun think about what is after that, running away is not the best way to solve that problem.
    Sorry for the mom and the child .

  262. أبو صالح

    أرجو العذر والسماحه لمقاطعتكم وخروجي عن موضوعكم رجيت منكم أن ألزمكن أزاله الأغنيه تلك عن الفيدو أعلاه فلى يرضى لِمْرءٍ مسلم أن يرى كتاب الله وذكر نبيه مقروناً بإحدى الأغاني ذلك ما أنوه إليه وشكراً

  263. R

    Omg i cant believe that bahi did thisss!!! Shit he was my friend and i never think that he’s kind of these people :o im too shocked!!!! Shame on him!!! May allah be with you dear christina <3

  264. it is what it is I am very strong for our son , if you don’t mind email me cnicole77@live.com

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