* ى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب / To the family of Bahi Nabil Qutub
الى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب الذين يعيشون في مكه المركرمة
الى عائلة باهي نبيل قطب الذين يعيشون في المملكة العربية السعودية ( مكه المكرمه) ………….. اما بعد
هذه الرسالة اليكم لكي تتعرفو الى ماذا فعل ابنكم من افعال مسيئه الى سمعة عائلتكم عندما كان يدرس بالولايات المتحده الامريكيه في ولايه تكساس في جامعة هيوستن حيث كان على علاقه مع امراه الى مده عام و انتهت هذه العلاقه بانجاب طفل اسمه ريان باهي قطب. بعد محاولاتي الاتضال بباهي التي بائت بالفشل و الرفض من باهي الى مناقشه مساله ابننا ريان. ابننا ريان قد ولد قبل 3 اسابيع من تاريخ هذي الرساله و الى وقت هذه الرسالة باهي لم يبالي ماذا فعل. اود ان اعلمكم بأني لا اريد ارغامه على الزواج مني انما ما اريده هو ان باهي ان يتواجد في حياة ابنه ريان. ايضا هذه الرسالة بان انا اريد معلومات بالامراض الوراثيه الموجودة في العائله لكي يتم علاجه بالطريقه الصحيحه و هذي المعلومات جدا مهمه الى صحة ابننا ريان. انا اسائلكم الى الاتصال بي باقرب وقت الى مناقشه الموضوع على البريد الالكتروني firstname.lastname@example.org
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
بعد سنة اشهر من عدم الاتصال بصديقي القديم باهي نبيل قطب . والد ابني ريان باهي قطب, بدأنا بالاتصال مع بعض, بعد ان عرفت انه الكثير من السعوديين قرأو مدونتي و يريد مني حذفها.
و أنا كأم اردت من باهي ان يحسن علاقته بابننا, وصلنا بالنهاية الى اتفاق على انه اذا اهتم بالطفل و اصبح اب بكل معنى الكلمة له. فسوف افكر بحذف المدونة, اعلم انه محزن جداً ما وصلنا له, لانه يستطيع ان يكون ابأ حقيقيا. لا أنكر انه كان يحاول دائماً ان يكون اباً حنوناً لطفله, لكن في الحقيقة لم يستطع ان يبذل اي جهد حيال ذلك. دائماً كنت اقول له انني سوف اتكلم مع امك و اقول لها كل شي حصل بيننا و عن طفلنا, لكنه ادعى ان امه ستكون غاضبة جداً و انها ستبعده عن ابنه, و لكن كأم اريد ان يكون لطفلي جدة في المملكة السعودية انشالله. ولذلك قررت ان اصمت ولا اخبر امه عن الموضوع لانني لا اريد من باهي ان يرحل و يتركنا , لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله.
للاسف كل هذه السعادة بطفلي بوجود ابيه انتهت. ذلك لان امراة تعرف باهي وضعت صورة لطفلي على الـ ” فيس بوك” و اشهرت الحقيقة انه هذا الطفل هو ابن ” باهي ” , سالته ان كان يعرف هذا الشخص, لكنة نكر المعرفة و حذفني من مسنجر ” بلاك بيري ” و هو ما نستعمله عادةَ للتواصل. و عندما اراد ان يرى ابنه عن طريق ” السكايب ” حاولت الاتصال به عن طريق الهاتف عدة مرات من أجل الطفل, لكنه لم يتجاوب حتى.
منذ حوالي اسبوعين كانت لدي القوة الكافية لاتصل بامه ” داهلاوي ” و عمه ” دهلاوي ” و أخبرتهم ان ” ريان” هو ابن “باهي “. فوعدوني ان يجدو حلاً و دعوني للصبر, لكنه حتى هذه اللحظة انتضر منهم الرد, ولكنهن كذبو علي و لم يجدو حلاَ ” توكلنا على الله ”
وأنا كأم تهتم بالطفل وحدها من دون مساعدة الاب تعبت! لذلك لن اصمت بعد اليوم عن اي شيء حدث بيني و بين باهي نبيل قطب, اشعر ان هذه العائلة لم يأخذو الموضوع بمحمل الجد, كيف لو علمو انه يوجد لديهم حفيد ؟
انا و باهي التقينا في أوائل عام 2011 بطريقه غريبة , و بسرعة اصبحت العلاقة جدية, تركت اهلي و منزلي من اجل ان اكون معه في هيوستن تاكسس, وعدني انه يحبني و انه يريد الزواج مني و العيش معي للابد, و على الرغم انه لم يكن صادقاً فاني احببته , كنت دائماً بجانبه عندما كان مريضاً او يريد ان يتكلم عن مشاكله العائلية.
صعبة جداً علي ان اقول ما حدث ذات مرة عندما اكتشف تورم صغير في المنطقه التناسلية من جسمه, أقلقتني لمعرفة المشكلة بالضبط, بصراحة في البداية اعتقدت انها جرح من الحلاقة, لكن هذه الحبوب بدأت بالتكاثر و الانتشار بشكل كبير, و الم به الالم من هذه الحبوب. ذهبنا للطبيب لفحصها . و عندما قال الطبيب انه مرض جنسي, اغضبني كثيراً لاني اعرف انه لم يأخذ المرض مني. و مع هذا بقيت بجانبه, لانني اعرف انه كان خائف من المرض و غاضب لما حدث له ” رحمه الله”.
بعد عدة اسابيع اكتشفت انني حامل, ومع كل ذلك التشويش في افكاري باتجاهه و باتجاه علاقتنا لم اعرف ماذا سأفعل, دائماً كنا نفكر ماذا سنفعل بالطفل. و بعد مشاجرة بيني و بينه قررت ان ابقي على الطفل, و باهي كان يؤيدني, و كانت الخطة انه سينتقل الى ساغيناو ميشيغن مع شقيقته, و انا بعد ما اولد الطفل سوف انتقل الى بيته و نعيش سوية, ومع ذلك يخفي الموضوع عن اهله.
اول طبيب رأيته اخبرني انه يجب علي ان اتم بعض الفحوصات و لمعرفتي بالمرض التناسلي ل باهي اخافني كثيراً ” لاحول ولا قوة الا بالله ”
الطبيب اعطاني الاخبار الجيدة انني لم اصب بالمرض و انه لم ينتقل من والد طفلي . “الحمدلله” كنت سعيدة لكن لا يخلو الامر من الحزن و الغصب لانه كان الدليل على ان باهي قد خانني مع مرأة اخرى. و مع هذا كان شعوري لا يوصف بالسعادة بطفلي و عندما شعرت بدقات قلبه للمرة الاولى. ” الحمدلله”
ارسلت اول تسجيل صوتي لطفلنا لباهي لكنه لم يقل شيءً و بقي صامتاً في البداية, ولكن بعد مرور اسابيع و بعد معرفتنا ان الطفل هو ذكر, ما جعله سعيد و طلب مني ان نسمي الطفل “محمد”. بالوقت الذي كان يعيش فيه مع اخته في ساغناو و بعد اسبوع اخبر زوج اخته عن طفلنا,و بعدها ذهب الى السعودية و اختفى من دون اي بخبرني. تكلم معي من السعودية و لاسابيع كان كل يوم يقول لي كذبة جديدة. و كان دائماً يقول ان امه علمت بالموضوع و ان عمه يريد قتله, و لكن لم اصدقه او تلك الاكاذيب, لانني اعرفه جيداً و اعرف عندما يكذب, و حتى لو حلف على القرآن او على قبر ابيه فانني اعرف انه كان يكذب.
ريان باهي قطب ولد في الثالث و العشرين من شهر مارش 2012 يزن 7 ارطال و طوله 18 انش, كان علي ان اكون دائماً بجانبه من دون والده اللذي رحل. هذه المدونة جعلتني اشعر افضل, واقبل كيف كان و كيف هو الان . “أعوذ بالله”.
لا اعتقد انه يستطيع الزواج في المملكة العريبة السعودية بسبب مرضه الجنسي و لارتكابه الزنا ” استغفر الله”. انا اشكر الله كل يوم على صحتي, و ان الله رزقني بطفل جميل “ماشاء الله”, اللذي ساربيه ليكون مسلم صالح ” انشالله”
حاولت بكل جهدي ان يكون للطفلي أب و جدة في حياته وانا بالحقيقه كنت ابحث عن حل وسط مع باهي و عائلته , و هذا ما يزعجني انهم مسلمين و الاسلام لا يدعو اللى عدم العدل , انا أعرف ان الزنا محرم, و ان طفلي هو لي و ان القران لا يقول ان باهي لا يتحمل اي مسؤولية اتجاه طفله, القران يقول ايضاً ان الاطفال هم منحة من الله للاباء. و يجب ان يتحملو هذه المسؤولية ليوم القيامة. و يتحملون كل شي من تعاليم الدينية لاطفالهم.
وأنا كأم كنت ابحث عن اي طريقه ليكون ابني غير محتسب على ” الحرام ” لانه ليس مسؤول عما فعل ابوه و امه من معصية لله ” استغفر الله”
To the Family of Bahi Nabil Qutub who live in the city of Makkah Saudi Arabia.
This letter is to inform you of the shameful actions of your son Bahi Nabil Qutub.
While attending college at the University Of Huston in Texas Bahi began an almost year long relationship with a woman resulting in the birth of a child. I have often tried to contact Bahi to discuss our child with the end result being his silence.
Rayan Bahi Qutub was born in March of 2012, and he has become my whole life. Bahi has not yet contacted me to find out how his son is doing.
I want to note that I do not wish to forcefully marry your son although I would like for Bahi to be involved in our sons life. Also it is important for us to have the family medial history for my child’s health. I ask you to please contact me at email@example.com To discuss the issue further.
Assalamu‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim,
Finally after 6 long months not communicating with my ex boyfriend BAHI NABIL QUTUB, father of my son RAYAN BAHI QUTUB, we started communicating with each other, knowing he only communicated with me because a lot of people in Saudi Arabia saw the blog and he wanted me to erase it.
As a mother i deeply wanted Bahi to develop a relationship with our son. We had came to an agreement that if he started being a father to Rayan i would think about taking off the blog, yes i know very much sad it had to come to this so he can be a dad. I’m not gonna lie and say he wasn’t trying to be “good” to his son but in total honesty there wasn’t effort at all. I often told him i was gonna contact his mother and let her know about our son and all had happened between us. However, he would say is that she would be very angry and take him away from his son, but as a mother i want my son to have his grandma in Saudi Arabia InshaAllah, knowing that i didn’t want Bahi to run away from his son again, so i kept my mouth shut and decided to not tell his mother nor his family, La hawla wala quwata illah billah.
Sadly all this happiness of my son having his father came to an end because a female who knew Bahi added my sons Facebook and i said the truth to her about Bahi having a son, i had asked him if he knew this person and all he said was no and deleted me from blackberry messenger, which is how we mostly communicated when he wanted to see his son on Skype. i tried to contact him via phone several times regarding his son and he has not answered not once. 2 weeks ago i finally had the courage to call his mother Dahlawi and his uncle Dahlawi and tell them about Rayan being Bahi’s son, they had told me they would find a solution to this and for me not to worry, till this day they have kept me waiting and lied to me about finding a solution, Tawkkalna-’ala-Allah. I as a mother who has taken care of my son and no help from his father i am tired and frustrated, so i am not being silent anymore about everything that went out with Bahi Nabil qutub and myself. i feel like if this family is taking our baby a light situation then what will they do when they know everything about there son or nephew.
Bahi and i met at the beginning of 2011 in a very weird situation, right away we became serious with one another, i left my family to go be with him in Houston, TX. He promised and said he loved me and he wanted to marry me and be with me forever, even though he wasn’t quite honest with me i still loved him no matter what happened or what went on. I was always by his side when he got sick or needed someone to talk to about his family problems. This is very hard for me to say but one day he discovered this pimple like bump on his genital area suddenly I became very scared and worried to what it was, to be honest I thought it was a razor burn but then those pimple like things multiplied and he suddenly became in a lot of pain. We went to the doctor to go check it out, hearing the words GENITAL HERPES coming from the doctors mouth made me very angry and betrayed because I knew he did not get this from me, but no matter how angry I was I stock by his side because I knew he was scared and in anger as well, Rahimahullah. Weeks later I discovered I was pregnant and was in total shock with Bahi mixed feelings were going on in my head and I didn’t know what to think. We often thought about what we would do with the baby and how it was gonna work out. After a long talk and argument I decided to keep my loving son and Bahi was with me on that, the plan was for him to move to Saginaw Michigan with his sister and then when the baby was born I would go and we would live together in a home, still hiding the baby from his family though. My 1stdoctors appt frightened me so much because they do an amount of test for HIV, STDS ect, knowing Bahi had genital herpes scared me very much sooo, la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah ….
The doctor gave me news that made me sooo happy which was that I wasn’t infected from the father of my child, Alhamdulillah. I was in total happiness but still in anger cause that gave me proof he had cheated on me with another female. As much anger I was in I was very happy to hear my childs hear beat for the 1st time, Alhamdulillah. I had sent the 1st ultra sound to Bahi, he was very silent at 1stbut weeks passed and finding out I was having a boy made him happy, he wanted me to name his son Mahmoud. While he was living in Saginaw with his sister for only a week or so he told his brother in law “so he says” about the baby, then he disappeared to Saudi Arabia with not telling me a word. He still spoke with me while in KSA, several weeks passed and everyday for him was a different lie. He tried to tell me his mother knew and his dads brothers were gonna kill him, not for once did I believe him or his lies cause I was already used to Bahi’s compulsive lying, also though he swore on the quran and his fathers grave I knew he was lying.
RAYAN BAHI QUTUB was born on march 23, 2012 weighting 7lbs and 18 in long via c section which I had to go through alone without his father being there by my side. This blog has brought me much closure and acceptance to what his father is and what he has become, Na’uzhu-bi-Allah. He will never be able to marry in KSA due to his sex illness and because he has committed zina, Astaghfirullah. I thank Allah everyday for protecting my health and for giving me such a beautiful baby boy MashaAllah, whom I will raise as a good muslim, InshaAllah. I have tried my best to have his father and his grandma and family in my sons’ life and I was actually willing to compromise something with Bahi and his family. This really angers me because they are Muslims and Islam doesn’t accept injustice, yes I know zina is considered haram, and my son belong to me but the Qur’an is not saying that Bahi has not responsibilities to his son, also the Qur’an states that Children are a trust given to the parents. Parents will be held accountable for this trust on the Day of Judgment. Parents are essentially responsible for the moral, ethical and the basic and essential religious teachings of their children. As a mom I was willing to do whatever it took for my son not to be considered haram because he is not responsible of his parents sins, Astaghfirullah.
Jazakum Allahu Khair
fi aman Allah
* this is what bahi mom told me and when I kept telling her I was at the doctor with rayan already she use to say bahi is looking for a good doctor which is dumb any doctor can do dna , and this is the skype messages from his uncle who sent me a fake marriage contract and lied to me , when he was called he denied ever talking to me and saying that bahi said I gave him drugs to get pregnant which is a big lie … I swore to have respect to my elders but I have never seen such liars before in my life .I respect people very much and I believe in allah but when people lie and make false accusations about me that is not right…..
هذا ما قالتله لي إم باهي عندما تحدثت اليها عن طريق الهاتف وقد تحدثت اليها كثيرا. وأنا كنت عند الدكتور مع ريان بحيث تحدثت مع أم باهي كثيرا وكانت تقول باهي يبحث عن طبيب بارع. والمعروف ان اختبار إثبات الأبوة أي طبيب يستطيع فعله. وهذا المحادثات بيني وبين أهله. أنا احترم كافة الناس ولكن لا يحق لأي أحد ان يتعدى حدودو ويفتعل افتراضات كاذبة
وهيا تظل تخبر الناس بقصص خاطئة عني. وهذا خطاء وظلم بحقي كمثال بسيط أني أوقعت باهي بشبكي أو أنني افتعلت كل هذا. وكل التي تقولوه يدل علئ مدى كذبها
[6/20/2012 2:31:58 PM] christina nicole: Hi vizio-sam! I’d like to add you on Skype. christina nicole
[6/20/2012 2:35:59 PM] *** Call to Sami Sami, duration 21:13. ***
[6/20/2012 3:04:52 PM] christina nicole: i just sent u the videos
[7/2/2012 4:20:51 AM] Sami Sami: Hi
[7/2/2012 4:21:26 AM] Sami Sami: I just send you an email, I hope your OK.Will check the videos
[7/2/2012 4:21:57 AM] christina nicole: yes im okay my face looks like beat up
[7/2/2012 4:22:11 AM] christina nicole: it was a very bad accident
[7/2/2012 4:22:46 AM] Sami Sami: Don’t worry it will get better I am sure
[7/2/2012 4:23:43 AM] christina nicole: on adding ur number i already printed the postal receipt and his has the number u gave me
[7/2/2012 4:24:54 AM] Sami Sami: I just thought if you put 2 numbers. I emailed you few minutes ago, I will need the Arabic to besigned too. It will be the official because of the language
[7/2/2012 4:25:15 AM] christina nicole: i will send it to u now from my phone
[7/2/2012 4:25:29 AM] Sami Sami: Good, how’s Rayan
[7/2/2012 4:25:43 AM] christina nicole: hes good thank god he wasnt with me in the crash
[7/2/2012 4:25:46 AM] Sami Sami: First how do you feel now
[7/2/2012 4:25:52 AM] christina nicole: pain
[7/2/2012 4:25:58 AM] christina nicole: alot of pain
[7/2/2012 4:26:35 AM] Sami Sami: (flex) your strong, you will be fine
[7/2/2012 4:26:46 AM] Sami Sami: Just cheer up
[7/2/2012 4:27:21 AM] Sami Sami: How did it happen ?
[7/2/2012 4:29:04 AM] christina nicole: me and a friend went out to dinner with alot of other friends i was coming back home n my friend was going really fast and crashed into a car and then head on into a post light pole
[7/2/2012 4:29:22 AM] christina nicole: my head hit the winshield it broke and then the airbag smashed into my face
[7/2/2012 4:29:34 AM] christina nicole: did u get the other picture
[7/2/2012 4:29:44 AM] christina nicole: i sent it from myphone to ur email’
[7/2/2012 4:30:35 AM] Sami Sami: Not yrt. It should be inbox soon
[7/2/2012 4:31:16 AM] Sami Sami: How’s your friends, I hope they are Ok
[7/2/2012 4:31:33 AM] christina nicole: not even a scratchon them
[7/2/2012 4:32:41 AM] Sami Sami: So you were just un lucky, don’t let it bother you. You will be oK
[7/2/2012 4:33:30 AM] christina nicole: yes very unlucky
[7/2/2012 4:33:47 AM] christina nicole: when i paid for the shipment online i added the number u gave me so its already set
[7/2/2012 4:34:05 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 4:34:22 AM] christina nicole: unless when i go to send it i can write in ur number
[7/2/2012 4:34:23 AM] christina nicole: ?
[7/2/2012 4:34:56 AM] Sami Sami: If you can’t add another number it’s fine.
[7/2/2012 4:35:20 AM] christina nicole: whos number is that badr?? is he gonna be there when they arrive to give it to him
[7/2/2012 4:35:38 AM] Sami Sami: Yes it’s Badr
[7/2/2012 4:35:52 AM] christina nicole: okay well either way they will give me a tracking number
[7/2/2012 4:35:57 AM] christina nicole: so i can tell u when it arrives in saudi arabia
[7/2/2012 4:36:21 AM] christina nicole: and i put some of rayans pics that we took at the mall so if u can ask badr to give them to u and huda
[7/2/2012 4:36:36 AM] Sami Sami: Cool
[7/2/2012 4:36:41 AM] christina nicole:
[7/2/2012 4:36:50 AM] christina nicole: im soo happy im alive
[7/2/2012 4:36:59 AM] Sami Sami: How many days it will take
[7/2/2012 4:37:04 AM] christina nicole: 3-5 days
[7/2/2012 4:37:48 AM] Sami Sami: Yes we are all happy to be alive, and you should be because there is a lot to enjoy in life
[7/2/2012 4:38:13 AM] christina nicole: have u talked to bahi
[7/2/2012 4:38:21 AM] Sami Sami: Yes
[7/2/2012 4:38:37 AM] christina nicole: how is he
[7/2/2012 4:38:38 AM] Sami Sami: He OK
[7/2/2012 4:38:49 AM] christina nicole: did u tell him about this marriage contract
[7/2/2012 4:38:58 AM] Sami Sami: Yes I did
[7/2/2012 4:39:02 AM] christina nicole: and what did he say ?
[7/2/2012 4:39:15 AM] Sami Sami: He is listening to me
[7/2/2012 4:39:29 AM] christina nicole: ok but why doesnt he talk with me
[7/2/2012 4:40:05 AM] Sami Sami: Just give him a little time
[7/2/2012 4:40:48 AM] Sami Sami: Let him visualize that he is a father
[7/2/2012 4:41:16 AM] christina nicole: did u recieve the mail ?
[7/2/2012 4:41:56 AM] Sami Sami: Not yet, the internet s a bit slow. I have been ahving problems with it lately
[7/2/2012 4:42:14 AM] christina nicole: how is huda
[7/2/2012 4:42:34 AM] christina nicole: did u tell her u saw the baby on skype
[7/2/2012 4:42:34 AM] Sami Sami: She fine too
[7/2/2012 4:42:44 AM] Sami Sami: Yes I did
[7/2/2012 4:42:58 AM] christina nicole: wat did she say
[7/2/2012 4:43:25 AM] Sami Sami: She is OK, Don’t worry
[7/2/2012 4:43:48 AM] Sami Sami: She will be ahppy to talk to you soon
[7/2/2012 4:44:04 AM] christina nicole: im glad
[7/2/2012 4:44:50 AM] Sami Sami: Can u get the Arabic done today or you already have it signed too
[7/2/2012 4:45:03 AM] christina nicole: i signed it
[7/2/2012 4:45:47 AM] Sami Sami: The email si probably Jammed, I still don’t have the message
[7/2/2012 4:46:11 AM] christina nicole: let me send it to myself n then foward it
[7/2/2012 4:46:23 AM] Sami Sami: Ok
[7/2/2012 4:47:44 AM] christina nicole: its sending
[7/2/2012 4:51:12 AM] christina nicole: did u get it
[7/2/2012 4:52:04 AM] Sami Sami: Not yet, I don’t know what’s wrong with the email. It’s jammed, can’t even refresh it
[7/2/2012 4:53:06 AM] christina nicole: wat is ur number so i can ask the lady if i can write it in
[7/2/2012 4:54:16 AM] Sami Sami: The email just came in. My number 011-9665-0550-2043
[7/2/2012 4:55:00 AM] christina nicole: do i write it like that or normal cuz if they call its gonna be from saudi
[7/2/2012 4:55:31 AM] Sami Sami: 05-0550-2043
[7/2/2012 4:56:50 AM] christina nicole: i have soo much trauma to my head and face i cant even think straight
[7/2/2012 4:57:46 AM] Sami Sami: I can immagin, but don’t let it bother u
[7/2/2012 4:58:13 AM] Sami Sami: Some times Zig zag thinking is fun
[7/2/2012 4:59:02 AM] christina nicole: i was saying slow down slow down and i got mad and said drop me off here in the street i will tell my family to pick me up .. i had a gut feeling something bad was gonna happen and sure enough 30 sec later crash
[7/2/2012 4:59:26 AM] christina nicole: and i was bleeding from my forehead i crawled out of the car and a couple stopped and helped me till the ambulance came
[7/2/2012 4:59:40 AM] Sami Sami: was she drunk ?
[7/2/2012 4:59:41 AM] christina nicole: and i called my grandma cause she is a police officer and she got there very angry with my friend
[7/2/2012 5:00:10 AM] christina nicole: noooo she had like wine when she was eating but thats it …
[7/2/2012 5:00:15 AM] christina nicole: but it got me very upset
[7/2/2012 5:01:19 AM] Sami Sami: I know how you feel, later on you will remember it with s smile
[7/2/2012 5:01:33 AM] christina nicole: nooo i will never ever ever ever ever go out to eat with my friends
[7/2/2012 5:01:46 AM] christina nicole: i am traumatized i cant even get in a car im sooo scared
[7/2/2012 5:03:03 AM] christina nicole: it was a small sports car but that makes it worse
[7/2/2012 5:03:07 AM] Sami Sami: It’s OK. Accidents like this don’t happen every day. Don’t let it bother you too much. I KNOW YOUR ARE PROBABLY VERY MADE. But try to get through it
[7/2/2012 5:03:37 AM] christina nicole: i hope my face doesnt scar up that would just really hurt me
[7/2/2012 5:04:33 AM] christina nicole: my brother omg he was veryyyy angry he was yelling at me saying im the only thing he has because my dad died i have never seen him like this
[7/2/2012 5:06:09 AM] Sami Sami: Common, you will be Ok, don’t let bother you. If you a little care or two plastic surgeries are hre to take care of it, but ckeck them first. The could be small and pretty like some birth amrks
[7/2/2012 5:06:30 AM] christina nicole: nooo the one of my head is long and curvy lol
[7/2/2012 5:06:34 AM] christina nicole: and my nose is very swollen
[7/2/2012 5:06:40 AM] Sami Sami: WOW
[7/2/2012 5:06:41 AM] christina nicole: its fractured in to places
[7/2/2012 5:07:11 AM] Sami Sami: Must have a made a little map on your head LOL
[7/2/2012 5:07:34 AM] christina nicole: it looks like it
[7/2/2012 5:07:45 AM] christina nicole: my family was teasing me and calling me scarface
[7/2/2012 5:07:47 AM] christina nicole: or scar
[7/2/2012 5:08:19 AM] Sami Sami: ONE little bit of advice ( It’s soo little, but it’s big in it’s effect) JUST KEEP SMILING
[7/2/2012 5:09:11 AM] Sami Sami: If it’s a scare, you can scare themwhen ever you like to LOL
[7/2/2012 5:09:38 AM] christina nicole: a big scare and a big no no no no more going out to eat after 8
[7/2/2012 5:10:01 AM] Sami Sami: Before 8 is Julli nice
[7/2/2012 5:11:19 AM] Sami Sami: Take pictuers of your self, you can use with your frirnd who was driving
[7/2/2012 5:11:34 AM] Sami Sami: Just to make her feel bad LOL
[7/2/2012 5:12:08 AM] christina nicole: she already does she called me 4325346536 times crying saying she was very sorry and when she can come over to apolagize and i said never my family will really give u a talking
[7/2/2012 5:12:25 AM] christina nicole: and i dont want things to get intense .. cause what if i died or i was in a coma
[7/2/2012 5:12:27 AM] christina nicole: my son needs me
[7/2/2012 5:12:33 AM] christina nicole: and she was playing with my life
[7/2/2012 5:13:20 AM] Sami Sami: My Dear Be Happy that your still alive
[7/2/2012 5:13:40 AM] christina nicole: yes im very happy very very very happy
[7/2/2012 5:14:12 AM] Sami Sami: also make sure that your friend never do this agian, play with people lives
[7/2/2012 5:14:29 AM] christina nicole: o i have a question what in the world does it say about 500 and why
[7/2/2012 5:15:16 AM] Sami Sami: It’s just a dowery amount that hase to be there.
[7/2/2012 5:15:26 AM] christina nicole: what is that ??
[7/2/2012 5:15:53 AM] Sami Sami: You don’t know what’s a dowery ?
[7/2/2012 5:16:20 AM] christina nicole: no
[7/2/2012 5:16:23 AM] christina nicole: but im looking it up
[7/2/2012 5:16:47 AM] Sami Sami: It’s the ammount that a man has to pay, it’s a relgioust symbol
[7/2/2012 5:17:23 AM] Sami Sami: And it’s a must in marriages
[7/2/2012 5:17:33 AM] christina nicole: wow ive never heard of those things
[7/2/2012 5:17:48 AM] christina nicole: :|
[7/2/2012 5:17:57 AM] Sami Sami: C you live and learn.
[7/2/2012 5:18:37 AM] Sami Sami: Aren’t luck that your still alive and that you’v just learned a new word
[7/2/2012 5:18:49 AM] christina nicole: lol yes i guess
[7/2/2012 5:18:51 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 5:19:03 AM] christina nicole: just not lucky that my face is messed up
[7/2/2012 5:19:13 AM] Sami Sami: I want you to promis me something
[7/2/2012 5:19:22 AM] christina nicole: yes?
[7/2/2012 5:20:09 AM] Sami Sami: Just keep smiling don’t let those scare thoughts make un happy
[7/2/2012 5:20:58 AM] Sami Sami: Somr times people get prettier with such changes
[7/2/2012 5:21:29 AM] Sami Sami: Some crazy one’s go to tatto’s to change the way they look
[7/2/2012 5:22:06 AM] christina nicole: im trying but still in alot of shock …
[7/2/2012 5:22:27 AM] christina nicole: im just hoping everything goes well
[7/2/2012 5:22:33 AM] christina nicole: with rayan bahi and i
[7/2/2012 5:22:47 AM] christina nicole: thats besides the pain in my face
[7/2/2012 5:22:59 AM] Sami Sami: Tht’s normal, the shock will be with you for some time, and it will just fade away
[7/2/2012 5:24:00 AM] Sami Sami: The pain too will go away. Isn’t this what the Doctor told you
[7/2/2012 5:24:24 AM] christina nicole: yes he gave me medications for that but there too strong for me and makes my heart race
[7/2/2012 5:25:38 AM] Sami Sami: Just be patient it will fade away, give it a little time
[7/2/2012 5:26:52 AM] Sami Sami: Every thing else is fine, this is something to be Happy for
[7/2/2012 5:28:33 AM] Sami Sami: If you say what would u be like if something really bad happned, and thank God that it’s what it is
[7/2/2012 5:28:58 AM] christina nicole: im looking foward for things to get fixed
[7/2/2012 5:29:14 AM] Sami Sami: Smile
[7/2/2012 5:29:30 AM] Sami Sami: What time do u ahve now
[7/2/2012 5:29:41 AM] christina nicole: 529 am
[7/2/2012 5:30:04 AM] Sami Sami: early bird
[7/2/2012 5:30:15 AM] christina nicole: i havent slept
[7/2/2012 5:30:19 AM] christina nicole: rayan is still awake
[7/2/2012 5:30:21 AM] christina nicole: hes on saudi time
[7/2/2012 5:30:26 AM] Sami Sami: then Night owel
[7/2/2012 5:30:29 AM] christina nicole: asleep all day awake all night
[7/2/2012 5:30:48 AM] Sami Sami: it’s 1:30 pm
[7/2/2012 5:31:30 AM] christina nicole: is it possible for him to sign the papers and still not talk with me at all
[7/2/2012 5:32:10 AM] Sami Sami: NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Don’t worry. He will talk to you.
[7/2/2012 5:32:56 AM] Sami Sami: Why are you girls are always over worrying.
[7/2/2012 5:33:04 AM] christina nicole: hahah thats just girls
[7/2/2012 5:33:33 AM] christina nicole: rayan just pooped on me
[7/2/2012 5:33:39 AM] Sami Sami: Is this how u make ltlle stories in the head line LOL
[7/2/2012 5:34:10 AM] Sami Sami: That’s good new’s means youll have a new dress
[7/2/2012 5:34:18 AM] christina nicole: hahah omg gross
[7/2/2012 5:34:23 AM] christina nicole: bahi needs to get pooped on
[7/2/2012 5:34:56 AM] Sami Sami: Some day he will, he should enjoy the Aroma too
[7/2/2012 5:35:12 AM] christina nicole: very smelly
[7/2/2012 5:35:35 AM] christina nicole: groossss
[7/2/2012 5:36:10 AM] Sami Sami: 21 years ago u did the same
[7/2/2012 5:36:33 AM] Sami Sami: Now u appreciate what mothers do
[7/2/2012 5:37:12 AM] Sami Sami: IT”S PAY BACK TIME
[7/2/2012 5:37:43 AM] christina nicole: thats what my mother tells me all the time
[7/2/2012 5:38:19 AM] Sami Sami: Porbably with a little smile too
[7/2/2012 5:38:44 AM] christina nicole: but its cause rayan has a constipation problem so when he does poop ohhh he does alootttttt of poop
[7/2/2012 5:39:12 AM] christina nicole: did u see the new pic i sent u of rayan he looks exactly like his dad
[7/2/2012 5:39:23 AM] Sami Sami: So he gives it like a bounty
[7/2/2012 5:39:42 AM] *** christina nicole sent 553921_10151857448575397_1952736044_n.jpg ***
[7/2/2012 5:41:12 AM] Sami Sami: Cute little Rascel
[7/2/2012 5:41:23 AM] christina nicole: he looks alot like bahi but he has my big cheeks
[7/2/2012 5:41:52 AM] Sami Sami: It’s always a little mix
[7/2/2012 5:42:27 AM] christina nicole: yes a very cute baby but he get his hairyness from his father not from me
[7/2/2012 5:42:27 AM] Sami Sami: Roundish nose wth chubby Cheecks LOL
[7/2/2012 5:42:40 AM] christina nicole: he looks like rotanas son
[7/2/2012 5:43:09 AM] Sami Sami: Some carbon copy foot frints are there
[7/2/2012 5:43:23 AM] christina nicole: whats that
[7/2/2012 5:43:53 AM] Sami Sami: I mean it’s from the genes, that kids come similar
[7/2/2012 5:44:50 AM] Sami Sami: Is he like a little Teddy Bear
[7/2/2012 5:44:59 AM] Sami Sami:
[7/2/2012 5:45:36 AM] christina nicole: yes i really want bahi to hold his son i think it would change him
[7/2/2012 5:46:11 AM] Sami Sami: Yes for sure it will
[7/2/2012 5:46:38 AM] Sami Sami: When will send the mail
[7/2/2012 5:46:58 AM] christina nicole: today at 830 am
[7/2/2012 5:48:02 AM] Sami Sami: Can u add the birth ceritficate, I will need it later on anyway
[7/2/2012 5:48:21 AM] Sami Sami: a cop
[7/2/2012 5:48:26 AM] Sami Sami: copy
[7/2/2012 5:48:44 AM] christina nicole: i dont have it i havent gotten it from the court house cause i wanted bahi to sign it on an email so he never did
[7/2/2012 5:49:11 AM] christina nicole: the only thing i have is his social
[7/2/2012 5:49:13 AM] Sami Sami: OK. let me finish my work here first
[7/2/2012 5:49:17 AM] christina nicole: and thats it
[7/2/2012 5:50:02 AM] Sami Sami: So we can say, he is Social
[7/2/2012 5:50:20 AM] christina nicole: noohhahaha is social security number
[7/2/2012 5:50:33 AM] Sami Sami: I know I know
[7/2/2012 5:50:47 AM] christina nicole: how long will this process take more or less?
[7/2/2012 5:51:32 AM] Sami Sami: I am not sure exactly, never did something like this before
[7/2/2012 5:51:53 AM] christina nicole: oh okay
[7/2/2012 5:52:36 AM] Sami Sami: I will have to go, I have to finish many things
[7/2/2012 5:53:18 AM] Sami Sami: you take care of yourself, keep smiling, and give a kiss to Rayan
[7/2/2012 5:53:44 AM] christina nicole: ok
[7/2/2012 5:53:53 AM] Sami Sami: By
Fake marriage contract sent to christina