I created Saudi Children Left Behind in hopes of uniting women in need who have children with Saudi men who have chosen not to be involved with their children


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  1. Saudi Father

    But why did you choose “Saudi” among all other fathers? Cause that thing can happen anywhere in the world.

    • Because I fell in love with the man who said he fell in love with me also. You are correct in this can happen anywhere in the world, the difference here is the Saudi men tend to run away when they get a foreign woman pregnant with their child. They lie their way into our hearts and into our beds. They take advantage of foreign women. When we get pregnant with their seed they say we are whores when the day before they promised to love us forever. If this is the way Saudi men behave in foreign country’s I don’t believe they should be aloud out of their own little bubble. Bottom line is these men CANNOT be trusted!!! My son is 3 1\2 and his father left my country only 3 weeks ago and he still pretended he was a virgin …and I was a liar. Men like this bring shame to the religion of Islam and bring shame to the word father.

      • Saudi Father

        Jennifer, trust me I don’t know what he was thinking by leaving his son and go back home without any connections. And I don’t know why he called you a lair if you were together for years. But the thing I don’t get it from you, what you want from the Government to do in these cases?

        If the case was raping, the Saudi gov. will act and help you. But since you were in love and decided to have a child, it’s not the government responsibility to force anyone of you to take care of the child. If both of you can’t, the Saudi will try to find a good foster family for him (Since he is a half Saudi).

        Sultan is an adult, and the gov. can’t do nothing to change his mind. If he decide to leave his son, that’s up to him, ethically wrong but unfortunately, legally ok :(

        I really feel sorry for you and Joseph. Sultan was a bad choice from you, and Joseph have to take the consequences.

        And, I support you to let his family know about Joseph. So later, he can contact them and know his other half family.

      • Mahdi

        I`m sorry to read about how you have been lied to. Dear, find your lesson in your own tragic story, and never ever sell your heart, soul, and beauty to just anyone. I lived in your country for about 5 years, and I know that many Saudis, in particular, have shown this inhuman behavior. Nowadays, many people declare commitment (Marriage), but they never fulfill their promises. So, it would not be much of a surprise that what comes easily would go easily. I`m not judging you here, and I don`t know how much time it took you to form your relationship with this man that lied to you, yes he did! However, I would put some of the blame on you, dear. You should have been more careful by making your self a commodity whose only price is COMMITMENT. Two things hurt me the most in your story; 1- the kid that has been left with unknown father. 2- The hypocritical behavior of your partner who would consider what he did adultery in KSA but normal in the U.S. Anyways, Hope your situation will be resolved soon. I read you story, and you and your 3 and 1/2 year old kid are in thoughts.


      • Thank you for your comment. You are correct in I should have been more careful, but in my heart I believed him. Hopefully this will help other women involved with a Saudi man be more vigilant than I was. I thank you for keeping my sweet little boy in your thoughts.

  2. yoyo

    What I read blog something very sad
    And I have a simple suggestion for you .. Do you accept it?

    These young Saudis do not represent youth Saudi Arabia
    Unfortunately in any country in the world or religion does not accept this thing .. Leaving the child and flee

    It is shameful
    I can guide you to the sites that are special in every tribe and father a child runaway
    And writing comes your turn inside until the image is complete complaint with
    And I’m sure they Aaradwn I’m their son to live so

    Wait Wardak to provide you with information

  3. Hello A Thank you for visiting our blog. It seems like you are having the same problems as we are getting any help from the Saudi government….or anyone for that matter :( I am sorry you have had to go through so much only to still have no answers. If you are interested I would love to post your story with any pictures you may have, you can also include a letter to your father. Someone may recognize him and be able to give you some information on him. I want to give you my email so we can communicate further if you would like. saudi_children_left_behind@hotmail.com. Best wishes & I hope to hear from you.

  4. A

    @Saudi Father
    Yes you are correct on your points however doing a little research yields that this can and DOES happen anywhere in the world but in Saudi its an epidemic of grand proportions!
    For some reason many Saudis act like Saudis first, muslims second when they should be abiding by teaching of the Prophet (PBUH).
    They do the deed and then turn around and pretend like everyone else should clean up the mess..they have no conscience of the consequence of their actions and simply do not care. Thats not to say ALL Saudis are like this, no quite the opposite, i have Saudi relatives myself who are very good respectable people. But when theres an environment that assists in implementation of this form of behavior then its a problem because it has long lasting effects for the World at large. Yes the gov’t cant force them to do the right thing but if theres enough of awareness or dialogue, maybe it can change what society allows and maybe people will think twice about their actions.

  5. Saudi Father

    A, I agree with you that Saudis more than other nationalities to do that. But, what do you mean by “awareness”? The Gov. already said no marriage to non-saudi women without a permission from the Saudi internal ministry. And in Sultan’s case, he already signed a paper (for a scholarship) that he cannot marry a non-saudi woman.

    And trust me, while I’m writing this comment, there are more than 80,000 saudi students in the US. And more than 300,000 for the last 25 years. So, those cases are less than 0.0001%.

    My advice is, before you decide to have a child from a man (Saudi or non-Saudi), you have to meet, or at least know his family.

    For me, as a male adult, I cannot have a child with a mystery woman, that I haven’t met her parents, siblings, grandmothers, grandfathers.

  6. Dear A,
    I am Saudi guy whot got really shocked from such stories I knew about it only from this blog, all I can do is to be helpful in those cases, if you can just let me know more about your story and the information you have to use it correctly in my search. this is my email : mzhrlim@gmail.com and FYI, just today I reach one of those runaway fathers I knew him thru this blog and you can read the full story of him and his child here http://saudichildrenleftbehind.com/2012/05/05/lisis-story/ , since I am living in KSA, I might can do something for you.


  7. saudi girl

    i will help you to send this website 2 everyone here
    cuz we are so shamed from what they did

    broadcast it pllllllllz

    • Anonymous

      ستحملين ذنوب كل من نشر الموضوع ان كان احدهم مظلوم

      • مافي دخان من غير نار والناس ماتتبلى بعصر التقنيه كل شي بالدم يبين كان انكر وبنعرف الحقيقه على قوله المثل الي بالقدر يطلعه الملاس

  8. I think it will be better if you put all the names and pictures in Arabic and English (with link to every story). so, people can reached them easy and also the media (Saudi media).

    maybe the only way to find them( since the child came without marriage ) is those information reached to their family.
    maybe social network and Saudi media

    try to contact this news website it’s very popular in SA

    God Help you all


  9. Anonymous

    good luck friend :)

  10. Anonymous

    good luck ? maybe :)

  11. Aziz

    I just received a prod-cast regarding your runaway father. The web site was attached.
    It is really a shameful thing to be done specially from a Muslim man.

    Whatever the adultery sin he did back there in US, he must not leave his child like that. That happened because of unrealistic and unreasonable teenager sent by the government to educate him. Unfortunately we were focusing in materialism and we forgot about moralities.

    Those young Saudis did not re-contact you and want to forget and take you out of there awful part of their life because of the shame which will hunt them here in KSA and scared to be known among their families. And if there were men enough, they can simply marry officially to you and bring you to KSA (since the love still there) and of course as respectful women in our country, and heel the pain, shame and the sin they did in US.

    I also do not want to forget about you shared the sin with our “Runaway fathers”. You also did not think about the consequences of the unmarried relationship. This is exactly why we as a Muslims, do not share our bed other than our wife’s. (Yes we have adultery sin makers shamefully) but they do it secretly or away from their families as in your case now.

    Anyhow, what happen…Had happened. And I feel really helpless to what I can do to our country sons in US. I also have no idea about how to help this issue.

    As a conclusion all I can say to you all that I am so sorry about what happened to you. and want to assist you in any way I can (if it is applicable).
    I am a Saudi living in Riyadh. This is my email if you need assistance here in Riyadh.

  12. استغفر الله بسس

    كل رجال بالعالم ممكن يقع بنفس الشي سواء سعودي او امريكي , مو بس السعودي اللي تجيه شهوه وباقي الرجال ماتجيهم , الغلط اللي ارتكبوه انهم هربوا وتركوا المسؤوليه ونفس الشي اي رجال عربي راح يخاف من مواجهة اهله كونه مسلم لانه بلحضة ضعف وطيش ماقدر يمنع نفسه عن الحرمه .. اكيد هو حياته سوده ومو مرتاح فيها ماتعرفون ظروفهم لااتدعون عليهم وتتفلسفون ادعولهم بالهدايه وانه يروح ويتزوجها ويعترف فيها غير كذا قولوا الحمدلله الذي عافانا والله لا تبلانا ولا تبلى عيالنا (من عاب ابتلى) الله يصلح الجميع

  13. Naif

    هذه مشكلة الأب وليست مشكلة الام !!
    لأن الأب مسلم ويجب أن يعلم أنه لايجوز له أن يقرب أي فتاة مالم تكن زوجته سواء كانت مسلمة أو نصرانية أو يهودية أو غيرها من أهل الكتاب .
    وأنه لايجوز له هجرها دون إخبارها بسبب هجره لها وأن يطلقها الطلاق الشرعي إذا كان قد عقد عليها عقد النكاح الشرعي.

    وأما الشباب الذين يلعبون بالبنات باسم الحب ويأخذها خدينة له Girlfriend فهذه لا تعتبر زوجة حقيقية ولا يجوز له أن يقربها وما جاء منها من أبناء بسببه فله أحكامه الشرعية التي ينبغي عليه سؤال أهل العلم عنها .

    اللهم اهد شباب المسلمين وفتياته .

  14. Wise man

    look for a new husband form Saudi Arabia…

  15. Hello everyone. I would like to thank you all for taking the time to view the blog and make comments. Those who posted in Arabic I am working on getting them translated to I can reply properly so if you don’t see your comment listed it will be approved as soon as I can get it translated.

    First off I want to thank all those who have been supportive and sent messages offering help. Words can not express how grateful I am for all of your kind words. You have shown the world that there are wonderful people in Saudi Arabia. and you all are proof that not all Saudi’s hateful.

    Now for all that have chose to be cruel and leave comments saying that we are whores and are blackmailing the men for money…..Well in what world do you live in where when a woman tries to find the father of her child it is blackmail? I do understand why some in your culture consider us whores, but thankfully I live in a free society where we don’t treat others in that manner.
    Any woman who is currently in a relationship with a Saudi man please know what you are up against. You will find wonderful people who will be supportive but on the flip side many will not approve and if you find yourself pregnant with a baby by a Saudi you might find yourself on the receiving end of these malicious comments.

    I created the blog so other women would never feel alone or have to stand up alone. Your cruel comments only make me stronger and show me and the world why it is so important for us to stand up together against all those that would curse us.

    Ladies be strong and don’t let the distastefull comments bother you use them as the fuel that keeps you going. Remember we are doing this for our children and in the end it will be worth all the pain we have endured.

    • Sat

      I might not have time to visit this blog in a regular basis. So, if you need any help regarding the translation, please send me email.

      I guess you can see my email, so, i did not write here.

      Good luck

  16. NADINE

    i’m orginally from saudbut who cares are men are always there for us bitches and hoes and bastard it for u white people and other.

  17. Faroug

    I really feel sorry for the poor children who are the real victims of all this. However I felt that the tone of this blog had some racist flavor since it was aimed at saudis only. is it only saudis who abandon their children?
    I assure you that I don’t accept what these bastards did to thier children but bare in mind that they started wrong so the result of their actions were wrong. they do not represent the real socity of saudi arabia. In fact these individuals are the scum of saudis.
    lets go back to the point I sarted with which is that it is not only the saudis who do that. I will refer to the USA statistics from the main source in USA; the census bureau and I qute:

    Who is the “Average” or “Typical” Single Parent?:
    Every story is different, but when you examine the figures, actual single parent statistics may surprise you. According to Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2007, released by the U.S. Census Bureau in November, 2009, there are approximately 13.7 million single parents in the United States today, and those parents are responsible for raising 21.8 million children (approximately 26% of children under 21 in the U.S. today).

    However, the majority of individuals raising children alone started out in committed relationships and never expected to be single parents. According to the U.S. Census Bureau…

    The Typical Single Parent is a Mother:
    •Approximately 84% of custodial parents are mothers, and
    •16% of custodial parents are fathers
    She is Divorced or Separated:
    Of the mothers who are custodial parents:
    •45% are currently divorced or separated
    •34.2% have never been married
    •19% are married (In most cases, these numbers represent women who have remarried.)
    •1.7% were widowed
    Of the fathers who are custodial parents:
    •57.8% are divorced or separated
    •20.9% have never married
    •20% are currently married (In most cases, these numbers represent men who have remarried.)
    •Fewer than 1% were widowed
    She is Employed:
    •79.5% of custodial single mothers are gainfully employed
    49.8% work full time, year round
    29.7% work part-time or part-year
    •90% of custodial single fathers are gainfully employed
    71.7% work full time, year round
    18.4% work part-time or part-year
    She and Her Children Do Not Live in Poverty:
    •27% of custodial single mothers and their children live in poverty
    •12.9% of custodial single fathers and their children live in poverty
    She Does Not Receive Public Assistance:
    Among custodial single mothers:
    •22% receive Medicaid
    •23.5% receive food stamps
    •12% receive some form of public housing or rent subsidy
    •5% receive receive TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)
    She is 40 Years Old or Older:
    •39.1% of custodial single mothers are 40 years old or older
    She is Raising One Child:
    •54% of custodial mothers are raising one child from the absent parent
    •46% have two or more children living with them



  19. hala

    Dear Mothers and Saudi children left behind…
    I’m a 30 somthing year old saudi female, born, raised and educated in saudi to both saudi parents…from the moment i somehow ended up on your site you all are part of my family. i feel protective as if you and your kids are my own and the blood boils within me because i want to get out there and find those shameless men but i find my self helpless. there are many wonderful saudi men that i wish and pray to God the world will see and focus on instead of these self serving individuals who chose to ignore their culture, forget their faith, abandon common decency, decieve and use those who care about them and neglect their own flesh and blood.
    i admire you all for being brave enough to expose them to the world and think it’s probably th greatest and fastest way to reach their families. the website could use a little more organizing and a search tool that could enable visitors to search a cases database by year and state. i also call for women around the world in similar situation ( not only with saudi men but the arab world in general) to create similar websites and have them all connected to create a worldwide database for kids and their families to get closer and get justice.
    in regards to saudi, i’m not sure what i can do to help but i did hear a few years back about a charity called “Awaser” created by the government specifically to deal with saudi kids abroad. i’ll aska round for more details and contact numbers to post. i’ll spread this website link as much as i can because nothing will be worse to these men than to have their names, pictures and detailed story of how they behaved and what they did when they thought no one was looking and thought they can get away with whatever, have all of that spread not only for them to see but for their families, friends and coworkers….in our society that could be worse than a death sentence. he will walk in shame, eat in shame, work in shame, sleep in shame…if he has a wife and kids in saudi, oh boy….
    my sisters, you and your children (legitimate or not) are in my heart and my prayers till i face Allah on judgement day. May God bless you and guide you to peace and content.
    p.s. i beg you don’t hate us all saudis for what those jerks did.

    • Mimi

      Do you think Saudi women would be interested in a list of the names of Saudi men who have been in serious relationships while abroad? That way, Saudi women KNOW the history of the SAUDI PERSON they are about to marry. They are many more cases of abandoned Saudi children, only few courageous women have posted their cases.


      Saudi women, please vote by giving thumbs up on this if you would like for women to share names of guys they have been in a relationship with.

      I am sure nobody would ever want to find out 20 or 30 years after their marriage with a Saudi man that he has a son or daughter he abandoned while studying abroad like the case of Gabriel or Atif.

      • Iashah

        Good idea, but sadly in some cases its not their choice who they marry.For god sake some of their husbands have multiple wifes.

      • Um Ayman

        We should post even their pictures so as to warn women like us..

    • Mandre

      Salam Hala,

      Jazakallah khair… you kind words are special for us… We don’t hate Saudis, we knows and understand that not all the Saudi nor Muslims are like these guys. We all respect Saudi Arabia even if these guys abandoned our kids.

  20. A

    As a Saudi child left behind I thank you for your kind words and support! Much appreciated effort for assisting with information that is useful for shining a light on this behavior

  21. Nemer

    Salam to all

    Here is some solutions that could be useful:

    For women who got married from a Saudi muslim:

    There is some thing called المحكمة الشرعية “Sharia Court” …. this court is responsible of marriage cases (divorce, children custody, children’s raising expenses ) ….. you can go to a Muslim Sharia Lawyer , taking all paper required to prove the marriage …… and this lawyer should tell you what to do …… but the embassy have nothing to do with these cases….

    For women who did not get married from a Saudi muslim (girlfriends):

    Having a sexual relationship without marriage is a crime in the Saudi Law and in Islam…..if this sexual relationship was proved in the court …. it may cause the judge to send this man to be killed , and they consider that the child belongs to the woman ( I’m not sure about this about … ask).

    wish you all luck

  22. What's the difference?

    I think having girlfriends and getting pregnant is pretty much normal in the US.. a lot of girls are single mom’s because of lots of jerks who r from the US or outside the US…

    I don’t understand why this blog was created only for saudi guys.. they were jerks and its obvious, but its kind of normal in the US isnt it? I mean if you look at the building where you are living at, you will find ladies who are single moms because of US guys as well who never admit their kids..

    so what’s the issue? is it the “saudi” or the “single mom”..
    if its money issue, i assure you many saudi guys have average to poor salaries… you ain’t getting much
    if its about single mom, you probably should thought of this before, just like any other girl who gets pregnant from their boyfriends no matter what is his nationality, they just live with it ect

    as for people calling you whores , as you said; in your society its free and pretty much opened up.. so having different relationships/getting pregnant is normal there.. but in the arab world its not ok, and you wont be looked at like an “angel” who got fooled because of love.. keep that in mind when you see people replying to your posts, they don’t mean to insult you.. it’s just the different societies view and how each person was raised.

    if it’s not a rape, there’s no case.. its pretty much your responsibility now until he feels bad and decide to show up. proving the kid is the saudi’s by DNA won’t get you far, in fact you might have to go to court in KSA and get punished for that.. also kids who are born because of a relationship that isn’t married, will NOT carry the father’s name, even if they got married afterwards..

    i hope this was like alarm to you and to the people near you, that in every relationship you need to set boundaries that you can never cross them.. who cares if he is your boyfriend? i don’t think you should get physically attached to anyone who isnt your husband.

    As for those who are MARRIED to those guys, just contact a court in KSA and you’ll be entitled to get your rights from those saudi fathers (if your marriage was correct and you have the right papers to support it..)

  23. jaguar

    I would advise you don’t open a relationship with Arabs

  24. Rawyah

    Your blog is on local Saudi news papers.
    Hope this will help you and the children.

  25. emmy

    Hi! I have a Saudi son who is now 12 years old. I was 17, almost 18 when he was born. I think my story is a little different. My son’s father left before he was born, but he was in the KSA Royal Airforce, so he really didn’t have a choice in it. He did maintain contact with me over the years, but failed to pay child support. At one point he questioned the paternity of my son but said it only once. To this day if i text or call him, he calls right back and he talks to my son. However, there has been no significant contact. So he may as well have just never called i guess. It’s cool knowing there are so many others out there. Great site, needs to be made into a networking site! :)

  26. nawal

    Saudi man has different background from any race but he always pretend he has open mind especially when he going out the country , ,, but in fact when he wanna marriage and childrren he will choice virgin girl ,,,,,,,, sorry he dose not consider the love in these matter

  27. Turkish Master

    this site is focusing in only saudis..WHY? Big WHYYYY.

    I have lived in a complex in Ohio, where 90% of them are single moms with no fathers !!!!

    Infact, there are lots of cases where an American man knock and leave ( as if nothing happens ), and no body question that. simply because most of these men are broke, and moms want to live in goverment support by haveing a child.

    isn’t that right? anyone can disagree ?

    let us say there are 10 cases where saudi father left their kids. Then I am very sure there are millions of American who left their kids.

    There are lots of Arab kids in the states without their father, and I never seen a website searching for them. why?

    I can see lots of hate going here against saudi here. this is not going to help anybody. I say this and I am not even arab.

    all those disparate women who slept with a guy outside the marriage, this is the outcome of it. Knock and Leave.



  28. j


    I have a family member whom is Saudi looking for his daughter taken from him. She is older now, but i will not disclose to much info so i dont bring attention to my family. The wife is American, and it has been many years of separation on her part. The Saudi father wants to reunite with his daughter. I am not wanting to give a name, but if you are a half Saudi/American female, leave a msg. here. I will know who you are just give me a first initial of your name, or your mothers first name. please don’t use full name.

  29. Well if he is looking for my daughter he can forget it. He already caused her a nervous breakdown and we have tried to help her get better. I always worry that he might try to take her children since he abandoned her and I am going to talk to her husband. He doesn’t understand why her father just doesn’t come around like a normal person would. I need to talk to her husband and get him to see that he might be dangerous. Have any of you women ever seriously thought about that? Don’t you watch the News? Get real! My daughter has a good husband and great kids. If only she could see that she doesn’t need him. “That ship has sailed, buddy!”

  30. Melissa

    I am also a mother of a 16 year old daughter who, her father is in Saudi. She wants to find her father and see him. The last time he saw her she was 2 years old. She knows of Islam. She just needs some help to find her father. I do know of some places he may be in Saudi. Please help my daughter Find her father.

  31. john

    Just ask the US government to stop them from coming to your country

  32. Hadi

    I am Hadi Ask about Mana Hanish al-Yami almost 32-year-old from a Saudi father and American mother, if anyone knows about anything tells me via email..

  33. j

    so far no one is matching the girl im looking for. to marge, this girl is not married to a saudi, that i know of. and her mothers name is not marge. and hadi, your age is closer to the girl im looking for. this child lived with her father for a good time, yet before puberty age she was taken away. she did know her dad. im not sure if the mother changed her name, because there is no names of this girl or mother on the internet. strange. i guess it will take the girl who wants to connect with her father to stumble on this blog.

    • That’s right. She is married to an American now. She is about the age of Mana Hanish al-Yami but she never lived with her father. Her father is an Al-Harbi. I think it is best if they leave us alone for the sake of my descendants that I want to stay here in America and be Christians. Have a nice life. Have a nice life. Have a nice life.

  34. mKb

    I’m so surprised to read such stories, those people should have being studying in U.S , not making love, having children and left them behind …

    What a heart a man would have if he left his child behind and if he broke his promise to marry a women who he had achild with

  35. Ficl

    كنت اظن ان اولادنا ياتون محملين باخبار اسلام اصداقئهم على ايديهم وانقاذ اكبر عدد ممكن من عذاب المسيحية المحرفة الى الاسلا م فاذا بالامور
    تاتي بالهدم والخراب والاسائة
    اتمنى من السعوديات التعلم من هذا الدرس القاسي جدا جدا
    ما يمنع الرجل يتزوج وتسلم البنت ويعيش معها بالتفاهم ان اسلمت على ايدك فهذا خير لك من الدنيا ومافيهااتمنى ان نمعن النظر وفي معنى ان الله سبحانه من اسمائه “الستار”
    For moms here please you should cotact with http://www.awasser.org.sa/en/index.php?page=vmo

    • Kim Mercer

      Has anyone had any luck with Awasser? I was married to a Saudi for 10 years, we’re now mid-divorce & he’s back in Riyadh so I contacted them re: our 2-year-old daughter, Awasser has basically said they can’t do anything for me until the child has a Saudi passport and ID (which I am working on, but the consulate insists she has to have a Muslim name, so I’m changing that). Just wondering if anyone has gotten them to help or if I’m doing all this running around for nothing. My ex is in touch with us and helpful, he has no money of his own to send though & is living off his father (long story short, he’s an alcoholic & has mental issues, after the baby came it wasn’t safe for him to be around).

      • Hi Kim,

        I’ve tried to contact Awasser many times but they are helpless. They will always give you an excuse to do nothing for our kids. However, i wish you all the best and will pray to receive the help your daughter needs :)

      • Probably about 99% of us on this blog and beyond whom have reached out to Awasser for help in locating our Saudi families have either been turned down or we never heard anything after contacting them. My personal situation I emailed and no response Ever. Others have left messages to their offices but they never received any reply either.

      • What you have said it’s the pure true… I wrote to them several times without reply. Then i found out someone with a connection in there and they just replied once. And just a month ago i went to the Saudi Arabian Embassy and they were HELPLESS and very HEARTLESS. May Allah bless them and forgive them.

  36. Glitterysky

    I need your help. How can I tell my story? I was engaged with a man from Saudi Arabia and we have a daughter. It’s a long story, but I still would like it listed here along with his photos and with his daughters photos.

  37. Um Ayman

    I’m also in the same situation.. I have a son from a saudi guy, Ahmed bin Nisha bin Helal Alshaibani Alotaibi.. Nothing’s different, exactly the same story, falling in love, promises, getting me pregnant and running away like a girl.. But at the end I just realized this man doesn’t deserve even a single drop of tear since he is a user and thinks like a teen.. My son is with me and he is healthy and that’s the most important thing for me. I know someday my son will ask about his father and that would be the most difficult question i have to answer in my entire existence.. It’s the saddest part of my life but i’m hoping my son, Ayman will be wiser than his idiot Saudi father.. To all the Saudi children abandoned by their fathers i pray for you and may Allah bless us all!

  38. Um Ayman

    I’m also in the same situation.. I have a son from a Saudi guy, Ahmed bin Nasha bin Helal Alshaibani Alotaibi.. Nothing’s different, exactly the same story, falling in love, promises, getting me pregnant and running away like a girl.. But in the end, I just realized that irresponsible man doesn’t deserve even a single drop of tear since he is a user and thinks like a teen.. My son is with me and he is healthy and that’s the most important thing for me. I know someday my son will ask about his father and that would be the most difficult question i have to answer in my entire existence.. It’s the saddest part of my life but i’m hoping my son, Ayman will be wiser than his idiot Saudi father.. To all the Saudi children abandoned by their fathers i pray for you and may Allah bless us all!

    • Umm Ayman,

      My duas are with your and your son. May Allah guide and forgive these heartless fathers to abandoned their children. If you ever need help or what to publish your story don’t hesitate in contact us.


      Um Sami Alrajhi

  39. Iashah

    To the comments saying o it happens all of the time in the USA. Yea it does, and it needs to stop especially from people who are simply a guest in our home.
    My son is now 3months old, and after the abuse I went threw good ridden.
    Saudi needs to keep that hada, and thanks be to God my son doesn’t have to be raised with a man that justifys that behavior with God.
    Even better thanks be to God my son is not a Saudi.

  40. Z

    My name is Zarah Ajmi , Looking for my father Saad Mohammed Al Ajmi. I was Born Dec 29th 1985. I believe his father is Mohammed Al Ajmi and mother was Sarah Al Ajmi. He was From Riydah Saudi Arabia last known to be in Kuwait in 1992. He attended ASU and UNM in the years of 1980-1985. Any information will be so helpful. I also Have pictures, I have lost the address I had from letters he had sent and have know way of getting in contact with him. Thank you


  41. abdurazaq

    Most heartless.. cruel.. cheaters..liears… in theceorld.. the way they talks smiling. Looks good. But inside …. very bad. I am living in saudi. I know some women prostitute becoz their husband leave them. I am myself cheated by my sposor and his brother in law very badly.

  42. abdurazaq

    There is law and everything.. they calls it sharia( actually its kingdom not islamic countrt) . But what happens now. The laws are for foreigners not for civilians.

  43. Debbie

    Yes to the nice lady who started this blog there is a simple solution. Saudi Arabia has CHOSEN not to be a member of the Hague Commission. If they were members of the Hague Commission then the United States could extract child support from these men. Yes, this same thing happened to me and I could get no help either. My son is now 20 years old. But my son’s father’s family lives here in America. Don’t believe the rations from these Moslems who leave boo hoo comments and their nice Al hamdellah words because there is a simple solution but Saudi Arabia chooses not to accept the responsibility by not being a member of the Hague Commission. If you read the Hague Commission you will see that the solution exhists and is designed to help vulnerable people like you and your child. Sorry to you Saudis but it is the truth. Do your research and blame your own country because the United States of America has a child support system in place and will indeed extract child support if at all possible.

  44. Omar

    Hi Mam
    God bless U and bless your child.
    I am a saudi and I will be very frank and honest about my people .
    Sexual relation outside marriage is totally forbidden and the punishment is more than 40 lashes for single if four witnesses witness the affair or they confess and death penalty for married people if they committed adultery if they confess or if four witnesses witness the affair. So saudi youth most of them do not make love till they get married or the sad story they may make love with another boy not because they are gay or homo but religious police or their families will not doubt they are doing such a thing. It goes for the girls too however in a very very low percentage specially in rich families or ignorant families and broken marriage. Since the early eighties 40 to 70 percent of the saudi families start to have housemaid and drivers. The boys start to have relations with those poor ladies; the housemaids. The housemaids are doing it for money and pleasure. Girls are doing the same things with the drivers. Both driver and housemaid live with the family in the same house. No body can question such behavior since it is happening home. Saudi Islamic approach to Islam has a total segregation between men and women; ladies can only sit and talk with their father, brother, sun, husband or first uncle. It goes for men,however men have double standard.
    I am giving this Breifing about my people so people can understand why we have a weird attitude .
    Now having a baby outside marriage is the most shameful thing that can happen to any Muslim especially Arab from Arabian peninsula . So , any lady got pregnant with a saudi she should expect him to force her to have an abortion or he may push her in the stairs. No saudi can bring home a baby outside marriage even if he got married to his girl after pregnancy.
    All saudi should talk and teach their kids about sexual relation and most important protection.
    American girls should know that Arab and Muslim boys and guys are so desperate for sex that he will swear on his mam life that you
    are the love of his life and he may not know what love is.
    Take my word for granted; GO TO SAUDI EMBESSAY IN WASHINGTON DC OR CONSULATES IN NY, LA OR HUSTON AND FILE YOUR CASE. WE HAVE A GREAT KING AND HE IS THE PRESIDENT AND PRIME MINSTER AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR CASE. We have a big Saudi Kids Agency to handle such case. Saudi court will force him to accept and owner his child.
    Wishing U and your baby the best in life.

  45. Um Ayman

    I read the all the comments and all i can say is pls. don’t think that we are only blaming Saudi guys.. It so happened that this website have one thing in common.. From the title itself “Saudi children left behind” –specifically for “Saudis”. Maybe there are some other websites also for other nationalities. Guys, please don’t blame women alone. We were inloved with a wrong person and yes we are taking the full responsibility for the consequences but who is the main victim here? It’s not us anymore coz somehow we can move on buy our kids? They will always feel they are abandoned and neglected.. That’s why we are helping each other and letting know the public regarding these issues to prevent and warn other women. That’s all guys! Pls. Don’t hate women who fell in love with a wrong person. We believed these liars (goes out to other nationalities too) and it won’t happen again! Ever! Especially if they will have the chance to read all our blogs.. Thank you..

  46. The problem you Americans do not know anything about the Arabs,
    U.S. media shows you a surface picture .
    Desert, Camel,terrorists, oil ,The bad Arabs,. blah blah ….
    things are not real.
    In the Arab-Islamic culture, if a person loves you,
    he will go With his family to your family , and ask them your hand ..
    do not Sleeps with you outside of marriage like animals.
    Son From outside of marriage, is a shame for Arabs..
    you should know this before you have sex with him and become pregnant.

  47. ashley

    hi I would like to say a few words about these posts that I have read first of all I was involved with a guy from Saudi Arabia he’s the one who pushed me into having a relationship with him when I told him I did not want to he continually asked me to be his girlfriend and told me he loved me he told me during his first Christmas break to Saudi Arabia that he told his family about me he talked to me about getting married and me converting to Islam I had no intention on getting pregnant and didn’t even think I could but I did and when I told him he went ballistic I thought that he loved me but insisted that I have an abortion which I did not I I have tried to contact him and he wants nothing to do with me or the kid and if he does answer me only thing he wants as sexual pictures of me and acts like our son doesn’t even exist I don’t know what to do I do have his family’s address in Saudi Arabia I had thought about contacting his school or the embassy and it’s not we are stereotyping Saudi students for I know that many cultures and religions have children outside of marriages but from the things that he has told me that a lot of the Saudi students that come over here are not allowed to have girlfriends or sex outside of marriage and therefore come to the United States and look for a girlfriend to help them study English and help them with their school work I do want to point out that there are some sexual things that do question that they may be engaging in relations with other men over there because of the fact that women are forbidden outside of marriagefor I am NOT trying to say that it Saudi people but I do feel as if anybody over here on a scholarship knows the rules of the program and needs to abide by them plus if they know that their family has an arranged marriage like my ex’s family want him do or they are not supposed to be having relations with girls over here then they should be honest

  48. maria

    Hmmm how can u say that arab saudi man.is serious about the pregnancy, a child..

  49. American Arab woman

    Does this blog still exist?

    I’m currently in this situation. I met my Saudi lover in university. We dated for a year and then I found out I was pregnant by him. We were really in love and put relationship was great. We considered ourselves perfect match and other halves. We are both 24 years old, and when I told him I was pregnant, and that I couldn’t live with myself if I had an abortion, he broke up with me. Now I’m trying to seek help and do whatever I can because it’s not right for him to flee back to KSA and pretend nothing ever happened. I know a lot of information about him and supposedly his family name is well-known. I’m grateful for any help or advice.

  50. American Arab woman

    I just received it and replied :)

  51. Renee

    What are my options ?
    Hi I’m the mother of a beutiful baby boy 8 months now , who’s son from a Saudi guy that I date for over 3 years and he leave me as soonest he know I was pregnant he started to disapear..
    I just thinking if there’s any risk of he may come back and claim my baby as he’s to take it away from me or what can happen.. Plz I need help..

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